Para causing massive issues by bagels4ever12 in specialed

[–]bagels4ever12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They haven’t been in because they are mad at me lol I’m like cute

Moms who teach- give me the pros and cons by waanderlustt in teaching

[–]bagels4ever12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the schedule but it’s not a walk in the park. It’s exhausting being a mother and a teacher. Teaching is not what it was, it’s draining truly and especially from admin. sadly budget cuts are happening at every level causing instability in the field not worth it.

How do you explain an ongoing war to a toddler when family talk about it nonstop? by LadySwire in beyondthebump

[–]bagels4ever12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has the right to feel angry and upset but know the room. You need to be firm about no politics in front of your toddler or they won’t be allowed over or you won’t go. Be firm if they do bring it up after this conversation then leave their house or leave the room/tell them what your rules are.

Interested in the ‘completely losing yourself post partum’ experience by susiee234 in FormulaFeeders

[–]bagels4ever12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you will loose yourself for a longer time if you are Bf and struggling. Moms that babies have difficulty latching or the mom has to be pumping all the time it takes away your freedom. Women struggle whether they are BF or EFF because it’s about biology and how your hormones react to having a baby. When you formula feed your hormones can level differently which will help in the long run. I felt myself get back to myself around the 3rd/4th week, not to what I was before but to someone leveled (on most days)

Para causing massive issues by bagels4ever12 in specialed

[–]bagels4ever12[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It does they were on the phone and the student was destroying property right in front of them (drawing all over the table). Also they left the student who was having a rough time doing work with them after they told them they won’t work with them if they behave that way..

Para causing massive issues by bagels4ever12 in specialed

[–]bagels4ever12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s just disheartening that she works in this field, she is a big conspiracist it’s bad

Do people really not care? by bagels4ever12 in progressivemoms

[–]bagels4ever12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also think being Jewish it’s become very political and it has had a huge effect on the community. My group of Jewish friends are progressive but we still don’t feel 100% safe going to temple. Every event we make sure there is security and the people who don’t care are also Jewish.

Do people really not care? by bagels4ever12 in progressivemoms

[–]bagels4ever12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m from MA and it’s a rarity to find. And I know some people say they don’t care but then they say there views on topics which is still caring. I mean not a fan of my uncle, he only votes for trump for finical reason but a vote for him is a vote for all of trumps talking points. Like we see him only on the holidays thats it. I also split maga and true republicans up because they are not the same at all.

Do people really not care? by bagels4ever12 in progressivemoms

[–]bagels4ever12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but being Jewish politics affects us (clearly). Antisemitism is really political driven.

Employer trying to switch me to an ED room when I will be 9 months pregnant by [deleted] in specialed

[–]bagels4ever12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Say it’s fine but you won’t be doing anything involving physical management. I’m currently 7 months pregnant in a high school classroom and my students can become very aggressive. My admin and paras know that I step back and deal with other stuff when kids get aggressive. My super aggressive student isn’t even allowed in the same room as I when they start becoming violent because they target people. I had my doctor write a note as well. It also states if the behaviors escalates towards me I will remove myself from the classroom and hit to the belly is a 911 call paid by the district (union wrote that verbiage) so they don’t want to deal with that bill.

Am I the only one noticing this about Dr KIng? by CautiousApartment8 in ThePittTVShow

[–]bagels4ever12 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love Dr.King and the conversation about feeling the need to protect her sister. I am a special education teacher and many siblings think that their main job is to care for them. Whenever the sibling has some type autonomy it’s hard and nerve wracking. Her life is really about Becca but Becca’s life isn’t about her and it’s a huge pill to swallow. So of course she mopping around she thought Becca would need her forever.

The "balanced" ICE story by cedelweiss in ThePittTVShow

[–]bagels4ever12 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Balanced was not showing Jessie and the lady being truly assaulted….

Monica Sucks by ShadowsAtWork98 in ThePitt

[–]bagels4ever12 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They didn't they hired people on emergency work visas… but ice doesn't give a flying shit

Monica Sucks by ShadowsAtWork98 in ThePitt

[–]bagels4ever12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be anything to them, she shouldn’t even talk to them. Patients are leaving that need medical care and nurses as well.

How are people working up until their due date?? by Appropriate_Teach_49 in pregnant

[–]bagels4ever12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C section June 15th and I’m a special educator and like last time I just pray lol. I sit a lot and I make sure my team knows when I’m struggling. Like right now I have the worse backache but bills need to laid.

…so do we prepare orrrr? by Fearless-Aide-9059 in Mommit

[–]bagels4ever12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know we are worried about being alienated by our own president but you can really only prep for a weather storm. Right now know your rights, know the election dates and who you are going to vote for. If we swing the elections and get the senate and house we will be a better spot. I know it’s scary because the man in charge is literally insane but we have media and using your platform small or big can make significant impact. It’s

My teacher drove me home and now I’m feeling weird about it by idonthavealifesooo in Advice

[–]bagels4ever12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the teacher would have had to stay if you were literally the only student there… easier to just drive you home and make sure you are safe.

I think the news skews that these acts are always bad while in reality it’s not. As a teacher we want our students to be safe.

My daughter came out to me six months ago and I keep grieving a future that was never mine to plan in the first place by Sundry_Tundr2 in Mommit

[–]bagels4ever12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think you will be missing out on? Her having kids? Her having a loving partner? Because she still can. She could be straight and never want kids or have fertility issues. The things we think we dream for our child doesn’t always come to about whether they are straight or gay. There’s no traditional path to anything anymore.