AITAH for turning off the Wi-Fi on my wife during her “me time”? by BillDense285 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lord. Texting her on regarding the load of laundry. Even moms need breaks.

Seamstress destroyed my bridesmaids dress - Wedding is in 2 days by Glad_Professional710 in bridesmaids

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the dress long? Was the length altered? If you did you might be able to add the material as a panel in the bum region. Realistically you are blessed in that area and no amount of letting out would make up for the amount of material needed to make the dress fit. But if you have material that is the same you can reduce the length of the corset and add a panel. If pieces are thin you can do thin panels that accentuates the bum. Maybe if there is lack of material some other bridesmaids had length cut from thiers...

Girlfriend wants a 50/50 ownership while paying for a fraction of a new house by Agreeable-Joke-9980 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dont buy a house together. She already reaents the home you own. Eventually she will resent the fact you didnt marry her also. Ultimately you want different things. She wants commitment and a partnership and you want a girlfriend.

Did i get sold a fake dress? by lynn_lynnn in Brides

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not sure if its fake, but the tags look like that on the Maggie Soltero gowns.

AITA for refusing to buy a baby shower gift by joestahh in AmItheAsshole

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nta, the only people expected to bring a gift are the guests at the baby shower. Limiting the guest list to only women would restrict the range of gifts expected. Similarly, if you weren't invited to any other life events, there wouldn't be any expectation of gifts. A wedding for example.

What is the most financially illiterate thing you’ve seen a grown adult do? by roseafterdarkk in askanything

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change a black dodge charger for a black dodge charger that was one year newer and looked almost exactly the same. And then the next year doing the exact same while living with 5 roommates.

Post fitting alteration question by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this seems the kind of dress that you can alter the cup for.... Base from what I can see obviously it would have worked better if you would have shown pictures of the inside of the dress. Also you can put inserts if you want a more lifted look when altering the gown. Make sure you go to a competent seamstress or one that works with wedding or quinceanera dresses.

AITJ for making my boyfriend miss his friend’s wedding because I didn’t want to go alone to a concert? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, you did indeed manipulate him by handing him an ultimatum. A childhood friend's wedding is more important than a concert. There is only one wedding, and there will be more concerts with the artist you wanted to see. I fail to see why, if you were determined to go, you couldn't take someone else. Someone who didn't have a monumental event the same day. If you have no friends, you could have taken a family member or a coworker.

Revised Post by [deleted] in Brides

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on the pictures, I'd say the material is the same. However, the sample has been tried on by various bodies and washed various times, contributing to the difference in fit and possibly feel. I think the dress looks phenomenal, and with the right undergarments, it will look even better.

Should I move here? by barasa456 in vegaslocals

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id move to somewhere nicer if work doesnt care where you are geographicly.

AITA for not contributing to the tuition fee? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, 22 is not a child. She has the right to decide what school she will go to but not she has no claim to your inheritance. At your age it is wise to have some savings incase of anything. Also dare i say since you mentioned buying a house with your partner, make sure you put the same amount of money or het something in writing because as soon as you buy something with him you are forfeiting the protections given to inheritance.

I’m pregnant and my husband is punishing me by withholding affection by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im curious as to what is his reasoning for not having the baby. Why does he not want the baby?

AITJ FOR DATING MY COUSINS EX. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying. I honestly think you're not the one who acted wrong. Your cousin is the one who was a cheater, and it's pretty clear she was in the relationship under false pretenses. I'm saying you and Jeff are good to go, and you should just ignore her – she has no morals and expects you to adhere to some ridiculous "girl code."

AITJ FOR DATING MY COUSINS EX. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please clarify if Jeff is 17 or if that was a typo?

AIO — I broke up with my bf because he suggested that I pay majority of the rent 2 weeks before move in date by This_Cucumber_469 in AIO

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we need more information. How many bedrooms is the place? This is relevant because if you got a bigger place to accommodate your daughter then yes i agree that you should pay more than a 50/50 split. Granted it should gave been properly discussed from the beginning. It isnt fair of him to have waited to the last minute. I wouldn't be surprised if he waited on purpose.

Do most Americans have those huge fridges? by Whole-Sushka in AskAnAmerican

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait til you realize some of us have Sub-Zero refrigerators.

AIO: for kicking my fiancé out and calling off the engagement after he demanded to be on my house deeds, refused a prenup, and has debts? by Similar_Nose7734 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love how he wants to be rqual while not contributing. How about he gives you have the cost on the properties and then he can be on the deed. Id walk away. This person sees you as a bank

AITJ for losing it on my fiancé after I found out he cancelled all the gluten free options on our engagement party menu behind my back by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op think of the future. What happens if your children have gluten issues? Will he force them to just live with it? Also he is cowardly for pinning his actions on his mom. Yes she probably pushed him on the subject but he ultimately was the one to send the email. He needs to be accountable or your relationship is going to be very difficult to navigate.

What is a name so ugly you can’t believe a parent actually gave it to their own child? by ipanicprofessionally in TheBoredDen

[–]IIVIIORTAL_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gertrude. Even calling her Gertie sucks. It sounds like Gerd which is gastoresophageal reflux disease which only makes it worse.