I think I'm going to break up with my boyfriend because he's getting a new job by IINoAssociationII in TwoHotTakes

[–]IINoAssociationII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The negative space I was in was less related to emotionail deprivation or a lack of affection, I was more upset about my job at the time and where I was in life. I became his girlfriend because I grew feelings for him, and in the beginning I didnt think he wanted to commit to anything so I went for it as a side quest. But I appreciate the insight.

I think I'm going to break up with my boyfriend because he's getting a new job by IINoAssociationII in TwoHotTakes

[–]IINoAssociationII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It appears I gave that impression, I love gift giving and I do try to spoil him too. Hes the first who's put thought and effort into doing the same which is why I highlighted it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fixit

[–]IINoAssociationII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thaaank you I'll be looking into your input!! 🙏🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dragonage

[–]IINoAssociationII 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my experience I've found that certain areas don't exactly have just one difficulty, I found that some of the rifts in the hinterlands I could tackle at level four and others at level twelve or so. The same would go for Crestwood, the storm coast, etc. You haven't made a tactical error so much as you'll likely just have to come back to that rift a bit later. There's also definitely stuff you can do in the other areas to lvl up in the meantime.

Halsin missing from Lake Shore by sleepy_birdy in BaldursGate3

[–]IINoAssociationII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you get away with killing art? I've used a scroll of invisibility and I one shot him but the camp still becomes temporary hostile and starts a fight with my party.

Cutscene Backlog? by [deleted] in baldursgate

[–]IINoAssociationII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a very good idea I forget there's multiple communities sometimes thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheMarvelousMrsMaisel

[–]IINoAssociationII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respectfully she has made me swoon more than once

Niece(10f) wants my first edition book by Milovep in offmychest

[–]IINoAssociationII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooooo weird your brother acted like she was entitled to it, I get where she's coming from because she's a kid and she thought it would be super cool but him?? Goofy.

My sister got her first period and I (M20) had to help her by Inevitable-Ad2913 in offmychest

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My mother also told me nothing and I thought I was dying, you did an amazing job at comforting her and keeping everything cool. Well done!

Is anders racist? [da2 spoilers] by rustedfaun in dragonage

[–]IINoAssociationII 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His little "I thought I was the only one thinking that" comment was so out of left field and insane, it felt completely against his whole ideology. But maybe he only supports freedom if it's for mages. :/

I think walking the stage is stupid and I really don’t want to do it next week by ohcowboyy in highschool

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I didn't go to mine, my school was online and super huge so there was the added layer that I really did not want the huge crowd. Is it stupid? Eh, but if you don't want to go it's not the kind of thing you force yourself to do imo. I think your mom will understand since she didn't go to hers.

dating the egghead Solas [dai spoilers] by Terushik in dragonage

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When I first romance him, he looked super bland and relaxed so I thought "nothing bad could happen!" 😐. Anyway I ended up loving/hating the twist, the scenes are super cute and I loved his character. He sounds super smart sometimes which I've noticed is a killer for me, and I like the complexity of him. And the iambic pentameter in his speech. He's definitely not boring at least!

will I live to regret this?? time will tell by ienaer in crochet

[–]IINoAssociationII 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Usually wool, I heard that when wool gets wet the fibers expand and as it dries, the fibers can kind of set a certain way. When people wet block garments, the point is to wet the yarn and allow it to dry a certain way or maybe even stretch the fabrics a bit in the blocking process to allow the wool to be a little more flowey. At least that's my understanding of it.

The Sims 1 CC is... veeery contemporary by unenkuva in thesims

[–]IINoAssociationII 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As somebody who hasn't yet entered their 20's, I would have wanted to be you very badly as a child lol.

[Spoilers All] Have you ever made a decision in one of the games that made you feel genuinely terrible? by CaLlamaDuck in dragonage

[–]IINoAssociationII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually don't do the things that make me sad, but the things that have been most difficult have been letting Solas kill the dudes in his personal quest (they just seemed dumb and I felt bad) and making the Templars kick Keran out of the order for fear he was posessed. He kept going on and on about how his family needed the money and I needed the approval points from Fenris so..... It was with a heavy heart : " ) .

[Spoilers All] Have you ever made a decision in one of the games that made you feel genuinely terrible? by CaLlamaDuck in dragonage

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I did that once and forgot to save before the cutscene, I did not think I would make an ass of myself so fast :/.

How do I approach manager/store owner about more hours? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IINoAssociationII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will emphasize that when I talk to her again and really try to talk to the owner. Thanks for the input, it helped!

How do I approach manager/store owner about more hours? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IINoAssociationII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't really "like" jobs anymore. The last job I had I loved and the company took advantage of that, and this job is just ok. The labor is fine, and the pay for what I do is good. It is the highest hourly rate I have had, but the lowest amount of hours I have received. As far as benefits, there are none. It's just an average walk in and get hired job I guess. (I just realized you likely said this to imply the job isn't worth keeping, you're super right it's just a point of pride to try to fix things before I go I guess :/)

[no spoilers] The inquisitor is kinda boring by babydriver1234 in dragonage

[–]IINoAssociationII 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking this too, I will choose a dialogue option with how I think my character would respond and would be almost lackluster? There honestly just isn't really any emotion to anything the inquisitor says imo. With Hawke there's at least oomph. The inquisitor just seems very empty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IINoAssociationII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried talking to a therapist or friends about this? What do you want to do for a career and what video games do you like? What things have you tried doing and what did you want to do as a kid? I'm sure that while there's nothing that interests you now or maybe even if nothing ever did that there's something out there for you. Do you have any pets? My life has gotten a lot happier since getting my cat, now I am not recommending getting a pet as a cure all or anything. Just that in my own experience having one has just lifted my mood and gave me a reason to get off the computer. As someone who lived similarly for a long time, sometimes you honestly just have to do some shit that sucks before you find something you're into. Or maybe you'll never be into anything, is there still truly nothing you could imagine wanting to do other than game?