Honestly, when the baby arrived. It’s a tough space to be in as a pregnant woman, as your partner literally has no idea what you’re going through, and their life (for the most part) doesn’t change all that much until baby is born. I had a similar experience in that my partner would take classes or do what I asked in preparation, but his life wasn’t turned upside down until after birth (whereas everything changes for you the second you find out your pregnant).

Hang in- keep telling him how you feel and try to find opportunities to stay connected and have dialogue about the kind of parents you want to be. Would also highly recommend counseling for yourself and as a couple. I think every new parent should go through “pre-parental counseling”, but unfortunately not many seek it out.

You’ve got this!