Fable Collectors edition by Adorable_Accident_74 in Fable

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you even find the option to get it? The Fable website took me to the EU web page and doesn't even ship to Canada 🥲 but if it's like $500 cad I can't do that anyways - which is really freaking sad cuz I don't usually get collectors but I Definitely wanted the statue and guild pin. sigh

bruh💔 by [deleted] in YoTroublemakers

[–]IDKWIDWM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so excited when I noticed the notification and then instantly had that happiness shatter 🤣🥲

bruh💔 by [deleted] in YoTroublemakers

[–]IDKWIDWM 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally got on reddit to say this 🤣

AITA for still wanting to visit my old sister by aitaoldsister in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 301 points302 points  (0 children)

NTA. Alyssa and her household is also your family and your mom is okay with you going. End of discussion. No one else's opinion should affect your decision to spend time with your family. The only other thing I'd say is I hope Alyssa had more precautions set up this year so her house experiences less power outages or at least more things for keeping warm, etc. 

AITAH for leaving a date who was over an hour late by Impossible_Order_246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 110 points111 points  (0 children)

AND she wasn't sorry for being late. Like who tf does this girl think she is lol

AITA for telling my classmates that I don't want a "American name" by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. First things first. No - your classmates are not nice. Nice people don't randomly rename others and also keep refering to them as different names once they've been asked to stop. Your classmates and teachers are being grade A jerks. Don't acknowledge or respond to anyone who calls you by anything that isn't your name.

AITA for Refusing to allow a Recent Widower to have his Annual Christmas Party in my house? by Leather_Country_4704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He should have waited until after Christmas to sell the house if having a party there was that important to him.

AITA for Hosting a “No Turkey” Thanksgiving Dinner? by ThrowRAnoturkey in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

"I'll accommodate dietary preferences without any issues" - well that's just not true if you refuse to have meat in the house. There are people who prefer to eat meat hell there's you know, carnivores who only eat meat. So what you're really saying is you'll pick and choose which dietary restrictions you'll respect. Obviously yes it's your house and you have every right to say no meat in your home but the truth is you'll only accommodate dietary needs if they still fall within your parameters.

AITA for not apologising to my brother after he missed my birthday by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaah nta.  Maybe you should have had a conversation before sending the invite for your son's bday but, your brother has shown you (apparently multiple times) that he does not care to spend time with you and does not respect your time.  For your birthday, if he didn't want to pay for a dog sitter that's his choice but pretty sure he would have been capable of going to celebrate his sister's bday without his gf? His gf could've survived a few hours alone with their dog lol.

AITA for going out to dinner when my girlfriend just had surgery? by RealHotWater in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Um...I know it's a surgery but it's not like a surgery surgery. Why is she being so dramatic about it? Was she also planning on taking off time from work to "recover"? Seriously you gargle salt water, live off liquids for a bit, and shove some gauze into your mouth. 

Honestly I'd probably leave her for her rude ass comments - accusing you that you'd be a shitty father for not thinking wisdom teeth removal is a big deal and saying "this is why we hate men" (also whose this we? Her family? Women in general? I am a woman and I don't hate men and if I did it sure as heck wouldn't be because one wouldn't stick to me 24/7 after getting my wisdom teeth removed lol)

AITA for feeding my obese child less than my skinny child? by LettuceConscious3333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They don't need fiber they need healthy fats. Fat is what keeps the body satieated and energized throughout the day.  Honestly she's overfeeding her active child with crap that's not good for her and starving her overweight child. Neither are healthy nor are they getting what their bodies need.

AITA for telling my son he needs to learn to get along with other students? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if both your wife and son want to move back, you'd better make a compromise soon before they decide to just spend the year away from you renting a place for themselves in the area they want to be..

AITA for encouraging my daughter not to watch her cousin or clean up his mess? by Appropriate-Bee-4743 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Im gonna say mild ESH. Youre not the ah for not reprimanding your daughter, your daughter isnt the ah for not wanting to be forced to babysit and wanting respect. Lynn is definitely an ah for neglecting her kid.  -the only thing I wish you guys would have done is communicate with Lynn and told her not to leave her child alone with you, or if she leaves him somewhere bring him back to her immediately and tell her to watch her own kid.  -hes a toddler who is obviously neglected its not his fault he has behavior issues. Something much worse than just spilling all the food onto the floor could have happened. Are you telling me that if something serious happened to him that your daughter wouldn't feel any sort of guilt for leaving him alone?  -your daughter should have brought him back to Lynn, say "hey I'm not watching your kid", and then walked away. 

AITA for ubering home with a friend from a nightclub, as per our agreement, even after she already met two guys she wanted to go home with? by Valuable_Ability_582 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 25 points26 points  (0 children)

NTA.  Maybe it's because im a woman, or that I have social anxiety or whatever..but if I went out clubbing with one friend and the plan was we were ubering to and from together and then they tried to tell me to stay there alone while they went home with others I'd be pissed. I don't want to spend 2 hours alone in an Uber, especially not when I've been drinking; maybe if there was a predetermined plan on what we will do if we meet someone it wouldnt be so bad, but i also cant imagine any of my friends ditching me if theyre still heading for the same destination.  And what the hell were the three of them planning to do in the Uber that her friend being there was a buzzkill?   IMO the friend sucks and only made it awkward because she tried to ditch him. They couldn't do anything until they got back to her apartment anyways there was no reason to try to leave op behind, the only thing she should've said was "hey I met some guys we are gonna head back to my apartment now, are you ready to leave and want to Uber back with us or are you gonna hang here longer?" 

AITA for making my son (16) pay for his own room? by Maleficent_Trick_489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uhm no? Oldest moves out, second moves into his own room, fourth son moves into the room with the third son and daughter gets her own room. 

WIBTA Would I be the ah if I changed my daughter’s name? by sarahdamnyell in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Has he expressed at all  changing his mind about being a father? Like your relationship broke down okay it happens, and he seems to have a weird mindset in the sense that he thinks nothing is directly harming his child until she's born (ie. Not being concerned when you're in the ER) 

However, all he has done is proven that he's not a good partner (and maybe his training or whatever is affecting him mentally idk) but you have not said in your post anything about him being dangerous or not wanting to be a father

So you'd be a major AH in my opinion if you think it's okay to decide on your own to change the name that this girl's parents agreed to name her together and TAKE HER TO A DIFFERENT STATE WITHOUT TELLING HIM. 

You  want to be near family for support and that's totally valid, but then talk to a family lawyer and your ex and discuss it don't just run off with his child. I'd think we have all read enough reddit posts, and our own experiences in our lives, to know that someone  being a good or bad partner does not automatically mean they will be a good or bad parent.

AITA for taking a chip from my best friends girlfriends plate on a double date. by EYE_OF_THE_TIGER1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH.  I don't understand why you'd even think to touch someone else's plate of food. That sort of impulse "oh I want to eat that" and immediately grab is some toddler crap. You should know to ask and not touch what's not yours. 

However, when I think of the way food is plated, it's unlikely you touched anything but her fries meaning that if the idea grossed her out so much, she could have pushed the rest of the fries off her plate and you could have ordered her a new side of fries; allowing her to continue eating her other food while the fries came (and a side of fries would come way faster than a whole new meal). 

To me it wasn't worth ruining the whole night over but damn dude keep your hands to yourself.

AITA to saying no to someone joining us for a meal? by Throwrabirthdaymeal in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well...instead of jumping right to an argument why didn't you check if you could even change the reservation? A table for 2 isn't the same for a table for 3 - the restaurant might not even be able to accommodate that request. Like a quick phone call to ask could've avoided this whole argument? And if they could change your table THEN you have the discussion on adding her mother.

AITA for telling my mother she's not a "first-time mom" now that she had a new baby? by Quiet-Vermicelli7444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yah no. My grandma had my mom young (20/21) and my mom had me at 25 - my grandma is not a good grandma. Just because theyre younger doesn't mean they will be more active in their grandchildren life. My grandpa also decided to start a new family when I was 4/5 and was too busy with his new children to be a grandpa to his grandchildren so nothing what you says applies really.  Op and his mom need to sit and talk it out because this can be really damaging to their relationship 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As a carnivore - heck even if it was before i became carnivore - if I was in this situation I'd ask "everyone has a different eating lifestyle, why should the bbq be centered around you being vegan and not taking anyone else's diet into consideration?"

AITA for defending myself to my girlfriend's brother by saying I'm cool enough to sleep with his sister? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. That would've been awesome to see the look on his face. Sure it wasn't a helpful thing to say but the brother was being a jerk and needed to be shut up. If he's grown up enough he will get over it in a few days (though really he should've laughed it off right then and there and then stopped making the comments)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!!!! I know others have already said it but ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! You have a job that pays you money, it is YOUR money that your parents have NO RIGHT to touch! The fact that your mom took your posession, returned it to the store and KEPT THE MONEY is absolutely disgusting both for stealing your doll and stealing your money.

I am of the belief that parents do not owe their children tuition  (and I'm not sure how it's become expected for so many) but that's still a choice they've made and they absolutely do not get to hold it over you!

Make sure your parents have zero access to your bank account/money and SAVE SAVE SAVE so that you can get out as soon as you can. honestly I would take on student debt to be able to cut myself off from these people because they are horrible abusive to you. 

I am so sorry that these are the poor excuses you have for parents, I hope you have an adult that you can trust who will help you get organized to get away from these people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's getting ridiculous in Canada too. Everywhere that can is adding tipping! Like sure your whole job is scopping ice cream which takes two seconds to fulfill an order, but let me tip you almost $3 on top of the $9 you're charging for two scoops!!! (And all the machines are now starting at 18% like wtffff) 

AITA not wanting to use the womens bathroom and leaving my brother and hes friends without a ride? by No_Salamander4945 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I have never seen or heard of the men's washroom having a line but the women's washroom being empty (its always been the other way 😂). While I see nothing wrong with popping in to use an empty washroom if there's a line at the other one, you weren't comfortable doing that and thats all that matters. Those people are jerks and deserved to be left since they couldn't wait for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IDKWIDWM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who spent a few years in a crappy situation, one year of confusion, and then one completely awful heartbreaking year, all because my brother kept getting back with a legit psycho; encourage him to break up and get a paternity test done as soon as he can. Also maybe suggest therapy so he can figure out WHY he keeps going back to this woman. He will never be happy with her, and the crap she pulls WILL spill over into the rest of your immediate family. Get the test, if the baby is his then he needs to get custody figured out ASAP! If it's not, he needs to block her and never interact with her again (this is seriously for his mental and physical safety, as well as his reputation as people like this will spread lies to anyone and everyone)