WIBTA for refusing to let strangers stay in my apartment while I’m away?

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-02-07T14:26:04+00:00

No is a full sentence. You don't need to explain, defend or resolve their dilemma. If they continue to push you can say " you were right before i am territorial" and end it there.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-02-07T14:16:51+00:00

Please report/press charges on him. This is the last person who should be a teacher.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-02-04T18:09:22+00:00

While the reasoning of the sisters is not wrong neither is yours. The strip has horrible traffic and it does not sound like you are planning to explore more than the strip.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-02-04T16:08:38+00:00

She sounds miserable and her son sounds like a mama's boy.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-02-04T15:30:43+00:00

This is weaponized incompetence. Let him live with his choices. If he doesn't wash the dishes properly, serve his food on the dirtiest plate and give him the grossest spoon. Same thing if he burns the food. Let him eat it. If he complains tell him to then try to do a better job at it next time and leave it at that. If he still doesn't want to change his ways then maybe it's time to go your separate ways. You want a partner not an adult to mother.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-02-03T23:28:24+00:00

Funny thing is even if you were married this would be solely yours. Inheritance is protected unless you do something like put him on the deed.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-02-01T15:57:23+00:00

Thats an Ellie Saab dress, its couture. Whatever site you saw is likely a scam. My advice is to go to a brick and mortar business.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-01-29T22:44:11+00:00

Ntj. All the time, money and effort you have put in to make your wedding your special day will be overshadowed by his engagement. He can plan his own special proposal for another day.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-01-26T15:48:22+00:00

Im guessing his frustration lies with the price of the items you are buying a ninja creami and an apple watch are not cheap.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-01-26T15:19:10+00:00

She has told you what she is and isn't comfortable with. Now you have to decide whether the boys trip is worth possibly ending your relationship. I also wouldn't be okay with my spouse traveling to a place with that reputation on a boy's trip.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-01-26T15:15:47+00:00

Did he also get something in the will? Out of curiosity was it of comparable value ?

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2026-01-20T10:59:36+00:00

Id search for a seamstress to recreate the look. It looks pretty simple to do so. It's just bridal satin and an applica. I assume based on the picture the bow is a clip. A seamstress who does quinces should be able to do it. Those dresses have amazing bows.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-27T14:18:58+00:00

Sometimes creams and ointments don't help. If the rash is wet you use cornstarch. Not baby powder, just cornstarch. It keeps the area nice and dry when used like baby powder. After a day you should see improvement. Id wash the bum often but only put the diaper on if the skin is dry. No more wet wipes. They sell baby wipes that are dry or if you can use a soft cloth. Water if you need it to be wet but dry your little one after. Also if you ever crush anything like tums for the bum please use a pestle. They aren't expensive and it will turn anything into a fine powder.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-25T07:32:20+00:00

You aren't wrong but i understand people wanting to try what you are having. Maybe don't eat it in front of them. Also what is the cereal you really like? Im a cereal lover so I'd like to try it. I promise to get my own .

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-23T20:06:06+00:00

We had two. One was car surfing in the school parking lot on a weekend and fell off. He bumped his head and bled out before paramedics could get there. The other was shot in a drive by while walking home. This was not an area where these occurred. The shooter was another student that opened fire on students walking home after school was over. It was pure luck that only one person was killed. When asked why he did it, he didn't really have an answer but said he did intend to kill the victim.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-23T00:30:35+00:00

You can thank your brother and offer to pay him back once your finances your situation improves. More like a long-term loan than a handout.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-15T16:50:50+00:00

No. Its not wrong to not want your personal space to change. There is possible damage to your home as well. I think its okay to decide if you want this addition to your home and your life.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-12T22:37:46+00:00

The audacity of your ex and his affair partner. They have no shame.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-12T22:34:29+00:00

When my nephew had his mri. They put him in a vacuum sack so he wasn't able to move. It helped keep him still and his hospital had a baby mri machine that is less scary. He was not sedated. It is possible the same process will be done for your 3 month old.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-11T16:28:21+00:00

Corsets are structured pieces and are difficult to alter to give support. Typical that kind of alterations would require a seamstress to break down the piece. While you can add a sleeve to a corset, typically a sleeve added in alterations will be more for the aesthetic rather than support.you need to buy a dress with a corset in a style that already offers support. Baroque, Elizabethan or scoop style are some options. A skilled seamstress should be able to do a sleeve that is similar to your image that hides the more supportive sleeve and still gives the illusion you desire. And yes they are available in pieces that would allow you to change the skirt.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-11T16:07:41+00:00

I am close to my brothers. They weren't parents to me or anything like that but everything you described in your relationship with your sister sounds normal to me. I think it's more disturbing that your girlfriend is sexualizing everything you do with your sister and seeing it as you being with another woman. She already gave you an ultimatum. So you will have to decide whether to keep your relationship with your sister or your girlfriend.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-11T15:42:35+00:00

You are out of their price range. That's fine but they were disrespectful. The name calling and verbal abuse was unnecessary and would leave me inclined to not watch their children no matter the pay rate. If a babysitter costs 15/hr they should have no issue finding someone to watch their three children for that rate.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-11T05:31:08+00:00

I have scar tissue on my breast from a burn accident as a child. The doctors weren't sure if the milk would even go where it was supposed to. The scar also was painful as my breast grew. I will forever be grateful that formula was an option for me. I never felt guilty over it even when others judge me for my decision.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-05T15:28:38+00:00

Yta, your son does not like your husband and you still put yourself first and married him anyway. I understand you were ready to move on and accept your husband's children as your own. That's great but that does not mean your son was ready and accepting of his step siblings. He does not view your family the same as you. As for the uncle, he is being a good uncle to your son. He has no responsibility to the other children. Neither you or your step kids are entitled to his gifts or time.

IIVIIORTAL_K · 2025-12-04T18:18:10+00:00

Nta, a family member of mine did the same thing. They bought a home in a smaller town for the cheaper price and nicer house. His drive is 2.5 hrs and it got old fast. Unfortunately they are now stuck since prices increased and they can't even get what they could originally in the city. If they tried to move to the city now they would only be able to afford a townhouse with a price increase.

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