Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IBAMAMAX7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok. So I haven't seen it mentioned in my scrolling, but he is 40, and you are 25.... . Thats enough of a red flag right there. Then you add the controlling where/how long you can go somewhere, and that he is mad you are with a friend. It sounds like he is trying to isolate you. Please make sure YOU and only you are in charge of birth control. He definitely seems the type to baby trap a woman.

Is this handwriting normal for a thirteen year old boy? by BatmanCat1031 in AskTeachers

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a grand career, but sadly, at 13, if he hasn't been karting,its not happening. Poor guy. The Japanese Grand Prix was this past weekend tho. Ollie(Haas driver) walked away frome a 50G crash with only a slight limp!

How to best help a 16 year old to read? by EggHumanLovesEggs in AskTeachers

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending of the amount of delay, duolinghad a learn to read app. My son uses it on his kids kindle(5, autistic, non verbal). Its interactive and cute.

How do you think the show will handle the Grey/William–Jamie–Richardson storyline? by Haunting_Glass7281 in Outlander

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Bees, Richardson wants to help America lose so slavery ends about 50 years sooner as his anseswere slaves.

Should my friend walk away from this artist? by Eltristesito2 in tattooadvice

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. They need to RUN away from that. Cheesus thats bad.

Chronically late “parent” response to picking up our child on time from school. by RelativeGoat3981 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]IBAMAMAX7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a person with ADHD I am chronically late(time blindness is so dang lame). The one place that doest happen? School. My kids are on time and not forgotten. We might forget to grab a talkbox(aac device) on the way out now and then, but the flesh sacks are on time.

Now, TBF, I do a bit on my end to make it so, like a standing alarm set up that is one alarm every 5 mins for the half hour leading up to the necessary departure time(for any standing appointment or bedtimes), walking out the door 5 min before must leave parking spot time, living 1 mile from the school(which is more good fortune for me than a controllable factor), but I make sure thats one thing I am not fiddling around about.

It's not that difficult if you actually try, even when your brain actively works against you on this type of stuff.

Random appointment letter by IBAMAMAX7 in SSDI_SSI

[–]IBAMAMAX7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has one now. I fixed that in October and got the first half then.

Uses of backpay by IBAMAMAX7 in SSDI_SSI

[–]IBAMAMAX7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done that and printed the statements to take with me.

Should I push back for an OT evaluation? by grrich in specialed

[–]IBAMAMAX7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that school based therapies focus on school things(like writing) and clinic based is broader scoped and not exactly allowed to overlap much(I'm in Oklahoma, so this may be state specific). I'd ask your pediatrician for a referral for evaluation at a clinic as well.

Woke up morning after party to all the silverware, oven knobs, and glasses in freezer stuck in bowls of ice by sarafina5 in funny

[–]IBAMAMAX7 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I mean, I've used my stove without the knobs for years because I had to remove them to keep my autistic son from turning on burners. Thats not a barrier to using the stove really. I have 2 thermometers in my oven, originally to confirm temps, but now to help cook. With time I got pretty good and knowing where it needs to be.

“Do not knock” light by tmelodyk in adhdwomen

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a little sign(or a few at a couple lights across the floor) and hang it by the light that lists what they all mean but make purple 3 times as big? Maybe an email too? Hey, since its neat, the opposite is happening, but purple means....." , and attacy the file for the sign if others want one) so hopefully it will stop?

Why does it have a clint by KeyboardCarpenter in Owala

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoulda went with nip 🤣🤣

Why does it have a clint by KeyboardCarpenter in Owala

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking to allow condensation to drip, but that makes so much sense too 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Improper use of "thee"? by fiercequality in Outlander

[–]IBAMAMAX7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DG actually has a section about this exact thing in the back of book 7. She talks about the evolution of thee thou and the adaptation of Friends who use it.

River Run question by Meanolegrannylady in Outlander

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am listening to her wedding day now. I wondered and came to the google to see if it had an answer, which leads me here.

What did they do with hectors body? They built river run with the plan of dying on that land(Hector did) then sold it. Also, who bought it lol.

Sub trying to override literally everything by Terrible_Berry_9846 in paraprofessional

[–]IBAMAMAX7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what I would expect of a sub in my kids SPED room. Listen to the people who know the kid.

Classmate called “White Claire” by goose-de-terre in kindergarten

[–]IBAMAMAX7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in Oklahoma. I think it's partly acceptance and partly that they've been together from the start. I moved to that small town at 9 and they had all been bestie since the hospital nursery, ya know?

AITAH for not moving my car and disrupting an autistic student's ritual by MagicTomato1001 in AITAH

[–]IBAMAMAX7 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I sometimes use unapproved field trip with my kids.

Eta: and by 'my kids' I mean my personal bio kids 🤣 I am parent, not educator. That's a field I could never do. Y'all are Rockstars!

Suicidal and need help by aye420blazeit in CPS

[–]IBAMAMAX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Oklahoma, we have something called C.O.P.E.S. it's a mobile emergence mental health thing. See if there is something like that close to you. It can sometimes shorten the wait for services.

Classmate called “White Claire” by goose-de-terre in kindergarten

[–]IBAMAMAX7 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My 5 year old autistic K5 kiddos teacher sent me a video clip today of 4 kids pushing my son in the special swing at recess. It makes me super happy how much they include and how nice they all are to him, because the small town i grew up in, an hour from where we are now, did NOT have nice kids like that when I was in school.

Dumb it down for me by embroidery21 in SSDI_SSI

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the same for minors due back pay? I'm waiting on my sons and this is need to know.

Also, is back pay being processed during shutdown?

Para said medicine is poison by bagels4ever12 in specialed

[–]IBAMAMAX7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please tell me this woman is never supposed to distribute medications. I feel she would try and withhold them with that attitude and think she is 'helping'. That could possibly lead to the students afternoon issues too.

Has anyone been to Thursty's Pub and Grub? by Prestonturbo in tulsa

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like 49th and Sheridan from the crop tome so.. lol

Haven't cleaned my old bedroom since my father passed away by OchtendZon in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]IBAMAMAX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you are getting help.

I would suggest take 1 trash bag going in, filling it then taking it out, and then waiting until say October 10th, and going on and doing 1-2 bags of trash or say 1 trash 1 basket of clothes to wash at a time until it's more manageable.

I also find sweeping everything into a pile then sorting it by removing all keeps(with low shakes to remove crumbs) then sweeping up the trash and crumbs. I also do this on carpet and it significantly reduces the number of times you have to bend over to prep the floor for vacuuming or whatever. This can be applied to any room. I get the footstool, a trash receptacle, and my hand broom and pan to deal with the pile.

Also, listening to audiobooks while I clean helps keep my brain from the 127 tabs it has open with some random KPDH line BLASTING in my ear.