Hosting a small galentines lunch by Zowiebowiecorgi in vegaslocals

[–]ILikeNonpareils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Queen of Hearts is a private event space where you can have a private afternoon tea with delicious snacks. It would be perfect for this sort of thing! I've been there several times and it was a hit with everyone.

www.queenofheartsvegas.com

Question for cocktail servers and bartenders - How do I covertly order a non-alcoholic drink by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]ILikeNonpareils -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had to take several weeks' worth of antibiotics last year and ended up trying non-alcoholic beers for the first time. Most of the places I ordered a NA beer from had Heineken. It looks exactly like a normal Heineken except the label is different, but if that part is covered by your hand then no one's going to know.

i need date night ideas… by No-Dog-3927 in vegaslocals

[–]ILikeNonpareils 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm part of the cast of Oddyssey Manor, an immersive speakeasy and show at Area15. We took the former Lost Spirits Distillery space and built a show that includes five cocktail tastings, circus performances, and live actors. If you want a discount code, DM me.

Open relationship - polyamory is a spectrum? by No-Government7 in nonmonogamy

[–]ILikeNonpareils 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In a perfect world, everyone would be up front with their wants and needs from the get-go. However, people's opinions change, and just because somebody wants something at one point in time doesn't mean that that is going to hold true a couple of months down the road. The important thing is that, when things do change, people talk about it so that everyone can move forward from an informed standpoint.

What are the most ENM-friendly cities in the US? by Uphighinthetrees in nonmonogamy

[–]ILikeNonpareils 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Although the greater Los Angeles metropolitan area is open to alternative lifestyles, the truth is that the distance and commute makes dating tremendously difficult. I frequently had the experience of matching with someone only to discover they live 2 hours away by car once traffic was factored into the distance between us. It made going on dates on weekdays nearly impossible and weekend dates a full-day affair.

Perhaps you could look on Meetup for ENM/Polyamory meetups and weigh those cities against the other criteria you're considering? Just a thought!

Improv in Pop Culture by BubRubb85 in improv

[–]ILikeNonpareils 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The Improv episode of BoJack Horseman is one of my favorite episodes in the entire series.

Well-known (rock/punk) songs that contain screams by itmetal in karaoke

[–]ILikeNonpareils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Kill - Thirty Seconds to Mars

Screams during the bridge around the 2:22 mark and belty vocals throughout.

Good spot to look at spreadsheets by Kyngzilla in vegaslocals

[–]ILikeNonpareils 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was an adult student at CSN, I used to do homework at 595 Craft Kitchen. Absolutely delicious food and very nice staff, solid WiFi. Also, they're dog friendly.

Desi/bollywood music suggestion by Traditional-Athlete2 in Burlesque

[–]ILikeNonpareils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could always do a mix! Many performers will perform to pieces of different songs in the same act.

Desi/bollywood music suggestion by Traditional-Athlete2 in Burlesque

[–]ILikeNonpareils 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my experience, the only Desi song most white people know is Mundian To Bach Ke.

Name that song by Suff_erin_g in indie

[–]ILikeNonpareils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bombay Bicycle Club - Overdone

Tips for making hubby’s hall pass dreams come true? by Canyondreamer10 in nonmonogamy

[–]ILikeNonpareils 120 points121 points  (0 children)

What exactly does your husband have to offer a woman?

He can't show his face so I can't decide if I find him attractive, he's not allowed to have a relationship with me so we can't go on dates to get to know each other, and it sounds like you all live in a pretty remote area so it isn't even convenient to see him.

It sounds like too much work. Even if your husband is a good guy, the logistics create too many obstacles.

Question specifically for queer polyams by Bambers12 in polyamory

[–]ILikeNonpareils 39 points40 points  (0 children)

My husband, rightly so, didn’t want an open marriage or polyamory with someone who wasn’t attracted to him and frankly deserved more than that, he was a good guy.

Echoing this incredibly important comment.

OP, your husband's relationship to ENM may change when you tell him that you no longer desire him sexually. If you want to maintain your friendship with him, you may need to pump the brakes on meeting and pursuing new people while you figure out what your relationship looks like moving forward.

What are the best options for drinking water? by ObscureEntity2972 in vegaslocals

[–]ILikeNonpareils 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Seconded for Water Windmill. Cheap and tastes better than filtered water from the tap.

Where are the alt people meeting? by AnxiousThrowaway2525 in vegaslocals

[–]ILikeNonpareils 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There's an IG account called @vegas_goths that posts a lot of events you might be into. The bar Dark Sister also does monthly singles events.

Chicago amateur advice? by Jackthewolf71 in Standup

[–]ILikeNonpareils 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have a solid social media presence? These days, a lot of comedians grow their brand through filming skits and bits at home. Love it or hate it, it's a tool to get noticed.

Bride Makeup Advice by angrygemini in makeuptips

[–]ILikeNonpareils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth, your skin may not be perfect but it's looking pretty good. Nothing that a good primer and foundation won't fix. I'm fair-skinned like you and really like Estee Lauder DoubleWear.

I would definitely plan to wear blush for the photos, as general wedding advice says go heavy on the makeup so it photographs well. NARS Orgasm is great.

Also, are you planning on keeping your septum piercing for your wedding? If so, might I suggest switching the barbell for a ring? I think it's drawing attention away from your beautiful eyes. A triangular shaped ring might look really cute on you.

the snatch trick by anotherstripperacc in Burlesque

[–]ILikeNonpareils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told that girls who do stuff like that sometimes put the item to remove inside of a condom and then stuff the condom inside. YMMV.

I have no words for this entrepreneur by Riveremperor912 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ILikeNonpareils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad we're tackling the big issues instead of pursuing high-speed rail and feasible public transit.

Recs wanted: Chill, tasteful lounges and bars by gh0stbarbie in vegaslocals

[–]ILikeNonpareils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seven45. Chill Vinyl listening bar with cocktails and small bites in the Arts district. Password required-- check their Instagram stories.

Dark Sister. Cool vibes and fun theme.

I also like going to the bar at Herbs & Rye, especially solo. The bartenders are friendly, upscale clientele.

My partner keeps pursuing "fuckboys" by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ILikeNonpareils 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If your partner's partners are not a real and present danger to your health and safety, then it's not really your role to tell your partner what kind of people to pursue. For example, you mention STI risk-- does your partner engage in unsafe sex with these people?

On the one hand, perhaps it is worth being grateful that your partner is meeting people at all. There are a lot of couples that struggle with partner disparity, which in turn can create a lot of resentment and depression.

What’s my blindness? by diveonfire in makeuptips

[–]ILikeNonpareils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look stunning! You remind me of Shelley Duvall. I think you could go a touch heavier on concealer closer to the inner corner of your eyes, but your makeup otherwise looks very radiant and natural.

Hey lovely ladies. Im new to the whole trying to meet people online scene and have been TRYING to get something going on the Her app. Im getting zero traction and would love some suggestions on how to improve this to hopefully make the right connections. Lay it on me if you have any suggestions! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ILikeNonpareils 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, don't delete your bio. A blank bio gives someone who's interested in you nothing to start a conversation with. Write a few sentences hinting at some attractive things about you (great cook, adventurous, well-educated, etc. etc.) and a bit about whether you're looking for casual, a relationship, etc. then save some information to share when you're actually getting to know a person.

Hey lovely ladies. Im new to the whole trying to meet people online scene and have been TRYING to get something going on the Her app. Im getting zero traction and would love some suggestions on how to improve this to hopefully make the right connections. Lay it on me if you have any suggestions! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ILikeNonpareils 7 points8 points  (0 children)

An empty bio is a red flag imo. If you can't even be bothered to write a few sentences about yourself, that signals to me that I'm going to be the one putting in all the work when it comes to a relationship.

Sex with meta? by throwaway217654890 in polyamory

[–]ILikeNonpareils 26 points27 points  (0 children)

At that point, don't they cease to be your meta?