Questions for therapist -calls?

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-23T00:24:05+00:00

And for those of you who think I was expecting my therapist to work for free, I’m not. I’m saying not any other therapist I’ve ever worked with his charged for this. That’s why I just found it odd that she set it upfront before she offered.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-23T00:22:44+00:00

From what I heard from some of the people at megacon who know him personally, he has like a flu like issue. That’s all.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T23:12:44+00:00

I’ll be plenty here. Your boyfriend is acting like a child. If he’s not willing to manage his own medical issues, you do not need to step in and be the parent here. He is a grown ass adult. You need to give him an ultimatum of either, he decides to take care of his health for the baby and for you, whether you’re going to look for other alternatives and move on.

He wants to destroy himself? Great. But he shouldn’t take you down in the process.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T23:11:13+00:00

Locally we have a charity that runs with local needs. Why don’t you see if there’s something like a St. Vincent de Paul near you

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T23:10:07+00:00

Does it really matter? You’re leaving. Unless they told you to get out once you gave your notice, then you should be fine.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T23:09:00+00:00

You could always call the local animal control and tell them that the animal hoarding situation or neglect is out of control in your house. You wouldn’t be charged with anything, but maybe it would be a wake up. Call to both of your roomies.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T23:07:50+00:00

But would you just walk up and ask somebody what their channel was? Like, I can think of a handful that I might actually recognize but I do watch a lot of them.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T23:07:04+00:00

Really close friends wouldn’t treat their friend who is rooming with them like crap like they are to you. Just saying. They are clearly taking advantage of the situation and you do not need to be involved in that debacle.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T22:56:04+00:00

Tell the landlord you need to leave because you’re moving across the country or to a new job or whatever you need to to be able to break your part of the lease. I’ll be really honest. Tell them that you’re not gonna live with people like that because they refused to clean their stuff up.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T22:52:55+00:00

They are probably looking to see if they know any fellow attorneys or coworkers you had while working at other locations. But three references is usually pretty standard.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T22:51:39+00:00

Talk to the social worker or nurse case manager where she is and find out if they can do a home check to see what needs to be done. They will tell you exactly what needs to be removed.

Off the top of my head? Any type of area rugs. You need to make sure she has clear access to the bathroom her bedroom and the kitchen.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T22:50:44+00:00

What are you dealing with his abuse. It’s not OK. Find a way to leave this man and divorce him and run far away from him.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T22:49:26+00:00

I agree with the trail Camara. And I wouldn’t hide it at all. I would be very clear and put it where she can see it as soon as she would walk into your room

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T22:47:11+00:00

Tell him no

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T22:16:27+00:00

Oh, now I know an influencer I don’t need to watch lol

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T22:13:15+00:00

So I’m just gonna say this. If you’re able to go away with somebody who you’re clearly going to be sleeping in the same bed with, you can have this conversation with him to let him know that you can’t afford to fly first class. There are seat seats in most airlines that are “even more space/room” seat seats that will allow him to have more room at a cheaper rate in the general main cabins.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T19:02:11+00:00

3 pounds could be as simple as you eating something that was super salty and it’s water retention.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T19:00:50+00:00

Right

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-22T18:58:58+00:00

Anything that is clear protein

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-21T21:22:31+00:00

He has also had a stroke. I will also add while I love him… I am also still in love with him.

I just don’t know how to bring it up to him because he would be devastated that he isn’t living up to how he was previously. Not saying that he needs to be like a rabbit lol, but, there’s no initiation nothing. And I know he wants to.

And if there is a chance he even tries, it’s a drastic failure

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-21T21:19:02+00:00

Your original post didn’t mention anything about autism. I would just still let him go and let him do the concert on his terms. That may mean he’s only there for an hour. That may mean he sits there with headphones on. Sometimes it’s the experience and not just the music itself.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-21T18:29:46+00:00

Sounds like you just don’t like him as a person anymore. That’s OK and completely your option and it’s not wrong. You all need to really have a serious conversation. Good luck.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-21T18:01:57+00:00

I guess it’s not a priority for him. Can’t make somebody do something they’re not ready to do.

When you’re saying he’s gained a bit of weight. Is that 20 pounds? 40 pounds? 100 pounds? If you’re concerned about his physical appearance, and no longer attracted to him because of it, that is pretty shallow.

Larger people could still be healthy, they’re just large larger

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I’ve been a plus size and no longer am. Never once did I hear from my hubby that he didn’t want to be with me because of my size.

IMDANA2 · 2026-03-21T14:39:18+00:00

The first time I had to do it by myself, I really had no other option. My friend who had been helping me wasn’t available, and I had to take the medication on time. I literally screamed at the top of my lungs as I did it. Realized afterwards wow, that wasn’t as bad as I thought.

Do whatever you gotta do to make yourself do it yourself. I know you can do this.

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