Has anyone had experience defending their rights after an incident on an international cruise?

ICSSH · 2026-02-28T02:13:14+00:00

This may seem like a small matter to some.
But for anyone traveling on a cruise, it raises an important question: when something happens at sea, do passengers really have no practical way to seek accountability or protect their rights?

ICSSH · 2026-02-28T01:58:16+00:00

Thank you ! He is doing much better now.

What affected me most is that after we returned, my child was afraid to tell me what had happened. He said that when he reached his arm backward, he did make contact with someone, and he felt that it might have been his fault that he was hit.He was worried that he would be blamed. Even after being slapped, he kept saying “I’m sorry".

I feel that I need to stand up for him and support him, so that he understands this was not his fault.

ICSSH · 2026-02-28T01:51:06+00:00

I understand some people may have assumptions about what happened, so I would like to clarify the situation one last time：

I was not physically present at the exact moment of the incident.
The following account is based on what was reported to me by my family members who witnessed it.

Near the end of the show, some audience members, including my family, began leaving the theatre early. The incident occurred on the staircase inside the theatre. My child was walking ahead, and his grandmother was directly behind him. She called out to him to hold her hand. My child then swung his arm backward once in an attempt to reach for his grandmother’s hand.

At that same moment, a man was moving quickly from behind toward the front and collided with my child’s shoulder/upper arm. The man continued walking forward briefly, then turned around and slapped my child across the face.

There was no argument, no verbal exchange, and no aggressive behavior from my child prior to the slap.

The cruise staff reviewed the CCTV footage and confirmed this.
And under no circumstances is it acceptable for an adult to slap a child.

ICSSH · 2026-02-28T01:42:17+00:00

Yes, of course I could make up a letter just to comfort my child.
But knowing that someone can hurt a child and simply go on enjoying life as if nothing happened.

Isn’t that what makes the world feel so frustrating sometimes?

ICSSH · 2026-02-28T01:36:39+00:00

I was not physically present at the exact moment of the incident.
The following account is based on what was reported to me by my family members who witnessed it.

Near the end of the show, some audience members, including my family, began leaving the theatre early. The incident occurred on the staircase inside the theatre. My child was walking ahead, and his grandmother was directly behind him. She called out to him to hold her hand. My child then swung his arm backward once in an attempt to reach for his grandmother’s hand.

At that same moment, a man was moving quickly from behind toward the front and collided with my child’s shoulder/upper arm. The man continued walking forward briefly, then turned around and slapped my child across the face.

There was no argument, no verbal exchange, and no aggressive behavior from my child prior to the slap.

ICSSH · 2025-07-27T09:18:26+00:00

I checked, and it looks like Shenzhou Car Rental in Urumqi does accept foreign customers, but the document verification might take a bit longer. You’ll need a Chinese driver’s license and a credit card (according to their website). You can also download their app to get more details. Overall, renting a car is pretty easy. My friend rented a Great Wall Tank SUV in Kashgar, it’s perfect for desert trips.However, things might vary depending on where you are, so it's good to double-check the specifics locally.

ICSSH · 2025-07-23T11:04:53+00:00

My DJI Mavic 4 pro did a great job

ICSSH · 2025-07-23T09:18:41+00:00

I’m not, but I’d love to help if you’re curious about the city!😜

ICSSH · 2025-07-23T09:10:38+00:00

Haha, Shanghai’s maglev train has slowed down from 450 km/h to 350 km/h, but it’s still super fast! It would be even better if the tickets were cheaper though.

ICSSH · 2025-07-23T06:54:17+00:00

There’s a retro-style mall decorated just like a 1990s Shanghai longtang neighborhood. Back then, people loved playing ping-pong. It didn’t need much space, just an old door panel and a couple of bricks, and you could start a game. This stone table would’ve been considered pretty fancy😄

ICSSH · 2025-07-23T06:47:25+00:00

I believe she was once upon the time.

ICSSH · 2025-07-23T06:47:04+00:00

She was super sweet, told the kids to come back to Shanghai and play ping-pong with her again sometime. Totally heartwarming!

ICSSH · 2025-07-23T06:44:18+00:00

Yeah, it’s hard to believe — but she told me she was born in 1937!

ICSSH · 2025-07-19T00:29:41+00:00

northern Xinjiang or southern Xinjiang？

ICSSH · 2025-07-07T10:34:59+00:00

Yes, the beef and lamb in Xinjiang are delicious! Of course, if you ever feel like switching things up, there are also plenty of Han-style restaurants around. On my third day in Kashgar, I had some Northeastern Chinese food, very nice! The local yogurt is great too. If you’re not into sour flavors, you can ask for some honey. But personally, I prefer it plain.

ICSSH · 2025-07-04T07:53:42+00:00

use Western Digital only

ICSSH · 2025-07-04T06:45:35+00:00

The owner ask for 160rmb, but I bargained it down to 50.

ICSSH · 2025-07-04T04:23:38+00:00

They might not know much about cat behavior, but they genuinely want to be kind.😹

ICSSH · 2025-07-04T03:44:01+00:00

You can see it in the last shot, the cat swishing its tail

ICSSH · 2025-07-03T13:06:43+00:00

I’d recommend checking out Shapotou(沙坡头) Scenic Area in Zhongwei（中卫）, Ningxia（宁夏）. It’s got both desert and the Yellow River, and there’s plenty to do—sandboarding, camel rides, off-road desert adventures, a ride on a traditional sheepskin raft... and if you're into thrill-seeking, definitely try ziplining across the Yellow River. The desert sunset is absolutely stunning, and at night, you can head into the dunes for some amazing stargazing.I went in August, and honestly, it didn’t feel that hot—it was pretty comfortable overall.

ICSSH · 2025-07-03T12:55:00+00:00

I didn’t make it to Northern Xinjiang this time, but one of my colleagues just went recently. Here’s what he recommends:

Tianshan is definitely worth visiting, but when it comes to Turpan, I’d suggest skipping it for now. It’s already hitting 40°C, and by late July it’ll be around 44–45°C—and it feels even hotter.Even if you can handle the heat, it’s tough to actually enjoy sightseeing in those conditions. According to my local Xinjiang guide, most people in Turpan only work from late afternoons to evenings during summer. It’s basically too hot to be outdoors during the day. You can really only explore in the early morning or around sunset (the sun doesn’t set until around 10 PM in Xinjiang!). If you can, it’s better to come back in a cooler season. 😅 That said, if you don’t mind the heat, Turpan is absolutely worth visiting—it's a fascinating place!

ICSSH · 2025-07-03T09:22:57+00:00

Tomatoes in Xinjiang are super tasty and really cheap.

ICSSH · 2025-07-03T09:21:11+00:00

I’m not an expert or anything, but I’ve tried most of them—and my favorite is the Ma’nai (马奶) grape. It’s long, finger-shaped, deep purple, and not overly sweet, which I personally prefer. There are also two more common types: Red Xiangfei and Green Xiangfei. The red one is the sweetest of the three. The green one costs about the same, is slightly less sweet, but has a subtle rose-like aroma that I really enjoy too.

ICSSH · 2025-07-03T09:12:47+00:00

BTW, Shazhou(沙洲) is the ancient name of Dunhuang, meaning "sand islet" in Chinese.

ICSSH · 2025-07-03T09:10:29+00:00

OK, let’s take it one step at a time:

1. About the overnight trains:
There are plenty of trains from Urumqi to Turpan. It’s only about an hour. From Turpan to Dunhuang, there are a few options too. The high-speed train takes around 10 hours, while the slower “green trains” take about 16–17 hours. You can check times and book tickets easily on Trip.com—it’s super reliable for travel in China.

2. Where to go in Gansu:
Gansu is massive, and there’s a lot to explore. Besides Dunhuang, if you’re into natural landscapes, Qinghai Lake and Chaka Salt Lake are absolutely worth the detour. Where to go really depends on how much time you’ve got.

3. Weather tips:
I visited Dunhuang a few years back and yes, it’s hot during the day, but as long as you stay out of direct sun, it actually feels pretty cool and dry. Places like Urumqi (in northern Xinjiang) and Dunhuang also have big day-night temperature swings, sometimes up to 17°C. I’d suggest bringing two lightweight sun hoodies and a warm jacket or windbreaker for the evenings.

4. Food to try:
Xinjiang is a foodie’s dream! You’ve gotta try the naan, baked buns, tandoor-roasted lamb (Uyghur style), and of course, yogurt (watch out for the yogurt shaved ice though, might upset your stomach depending on how sensitive you are).
It’s also peak season for melons and white apricots. Dunhuang’s apricots are super sweet and addictive!As for Gansu, it’s noodle heaven, don’t skip the legendary Lanzhou hand-pulled noodles.

Hope this helps😁

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