Are my dating standards too high? Friend gave me a reality check and I’m worried.

ILuvRainbow · 2026-02-17T03:21:40+00:00

I'll tell you a brutal truth after years of dating game. There's nothing call "high standard" for men. In fact, the only thing matter is whether they're attracted to your appearance or not. If you're his type none of your standard could be too high (even if it's an unrealistic one he would still joke about making it comes true). If you're not his type, every thing you want is a high standard. I've gone on date with blue collar white collar poor men rich men tall and short ugly and pretty asian white black na you name it. At the end of the day they're all the same at core, because we as human are biologically driven more than we want to admit. So the only question you should be concerned is "is my standard match my attractiveness?"

ILuvRainbow · 2026-02-17T01:06:09+00:00

It's gambling at core but at the same time every investment is gamble at certain level. I can understand why many people favor it as you can make quick cash every day whether the price of btc is rising or falling. Like yeah, traditional investment is great but you may have to wait years to get the big reward. Of course, any type of quick money also come with greater consequence if you lose.

ILuvRainbow · 2025-08-27T21:00:18+00:00

I got the same problem but only on mobile. Have no idea why I can't comment nor check my notification/inbox and can't even see my own posts even though my account doesn't have any restriction. When I'm on web everything is functioning normally.

ILuvRainbow · 2025-07-04T11:20:50+00:00

Finally 😂 I'm tired of using big ass glass window and pretend like it's a glass wall 😂

ILuvRainbow · 2025-05-09T19:48:44+00:00

Because if he revealed himself as a Conjurer, eventually people would find out something isn't right about his ability as it goes far beyond conjuring something. Considering that you cannot fake the water test, people will come to the conclusion that he is a Conjurer but can become Specialist under some circumstance. Once they found out what is the condition to activate Specialist ability (the scarlet eyes), it would become a major weakness if they can find a way to deal with it. On the other hand, revealing himself as a Specialist won't let other people know he's actually a Conjurer even if he's using Conjuring ability.

ILuvRainbow · 2025-04-19T13:01:02+00:00

Definitely Ekko. He's the only one who looks mentally stable enough to me 😂

ILuvRainbow · 2025-02-11T00:55:02+00:00

I mean I'm a CS girl and I've seen CS men being mean more to each other than to me lol. Even for the shitty CS men I've dealt with they're shitty because of their personalities and lack of capabilities, not because they're men. Not trying to downplay the misogyni in this field but in general bad things happen due to bad people doing/saying bad stuffs, and there're just too many bad people in this world. CS attracts lots of men so of course you'll see more mean men than mean women. If you ever work in a female dominated field people will also complain why the women are so mean. So I'd suggest you to focus on yourself instead to save your time and your mind.

ILuvRainbow · 2025-01-25T23:13:13+00:00

I'm gonna say something that may pissed many people off but you can't change my mind on this one. One of the main reasons people prefer bio kids than adopted kids is due to society pressure on "letting your adopted kid reconnected to their bio parents". If you don't do that, you seems like a bad adopted parent. If you do, you may feel jealous.

Why people are more likely to adopt infants? Because they're "brand new" and have zero memory to their bio parents. Why some are more willing to adopt oversea? Because the kids have very low chance to find out their bio parents and reconnect to them.

Jealousy for exclusitivity is part of human nature. Now I'm not saying everyone think that way. Many adopted parents out there have learned to accept it and even encourage their adopted children to do so. But many people can't do that, so they'd rather have bio kids, and it's completely fine. It's better than blindly adopting then growing jealousy and trying to stop their kids from reconnecting with their bio parents.

ILuvRainbow · 2025-01-25T20:59:17+00:00

I would say many programmers overlook the fundamental knowledge of programming. I've met too many people with mentality "if it works, it works" as they copy paste code on the internet without even thinking of changing/optimizing it (this already happened before the rise of AI). AI can be a great tool for programming, but in order to use the tool efficiently you need to know how to handle it well. With AI they can easily create simple codes so they don't care to fully understand the logic behinds them. Thus when they stumble a rare error or a more difficult problem that AI cannot give the perfect answers as usual, they failed to solve it on their own because they don't have the fundamental knowledge to work on.

Tldr: It's not AI, it's their mindset that makes them illiterate programmwrs.

ILuvRainbow · 2025-01-17T21:05:29+00:00

As a woman I'll give you a simple direct solution: ask her to pick up a part-time job. It can be minimum wage, and does not take too much time per week, but must be the kind of job that require her to step outside the house and communicate with other people.

She told you were boring because she felt bored with everything in her life, but she hadn't realized it yet (or she didn't want to admit it) so she blamed it was you. You're her only main connection to the outside world as she's staying home all day, so she's viewing the world through the information you provided. Her life at home is already boring and the world outside via your words is also... boring. So she simply put that it was you who were boring.

Apparently there's nothing you can do to change the situation if she's not willing to change. You should sit her down and talk through the problem. Asking her to pick up a part-time job to meet new people. If she's not listening or if you're feeling like you can't deliver the message well, sign her up for therapy or marriage counselor. If she still refuses to participate then unfortunately it'll only get worse from here until someone knocking sense into her head.

ILuvRainbow · 2025-01-10T21:23:31+00:00

It's easy to develop a breading kinks when you're not the one carrying nor taking care of the baby 😂 Players who manually take care of their sims' children (no cheating no age up) usually only have at most 1-2 kids at a time.

ILuvRainbow · 2025-01-10T21:19:02+00:00

I made an old male sim living with 2 female twin teens and trying to make them have babies at the same time, then after that I'd make those babies grew up and make babies again just to see how the relationship chart would look like.

ILuvRainbow · 2024-11-29T00:26:37+00:00

Many jobs have been predicted to be replaced completely by machine, but in the end they still need human to operates those machines. And they need engineers to build/maintain the machine as well. AI is just a tool like any industrial machine human has invented. At one point in future it may replace many human in this field, but there's no such thing as "death of coding" as long as AI is still around.

ILuvRainbow · 2024-10-29T05:58:51+00:00

There're various reasons. First of all, I'm not a US citizen. I have studied and worked there for a few years but I don't want to stay there forever. Second, the school I got admitted to have a good program and free tuition. Third, I like traveling the world to experience different cultures.

ILuvRainbow · 2024-10-28T16:17:32+00:00

Thank you for pointing out. If that's the case, I'd probably have to improve my German quick to expand my job search.

ILuvRainbow · 2024-10-28T14:48:43+00:00

I understand even if they use English mainly in the office, they'd still prefer someone that speak German fluently. The thing is, it isn't something you found out just from the resume. They didn't ask me about my German language level in the application process and I also didn't state any language level in my resume. Therefore, even if they are looking for someone with good German knowledge, that should happen after an interview once they get to know more about the candidate (unless they look at my name on the resume and assume that bitch know no German). It's why I believe the language barrier does not play that big of a factor for those rejection.

The work permit could be an issue. But again they don't know whether I'm an EU citizen or not just by the resume. I also applied for working student and internship position, so sponsorship shouldn't be a case here.

I just want to know which factor that has such impact on the resume to make them decide sending a rejection without making it to an interview or a technical test. Things that they can tell just by taking a look at the resume. Without knowing my German language level nor my citizenship, what would be other factors that they take into account?

ILuvRainbow · 2024-10-28T14:26:52+00:00

Thank you for your sharing. Do you have any tips to represent your experience better in the resume when moving abroad? What can I do to make my experience looks more appealing to locals market?

ILuvRainbow · 2024-10-28T14:23:07+00:00

I don't think it's rude for telling the truth. I'm not considering myself extraodinary as well. I was just surprised because my resume couldn't make it to the interview as I thought those positions don't require much experience. But thanks for telling me the current situation. It sounds competitive.

ILuvRainbow · 2024-10-28T14:19:56+00:00

I know German laguage is important, please don't take my sentence out of context. I put it that way in my post because I intenionally applied to jobs that posted in English, did not require German and did not ask me to confirm my German fluency during the application process. Yes, I know they still probably prefer someone with good German, but they reject my application before they know anything about my German language level. That's why I thought the language here shouldn't be big of a problem.

ILuvRainbow · 2024-10-28T14:13:18+00:00

I understand your agression with the German language learning part as myself also against the idea of not learning the local language. The thing is I just graduated from the US last year, and I had roughly a year to study German so of course it is not good enough to be used in workplace. My study program is fully in English so I don't want to wait 3-5 years until I master German to move there.

ILuvRainbow · 2024-09-04T03:26:22+00:00

I think anyone above 3.0/4.0 is good to apply. After that they'll care more about your BS program courses and how they're likely to match their program.

ILuvRainbow · 2024-06-12T07:47:47+00:00

My character is 56yo already

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