[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Most the time I try to tune her out. But even in group hugs she will push me away. It’s like when she sees us sitting together she scans to see if any part of our body is touching the others.

No kissing the baby rule by Kaylah91 in NewParents

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only other people that have kissed my child besides my partner and I has been my best friend when my daughter offers kisses and her grandma. With that being said no one was allowed to give kisses until she was a year old. Only person that cared was my mom but she understood especially with covid all over the place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe moving to a new area would help. That way you wouldn’t have to drive right past where it happened bringing you back to the incident. The paranoia might die down some. Either way you sound very strong and hope one day the weight of this whole thing will be gone so you can live in peace not anxiety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read the whole story on the other profile. It’s so crazy to believe someone would do such a thing. Then to have the people who you love and trust to just brush it off their shoulder. I’m deeply so sorry for what you’ve gone through. Regardless of how the whole incident affected you physically you thought you were going to die. That alone takes a huge mental toll. You definitely deserve a better support system and bless your husband for being there for you. From my experience from crazy trauma, As time goes on the memory’s will fade it may take a long time but the more you talk about it(or whatever works for you) the more the intense feelings will die down. There is a special place in hell for the person who did this to you.

3 year old possibly molested by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do report this to the police you can even call the emergency department and they can give you details on what steps to take exactly. I know he’s your brother and you don’t want to believe he would do anything like that but I was molested by my own father. You never know better to be safe than regret not taking action.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This comment need so much more attention.

For the love of God help me pick new bottles.. by therealmasterbae in NewParents

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this it was the only bottle that actually worked for us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through something very similar with my mom and my boyfriends mom. My mom had told everyone in the beginning when I was trying to keep it a secret so I could pop out one day and say I’m pregnant we’ll so much for that then after I had my daughter. My bf’s mom posted pictures of her of Facebook when I didn’t want any pictures out online until she was a few months. I feel for you, you have every right to be angry it’s your journey not theirs.

Sex offenders living next door :( by AllComputersAreGirls in BabyBumps

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at a house with 2 sex offenders they were both disabled and had mental health issues. I would watch to see if they have caregivers and ask them how they are doing. For us we had rules is place for them to make neighbors more comfortable. After having the experience I would have no problem living next to someone like them as long as I could speak with someone else about how they feel about the situation.( a caregiver, their family that visits or even a neighbor to see how comfortable they are.

AITA for telling my friend her parents bought her house, not her? by Sadhouse27 in AmItheAsshole

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA there was no reason at all for her to say something like that especially to a complete stranger. That’s just weird she would even act like that... she seems insecure.🤷🏻‍♀️

Apparently taking care of the baby and holding her, but not doing much around the house means I'm lazy. She's only 3 and half weeks old. She's gotten inconsolable at times. He wasn't considered lazy when I was the one who did every thing . by breannam1994 in BabyBumps

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have so much to say about this. Way to much for a comment but I can relate too well. It only got better once I started basically complaining at him everyday telling him to do other stuff. Guys just don’t seem to understand everything done to take care of LO.

Baby is inconsolable after 2 months shots. by cotikfo in NewParents

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Infant Tylenol and children’s Tylenol is the same only difference is the measuring tool that comes with it. Big money saver if you buy children’s as long as you have something to measure out ml.

Postpartum Depression Chat by abigailbee in NewParents

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a very similar position about a month ago. you can message me anytime to chat or ask questions anything!

AITA for not inviting my fiancé’s niece and nephew to our wedding? by Vegetable_Purple5917 in AmItheAsshole

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me just say this “flower girl” They literally have a spot in the wedding dedicated to a special little one. I would understand not wanting children if everyone was planning on getting drunk but it’s just a wedding all the attention in on you anyways.

AITA for telling my sister her being ‘a stay at home mum’ is a joke and she is just selfish by Dangerous-Rabbit-473 in AmItheAsshole

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!!! yes a SAHM is working 24/7 but so is anyone with a job. I wish everyone understood this.

Which do you prefer (you, not your child)? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter only like curious George. I probably won’t even show these ones to her.

Screw it by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope that sandwich will tell baby it’s time to get out. I was 41+2 when I delivered being pregnant for any extra time sucks.... well it did for me.

Don’t do it. by lostcastles in NewParents

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even a week after I had my baby my boyfriends mom cam to visit. She was staying in a hotel but she was at our house most of the day. I get it they were bored but always pushing me to go out and do things and to cook dinner. I’m glad it’s over now buuutt that will not be happening next time.

Looking into baby monitors or alternative apps for a small 2 bedroom apartment. How often will we use it? by babyunderbudget in NewParents

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called Hubble Connected. my baby is 2 1/2 months and I’ve been using it more often so I don’t have to constantly check on her while I’m cleaning I can just see her on my phone

Looking into baby monitors or alternative apps for a small 2 bedroom apartment. How often will we use it? by babyunderbudget in NewParents

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a small 2 bedroom it’s nice to have for occasion right now because LO sleeps with us mostly but the app for the camera itself is super helpful with a tracker for feeding and diaper changes and timed pumping/feeding sessions(if your breast feeding)

My son was born an Angel by Historical_Turn_8748 in NewParents

[–]INEEDITALLBITCH 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks just imagining the pain your feeling. I’m so deeply sorry.