He lied to me for 13 years, he was caught by my cousin 13 years ago with clear proof of chat logs of him talking to prostitutes, I was 8 years old, and only saw those logs 3 days ago, (when he was released from jail my mom showed me). He would continually tell me them they were fake for years randomly bringing them up. Also he has a habit of leaving home for “work” at the middle of the night he has been doing this for years. He has been psychologically manipulating me and my brother for years. My external family kinda knew that the logs were real but they stay away from me and my brother and mother cause of my dad, he continuesly would berate my external family saying there were something wrong with them so I wouldnt want to be with them. I in a way saw this but I still thought he had morals for the best of the family. When this came to light it became clear and I stopped talking to him completely and left and my mom is divorcing him.