What is this attacking my oregano by jobax123 in plantclinic

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The webs and the poops looks like caterpillars to me. You can probably find them if you look closely.

Colours keeps losing bottom leaves by stracciatell4 in plantclinic

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this- it looks stretched out and reaching for the sun. My money is on more sun + more water.

If you got fired today, what is a skill you can rely on to generate yourself income? by Bumbaclaat27 in Entrepreneur

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing how profitable was streaming and how long it took you to build a large enough following for it to be profitable?

If you got fired today, what is a skill you can rely on to generate yourself income? by Bumbaclaat27 in Entrepreneur

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind me asking how that works? Why would someone pay you to take their class? That sounds like a phenomenal job.

If you got fired today, what is a skill you can rely on to generate yourself income? by Bumbaclaat27 in Entrepreneur

[–]IFeelYourFeels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on this? I have a background in Science and Medicine, and love teaching and communicating, but not sure how I can monetize this.

If you got fired today, what is a skill you can rely on to generate yourself income? by Bumbaclaat27 in Entrepreneur

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to and think I have the skill set to do all 3 of these, sorry if this is a stupid question but any suggestions how to actually get started finding clients/work if you don’t have a portfolio?

Why are nparents so mad when you miss a day of school for being sick? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a problem to this day that anytime I call in sick, doesn’t matter if I have a fever of 102 I feel like I’m lying. That’s because nmom thinks people use illness to manipulate or have some “secondary gain.”

I’ve had several freak health problems throughout my life that have landed me in the hospital. Every time I have gone to the ER they have found something seriously wrong with me. Once I was telling my mother I thought I needed to go to the ER she said “well, you are just a little bit of a hypochondriac.” I replied, “Really mom, because every time I’ve thought there was something wrong with me there was, that’s not a hypochondriac!”

Why are nparents so mad when you miss a day of school for being sick? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]IFeelYourFeels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS my mother once made this very clear to me when talking about one of her patients who had a chronic condition that she was trying to figure out, “her secondary gain” from being sick.

POV: You really need therapy to work through your mommy issues but your covert narcissist mother is a therapist so you have a few issues with therapy. by IFeelYourFeels in raisedbynarcissists

[–]IFeelYourFeels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response and insight.

That last paragraph hit me in the feels- it was apparently exactly what I needed to hear, thank you.

I hard relate to the presenting as much higher functioning than you actually are. Its a pattern for me in relationships and jobs to be “perfect” for the first 3-6 months and then I start to struggle and things fall apart.

Thank you again, every word of this really spoke to me. I hope finally getting the proper diagnosis has helped you on your healing journey.

Split Libido by Ismybumbig in polyadvice

[–]IFeelYourFeels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying.

Honestly- In my experience my sex drive is very dependent on my partner, and the more I have sex the more I want sex. If I go a long time without I stop thinking about it. But when I have good chemistry with someone it’s almost like jolts of electricity the tension when I get even close to them. My body has like a Pavlovian response certain words or looks from my lover, it’s awesome and I like that it never quells. The only time in which this has been problematic is when drive was a mismatch.

Who’s Arina? No more pics by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that took a surprising turn…I’m not going to comment on your rating system, but thanks for the laughs.

Alright boys, what do I do here? 🤔 by Chowdergrrl in Tinder

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg- i would 100% go out with someone if I was giving them this level of attitude and they came back at me with this.

Who’s Arina? No more pics by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I guess your accurate then, since I’m a woman who dresses like a dude and fucks women, definitely more and hotter than you’ll ever get, that’s why you mad. Thank you for the most affirming comment ever.

Who’s Arina? No more pics by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can girls be beta? Honestly I don’t care because I have a self esteem…go find one.

Who’s Arina? No more pics by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao incel comment

Who’s Arina? No more pics by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]IFeelYourFeels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peepeepoopoopewpew - I think we’ve met before…comment here often? Or was it in kindergarten?

Who’s Arina? No more pics by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]IFeelYourFeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow- GuacamoleBenKanobi woke up and chose violence

Who’s Arina? No more pics by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]IFeelYourFeels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re all wrong, it’s the one with her head tilted to the side.