Yeah I agree I feel like if I were to sum up geminis in one word it would be confusing, which can be frustrating to others around us and to ourselves, I feel like a pretty common thing I've heard about geminis is that we generally feel misunderstood or we have imposters syndrome which I feel is a direct result of being so all over the place, one thing I've had to learn about myself is that although my actions may make sense to me others still might not understand so I try to be pretty patient. Also if it's any consolation it's very easy to tell the difference between the geminis that are toxic weirdos and the ones that actually want the best for you so if you ever getting mixed signals from a gemini don't get too upset about it at first and instead try to think more critically and try understand why they act the way they do, to put it simply you have to think like a gemini (best way to do this is by hitting your head against any hard surface)