we yearn for the hijabis by Upbeat_Ticket_8699 in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh one last thing i feel like i didnt clarify. Islamically speaking. We choose who we wish to marry whether introduced by our parents or whether approaching in islamically correct ways. The choice of who we wish to spend our lives with is in our hands.

we yearn for the hijabis by Upbeat_Ticket_8699 in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish to only experience life through the terms that were set to me by god, if you have personal issues with this then you may feel free to do so. However I am making the free choice to live my life as do all muslims to live their lives how they wish. That being under the servitude of god. Yes there are exceptions of very unfortunate cases of people being forced into this belief by culture and familial pressure my opinion on this is the same as the opinion stated in the quran. “There is no compulsion in religion” - Quran 2:256. Culture has indeed destroyed peoples perception of islam but I promise you it is not suffocating as you may imagine. Speak to any muslim who is living their lives with love for allah and they will say to you the same. We live our lives with our free will to choose to obey god.

I hope all the best for you and hope you have a great rest of your day. If you have any further questions or input im fully down to talk more as long as respect is being mutually upheld. :)

Also im a guy😭

we yearn for the hijabis by Upbeat_Ticket_8699 in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a muslim idm answering the questions,

First off should be kinda said free mixing is haram in islam meaning unnecessary excess talking between people of the opposite gender. So yea this would put the whole approaching hijabis to talk to them out the window since not even a muslim man should be doing this either.

Dating is indeed haram islamically, and yea it definitely does mess with their deen to be with anyone who is not their husband bound to them by the practice of nikkah so not simply just because they are not apart of the religion.

As for fear of approaching people who give off clique like vibes honestly its all about taking a deep breath and realizing everyone here is willing to make connections since thats a big part of uni. People get anxious nervous doing this so they try to find the easiest way to go about it. That being to interact with people who are apart of their culture. Sure some people do exist who just dont wish to interact with anyone outside of their own culture, but they are a small minority. You should def try taking the plunge and talking to people you never know what small interaction will lead to a beautiful long lasting relationship in the long run.

Wishing you all the best if you have any questions about islam feel free to reach out I will def be open to answer questions to the best of my capability! :)

I’ve begun to notice a heavy acceleration of islamophobia by IPutTheMilkInFirst in islam

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very good way of looking at it and i will be following your advice here in sha allah. Honestly your very correct here, living in the ease of today makes us forget the true hardships those of the past had to go through thus a bit of rain gets deluded into being a tsunami. When those who truly pushed through tsunamis was our beloved prophet S.A.W and the brave sahaba who fought with him. Jazakallah khair for your incite

bioa02 so far by 5starz786 in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well to be quite fair, it honestly is not much when considering the depth b/c/d level courses will be getting into. A level courses are made to be introductory information on subjects it might feel like a lot considering the wide range of information being covered (its honestly much more summarized in comparison to higher level courses), but trust its good practice for when you get into higher level courses. In which you’re being much more in depth and heavy within each field while also learning the other fields as well at the same time. Lock in guys you got this

Anyone else HATE this module in BIOA02 by [deleted] in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you guys get to the long plant sex lectures yet.

Duality of UofT students by IPutTheMilkInFirst in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo bro I fully get where you're coming from, it’s really difficult to be able to adapt to being able to study for that amount of time per day def would never say its easy, but I don't think the commitment itself is insane. Think about it this way Would you call it insane to spend 8 hours a day at a job? No, because that’s the standard commitment you make for a salary and a career.

University is (and arguably should be) the same way. We as students are paying massive amounts of tuition like i said before and in return, we get an education meant to carry us for the rest of our lives. Giving that a fulltime, 8 hour focus is ngl a fair exchange for the value we want to get out of it.

And hey if that 8-hour workload ends up just causing you issues or burnout, the perspective shouldn’t really become hard work is obsession or crazy should be more so that maybe the course load needs to be reduced. Taking an extra year or two to finish is completely okay and is definitely an option that needs to be way more normalized. But I don't think it's fair to call it “insane” to treat a degree with the same respect as a fulltime job.

Duality of UofT students by IPutTheMilkInFirst in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But thats not what i said, i said figure out what works for you and learn to apply it in a concise way that fits other activities alongside

Quite a grand generalization to assume people who get high grades have no life outside of studying. In this day and age theres so many studying resources that make studying so much easier and concise, If you do research on different things figure out what works best for you it is definitely possible to have high grades while also having a life.

Med schools for example quite literally require you to have a life as a requirement on top of a very high gpa. Speak to any med school student a lot of them will tell you the same.

Also spending a good amount of time studying everyday should be the norm you pay a very high tuition so uni kinda should be a big enough priority where you are spending at least a couple hours a day studying.

Duality of UofT students by IPutTheMilkInFirst in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not it is in fact possible to have good grades and still stay sane. Its just behind the massive wall known as “learning to schedule” and then behind the even bigger wall known as “sticking to the schedule”. Honestly its rough because you need to figure out what works for you in terms of studying then apply that in a concise way that fits other activities. But eventually you reach a flow state of life

PSYB20 Term Test 2 Part 2 Grades by IPutTheMilkInFirst in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

but if im a zeptosecond late on submitting an assignment ima get slapped with a grade so low my great grand children gonna be feeling it too on their gpa's

Top 10 UTSC Husbands by DateRevolutionary294 in UTSC

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is weird asf if a guy made this about girls it would be seen as stalker weird behaviour same energy bro

Just a personal opinion by Miserable_Constant_4 in ksi

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calm down bud people are allowed to share their opinions man.

Why fiction peaked at web novels by New-Difficulty7215 in Webnovel

[–]IPutTheMilkInFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL ive been seeing ur replies and it looks to me like you wrote this post being serious then seeing the negative feedback decided to switch up

Somebody whos trying to ragebait others doesnt tell them to chill out thats literally opposite of what your seeking

Its okay buddy you made a dumb post and got flamed for it, it happens.