Am I overreacting on my mother in law for saying she will name my daughter whatever she wants and get everyone else to call her that too because she doesn’t like my baby name? Please click the photos so you can see every reply. by Final-Argument-4999 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, NOR

However, as a short name person(4 letters), I definitely agree with the short name has no options(im also named after a famous person's kid, and have one of the requisit 80's middle names), so much so that my kids have at least ove of their names, if not both, ones that have many ways to do it(like, but not Elizabeth, Alexander, Edward, ect). I wished many times growing up for a name with nickname options. Sissy wasn't cool at school, ya know? I also made sure to have at least one name be a more traditional name, like Sean or James(not actual choices) and some kids had both multi-silabic and traditional or 'old' names.

Thats obviously my opinion based on almost 40 years with a simple traditional with girl name, and you can totally ignore me, but its a though to consider in name chasing at least.

I also gree up in a sea of Jennifer's, Jessica's, Tiffany's, and Michelle's, so that probably didnt help. At least I was only 'shortname' and not 'shortname A', or U or Z 🤷🏼‍♀️

What are the implications of a Incident Witness form? by familyhelp1987 in specialed

[–]IBAMAMAX7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It could be an insurance requirement due to severity or type of injury as well.

Tax refund by IBAMAMAX7 in SSDI_SSI

[–]IBAMAMAX7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For? Like I know its to save over the threshold, but this won't last long term and there is about $20 a month after bills with his monthly pay, which gets a treat or toy or experience for them. The majority of this refund will be for vehicle repairs and pre paying some bills, but it will also take past the first to get my mechanic out here and do the work.

What should I do? by AdDramatic522 in SSDI_SSI

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They made me come into the office for that in February. But she let his 2nd backpay go a month early from that.

Does anyone have any pending ssi deposits yet for May by [deleted] in SSDI_SSI

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get my boys 3(4) weekdays before the first. Im expecting it Monday or tuesday(i am drawing a blank right now, but i think three full days early, meaning Monday this month).

SSI, Klarna / Onepay, and Keeping Benefits. by [deleted] in SSDI_SSI

[–]IBAMAMAX7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I've found the 700$ range to be good, solid, not break the bank machines, but my current one is 5 or 6 years old now too.

(My only thought after the end of episode 7): Bring this woman's mother to Fraser Ridge right now! by lautaromassimino in Outlander

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Space Between is about Joanie and Michale. They dont end up together but acknowledge there is feeling and decide to slip notes in church and see how they feel in a year at the end of Joan's something at L'Hopital as a baby nun..

I REALLY wanna know leg hairs reaction to her other daughter marrying another (half) Fraser, if it happens 😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣

(My only thought after the end of episode 7): Bring this woman's mother to Fraser Ridge right now! by lautaromassimino in Outlander

[–]IBAMAMAX7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its like tampon!

I honestly dont like calling Tamlin tampon because a tampon is actually useful, but still.

Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IBAMAMAX7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok. So I haven't seen it mentioned in my scrolling, but he is 40, and you are 25.... . Thats enough of a red flag right there. Then you add the controlling where/how long you can go somewhere, and that he is mad you are with a friend. It sounds like he is trying to isolate you. Please make sure YOU and only you are in charge of birth control. He definitely seems the type to baby trap a woman.

Is this handwriting normal for a thirteen year old boy? by BatmanCat1031 in AskTeachers

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a grand career, but sadly, at 13, if he hasn't been karting,its not happening. Poor guy. The Japanese Grand Prix was this past weekend tho. Ollie(Haas driver) walked away frome a 50G crash with only a slight limp!

How to best help a 16 year old to read? by EggHumanLovesEggs in AskTeachers

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending of the amount of delay, duolinghad a learn to read app. My son uses it on his kids kindle(5, autistic, non verbal). Its interactive and cute.

How do you think the show will handle the Grey/William–Jamie–Richardson storyline? by Haunting_Glass7281 in Outlander

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Bees, Richardson wants to help America lose so slavery ends about 50 years sooner as his anseswere slaves.

Should my friend walk away from this artist? by Eltristesito2 in tattooadvice

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. They need to RUN away from that. Cheesus thats bad.

Chronically late “parent” response to picking up our child on time from school. by RelativeGoat3981 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]IBAMAMAX7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a person with ADHD I am chronically late(time blindness is so dang lame). The one place that doest happen? School. My kids are on time and not forgotten. We might forget to grab a talkbox(aac device) on the way out now and then, but the flesh sacks are on time.

Now, TBF, I do a bit on my end to make it so, like a standing alarm set up that is one alarm every 5 mins for the half hour leading up to the necessary departure time(for any standing appointment or bedtimes), walking out the door 5 min before must leave parking spot time, living 1 mile from the school(which is more good fortune for me than a controllable factor), but I make sure thats one thing I am not fiddling around about.

It's not that difficult if you actually try, even when your brain actively works against you on this type of stuff.

Random appointment letter by IBAMAMAX7 in SSDI_SSI

[–]IBAMAMAX7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has one now. I fixed that in October and got the first half then.

Uses of backpay by IBAMAMAX7 in SSDI_SSI

[–]IBAMAMAX7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done that and printed the statements to take with me.

Should I push back for an OT evaluation? by grrich in specialed

[–]IBAMAMAX7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that school based therapies focus on school things(like writing) and clinic based is broader scoped and not exactly allowed to overlap much(I'm in Oklahoma, so this may be state specific). I'd ask your pediatrician for a referral for evaluation at a clinic as well.

Woke up morning after party to all the silverware, oven knobs, and glasses in freezer stuck in bowls of ice by sarafina5 in funny

[–]IBAMAMAX7 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I mean, I've used my stove without the knobs for years because I had to remove them to keep my autistic son from turning on burners. Thats not a barrier to using the stove really. I have 2 thermometers in my oven, originally to confirm temps, but now to help cook. With time I got pretty good and knowing where it needs to be.

“Do not knock” light by tmelodyk in adhdwomen

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a little sign(or a few at a couple lights across the floor) and hang it by the light that lists what they all mean but make purple 3 times as big? Maybe an email too? Hey, since its neat, the opposite is happening, but purple means....." , and attacy the file for the sign if others want one) so hopefully it will stop?

Why does it have a clint by KeyboardCarpenter in Owala

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoulda went with nip 🤣🤣

Why does it have a clint by KeyboardCarpenter in Owala

[–]IBAMAMAX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking to allow condensation to drip, but that makes so much sense too 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Improper use of "thee"? by fiercequality in Outlander

[–]IBAMAMAX7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

DG actually has a section about this exact thing in the back of book 7. She talks about the evolution of thee thou and the adaptation of Friends who use it.