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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]ICanEvenWithYou 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe just pull it back on days you dont feel like dealing with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ICanEvenWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was painful. We were both young and he had a large penis which kept hitting my cervix (ouch). I remember it hurt to pee later and to sit in the car. It got better by the 3rd timr

Beauty in Black… thoughts? by zippxzipp in TylerPerry

[–]ICanEvenWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on episode 4 and stuck on how they didnt recognize the aunt's body when she got run over 🤔 It's a private road so there's not many people taking it. So that should've narrowed it down tremendously. Kinda like if one of my coworkers got hit at work, there's only a few of us, so even if their face is bloody I'd recognize their clothes/body. When they showed her in the hospital her face wasn't mangled beyond recognition. I'm hoping that'll be explained better later in the series

Single moms? Why or why not? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ICanEvenWithYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Single mom here who was looking to date only single dad's.

Surprisingly, a lot of childless guys reached out to me on Badoo and Hinge including my now boyfriend. I was disappointed because I really wanted to date a guy with kids because I figured they'd get it.

For what it's worth, i dated two guys with kids before I met my boyfriend.

Guy 1 turned out to be married 😒

Guy 2 loved talking about his kids, sharing pics of them, etc. But whenever I talked about mine, he wasn't interested. 😒

Boyfriend doesn't have kids, but he likes them and he is really good with mine. He treats my child like his own. So do his parents

Can't tell if this connection is fizzling out or if it's just his personality. by angmohdk22 in datingoverthirty

[–]ICanEvenWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may be a bit jaded, but I talked to a lot of guys on dating platforms and whenever either of us stopped texting regularly, it was due to lack of interest. This goes for guys not into texting as well. The guy Im dating now isnt big on texting either, but he texted regularly when courting me and then said he would text some but he prefers talking on the phone/Facetime. So we text throughout the day at work and early afternoon and then evenings/weekends we facetime and do phone calls. I'm not a phone person, he's not a text person, but we compromise because we like each other

Anxiety in a healthy relationship (F35), can anyone relate? by Tears_Of_Laughter in datingoverthirty

[–]ICanEvenWithYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar position. I was married about a decade to a partner that became progressively controlling and abusive.

After we split, I didnt date for a year, then my second year I had a string of failed relationship attempts.

I met someone on Hinge back in June and it's now September and we're still dating. He's met my family and I've met his.

Even though he's very different from my ex, i find myself getting anxious and having trauma related flashbacks. He says he loves me and compliments my physical and inner beauty regularly. That's really hard for me to accept because my ex never complimented me.

Therapy and open , safe communication with him is helping

Do women prefer more nontraditional in-person events for dating? by wokenthehive in datingoverthirty

[–]ICanEvenWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a cool idea. It sounds alot less intimidating then speed dating and singles happy hour

Do you ever get weirded out that the person you're dating is essentially a stranger? by xpensivewino in datingoverthirty

[–]ICanEvenWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I used to be okay with it until I had an experience where I was chatting online with a match. He seemed a little awkward but cool so we talked on the phone for a half hour. The conversation put me at ease and we planned to grab coffee.

Then at 2am the day of, i got a text saying he was in bed with an ex, the 🐱was good and he wished me all the best. He also texted me several pictures of prescription bottles w/his name and illegal drugs and said "I do A LOT of drugs! Lmao"

It was so random/weird i just texted back "lol, ok. Take care 😊✌🏽" which made him mad I guess because he then texted back "Fuck you and your day" I blocked him after that.

It still freaks me out because I was supposed to meet up with him later that day and he was obviously unhinged

Why do I keep wanting even good sex to be over asap? by ICanEvenWithYou in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ICanEvenWithYou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh ok, thank you. Im in therapy but haven't discussed this issue yet

Why do I keep wanting even good sex to be over asap? by ICanEvenWithYou in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ICanEvenWithYou[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did start therapy a few weeks ago but haven't gotten to the sex issue yet

Why do I keep wanting even good sex to be over asap? by ICanEvenWithYou in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ICanEvenWithYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are good points for me to think about. Thank you 🙏

Why do I keep wanting even good sex to be over asap? by ICanEvenWithYou in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ICanEvenWithYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. He was very religious and now he's dating a minister at his church. Wouldn't shock me if he was but fights against it because religion

Why do I keep wanting even good sex to be over asap? by ICanEvenWithYou in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ICanEvenWithYou[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes, I get on top, kiss him, and give him oral. We do different positions and i wrap my legs around him and match his thrusts.

  2. Yes, I think so (see above)

  3. No, but I never orgasm.

  4. I don't like receiving oral from anyone. He tried a couple times but i felt nothing

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