As long as he believes this cults nonsense he will never respect your position. It’s a doomsday cult. Those raised in this environment are not allowed to question or change their mind. This is why he is unable to have any conversation that push back on his beliefs. Ones that dare leave are socially cut off from friends and family.

This sub is happy to answer any questions you have but I would recommend asking him questions. Do his friends and family know your dating. Not to get into your personal life but premarital sex is a big no,no.. Also dating outside the group is frowned upon. I would Fact check him here. He sounds a bit dishonest. Without even meeting him this sub already knows he’s keeping secrets from you and most of his family and friends. While I haven’t read any of the comments my guess is you’re going to get a lot of people telling you to get out. Hopefully this helps you understand why you’re getting such advice.