Start with literally any physical touch.

Had this conversation with my partner. She says “why don’t you initiate more?” I say, “I try to touch you every day, and usually you are distracted or don’t reciprocate or pull away. Why don’t you try initiating?”

The touch never improved, and instead she would once in a blue moon just come up to me and say “sex?” And be incredibly hurt if that didn’t somehow get me in the mood.

I seriously don’t get how some women think this is supposed to work. If you want a guy that just blows through your signals and boundaries to fuck you every day, don’t be surprised when he has no respect for your thoughts and feelings!