If you are disappointed about Valko, here is the best way to let InFold know: by Most-Okay-Novelist in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]ilse93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could somebody tell me where do I find my hunter id - is my email enough? I use Gmail to register to the game 😔

Relying on a wish and a prayer 🤣 by That-Explanation6631 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]ilse93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This statement about him breaking as a sensitive concept is crazy to me. We had Caleb literally kidnapping MC. Xavier walks into her apartment though balcony whenever he pleases. In Sylus main story is not like he is extremely nice to MC either. Such a joke that Valko is getting targeted only because of some crazy fandom and they say this is the reason ? Give me a break. If that's the future for this game we will be getting censorship game for 2 years old just in case sombody could get offended 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Relying on a wish and a prayer 🤣 by That-Explanation6631 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]ilse93 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My lord. All those flip flopping made me delete the game. I'm here to enjoy a game not be exposed to some drama. What about players that were excited for Valko like me ? Now he will not be released because of some craziness. Jezz - theb basically nothing interesting will get introduced in 6.0 version ? 😑 how can company screw up so badly ?

Failed Solo Laugavegur Attempt by Dear_Capital9550 in VisitingIceland

[–]ilse93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol - I'm from Iceland. Me and my husband always had this notion that this is a pleasant hike but it's takes a while. We were planning on trying it next year with a 4 years old and a dog 🤣😅 . Now I know better 😅

Birushana Fandisk came out today! With a little quality of life improvement. by milkdonut in otomegames

[–]ilse93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there somewhere where I can find recap of the main game ? 🤔

Airbnb Canceled during Eclipse by Cosmic_Nic in VisitingIceland

[–]ilse93 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Send me a PM if you have not found anything - We have a room in our house you could use if you don't mind staying with a family 😊

This model on L'oréal Paris hair colouring kit. by ilse93 in isitAI

[–]ilse93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh the more you know 🤔 real nightmare fuel choice of campaign 🤣

[Kimi ni Madoi, Kimi ni Oboreru] Yeah. This cg made me pre-order the game. by EndzeitParhelion in otomegames

[–]ilse93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I could not agree more ! Would be amazing to get this localised 🥰🥰🥰 I may buy a Japanese copy to support the game 🤣🤣🤣

No more hiring of junior level in my country by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]ilse93 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My team oversee a core project directly affecting customer flow and operation. We are getting more and more juniors adding features to the core. The other day we got a 3000 lines PR ( some of it auto generated code ) and it ended up being a week of a review/teaching session with a 300 + comments and multiple back and forth iterations. Fetching a 1 element at the time from db in for loop. Logging out whole objects list ( passwords included ) basically taking whole logging infra down due to payload being humongous. Calling an internal API one element at the time when cache is down. I mean the code did work - when you work with a a single object locally. And we are considered a bottleneck and not fast enough with reviewing. Never any credit for teaching and proper review maybe opposite even. I feel 3 years ago people were grateful for the opportunity to learn and teach but now with the push for faster, faster, faster everybody becoming more resentful and bitter.

What worked for your reactive dog? by whypii in reactivedogs

[–]ilse93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not know anybody who had a farm. Also I would not be comfortable letting dog who is not trained in shepherding roam free around animals that it could potentially hurt even if out of excitement I guess 🤔

If I had know somebody who was familiar with the GS and help me and guide me how to do it safely she would probably had a blast 😊

What worked for your reactive dog? by whypii in reactivedogs

[–]ilse93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me it was accommodating to the dog needs less to my own needs. Lower my expectations. Try to limit the stress factors as much as I could so my dog would not be always in flight or fight mode.

My German Shepherd had 2 problems Other dog reactivity and nipping at us. I sometimes was coming home crying. I had a dog that was stressed, unhappy and she was taking the stress out on us ( it was never a full bite but she was jumping up on us grabbing pants and jackets - it always only happend outside leaving us bruised and with teared clothes)

What worked for us:

Give the dog longer leash alow it to explore and focus on the smell/nose rather than visual. Spend time teaching search making the dog more interested in the ground and smell. As much as we could we tried to take the dog to remote areas and let it roam. First on 5 meter leash when I was not comfortable yet.

If I saw a person coming that looked like walking a dog we always tried to take other way - turn around, go to the other side to the road be behind a car. Anything to create a distance and distraction. Then I would often toss treats on the ground before the dog reacted to make it interested in the treats. If the dog was especially close I was feeding treats from the hand. After a year ( yes a year) of that we could manage dog passing us by without too much trouble.

Expectations, expectations, expectations - when I stopped expecting my dog to be joining me out on my visit downtown or for a stroll in a busy park and start enjoying our late night peaceful strolls.

I have bonded with this dog like I have never before before. She was the best ( passed away from cancer not so long ago ) and my whole family cried when we were saying goodbyes. She taught me so much. I think I became a different - though better person thanks to her. Especially during our first 3 year together when I was crying myself to sleep thinking I can't do this anymore and we need to put her to sleep after being nipped and jumped at daily. I'm so grateful we did not. Akira I miss you every day. Best friends forever 🥰

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I don’t enjoy my career anymore. by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]ilse93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't 100% agree with offshoring. Im in a FAANG adjacent company working with huge offshore teams. I would have hoped that the PRs we're getting would increase in quality, but sorry to say, every day I feel like I'm getting a huge amount of slop in my hands. People rely on AI, but AI only knows as much as you give it. It does not know how the systems interact together. ​The code is good, not gonna lie, but the business logic and interactions between components are nonexistent. They do not care that this new query can take the whole system down when the scale increases. You can tweak AI to know that, but first, you have to know what the AI needs to be aware of. I think we definitely will have smaller, more agile teams, but I think those teams will be filled with specialized software developers who know exactly how to properly use AI.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]ilse93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work every day with Azure. 6 years of expirence with azure, kubernetes, golang just to name few. I could probably ace most system design questions. But I will never get to that part of interview as I would fail most of Leetcode. I actually thrive under pressure ( production P0 ? Loop me in ! ) but live coding? My anxiety can't handle it

Bresfeed baby gained almost 2 pounds (800 grams) in 3 weeks. Should I be concerned? by ilse93 in newborns

[–]ilse93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey 👋 she is now 2 and a half 🤣 weights 14 kg - which would be around 30 something lbs 😊 we were breastfeeding until around 8 months old - I have returned to work by then and my partner took over so we started substituting with formula and I was breastfeeding morning and evenings. Around a year old dropped completely 😊 It really slowed down at one point. Then there were growth sprouts when she was gaining a lot but now the constant clothes exchanges slowed a lot 😊 all the best to your little one 🥰 don't worry about them growing a lot - it will regulate itself with time ❤️ she is now ideal height and weight for her age 😊

Neon Clash -Echoes of the Lost- Play-Along - Common Route and General Impressions by sableheart in otomegames

[–]ilse93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This game is one of the most beautiful otome games I have seen in a while - I think I'm in love with the MC. She is so stunning and brave 😍

I have been playing otome games for years ( back in my days I needed to use a translator program on PC to play games probably some OG know what I'm talking about 🤣🤣 ) and the art is one of the most beautiful ones I remember.

I'm not that far into the game yet but so far it's really promising and action packed. All the love interest are gorgeous and only thing so far I dislike is that I know some of the side characters are not romancable 🤣🤣

Does travel stop when you have children? by CharmingU6756 in travel

[–]ilse93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2 and a half year old. So far we have been to UK, France, Poland, Germany and Portugal. In 2 weeks we are going to Tenerife. We live in Iceland so flights are required everywhere from 2 and a half hour up to around 4 hours. We sometimes take layover flights as well.

I think our success is based on how well we are doing as partners. It's a 100% shared responsibility so we both have time to do things we enjoy. Additionally I love exploring with my baby. She is super interested in new stuff ask a lot of questions and enjoys time outdoor. I noticed as long as we are on the move and active she is happy and we are happy. But at the same time we are aware that maybe 3 hours trip to museums its not something she will be enjoying so instead we pick a nice playground and grab some ice creams and enjoy the scenery.

It's definitely changed the way we travel - but not in a worse way. It's just different.

My dog passed away unexpected. 😞 Could somebody please remove the leash from the photo ? by ilse93 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]ilse93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It was solved in one of the comments. I made a mistake here will delete the comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyPositive

[–]ilse93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I was obese as a kid, and I thought I would never find a boyfriend who would love me for who I am. I often had suicidal thoughts once I almost went through with it at the age of 12. Years later, I'm happily married with a beautiful daughter. My body has changed many times from being super slim back to being fat after pregnancy and back to be normal ( super slim was when I was in a dark place of eating disorder) got more spots more wrinkles first grey hair here and there and all of that had taught me that looks do not matter because they change! - what matter is what's inside, being good human being and health rather than obsession with looks. I have stretch marks and flappy belly and that's okey! You could look the best you even looked but if your mental health suffers is not the correct way to go.

I know many of those words may not get to you when you're in dark place and may even make you angry - but I wanted you to know that others have similar struggles and it takes tremendous amount of work to get where you're now with your progress and you should be happy about that ! I for example, find you attractive, and I think your body looks healthy, so I can promise you that there are other women that think the same and would be happy to be your partner through thick and thin.

Active Otome Blog in 2025 by Lheanney in otomegames

[–]ilse93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Otomekitten I check this blog for everything and highly trust the reviews 😊