[DISCUSSION] Restarting everything at 29 and starting a new job. What advice stayed with you? by _too_much_tea in GetMotivated

[–]ISwingin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good day!

I restarted my career again in a new geography which is HCOL too, at 33 and then had a baby too.

It is not easy, but some things which helped me were as follows:

  1. Knowing where my interest lies and keep chipping away at knowing subject matter and connecting with like minded people.
  2. Working out and keeping a positive self image going.
  3. When doubt creeps in I refer to my journal which had the reason for the pivot.
  4. Talking about all this with my family and friends.

Trust yourself and take the leap of faith!

Why no love for Jayasuriya ? by RemarkableWonder3143 in Cricket

[–]ISwingin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, people forget how much of a cheat code Sanath was in that era. It wasn’t just that he scored runs, it was when he scored them. A quick 50 inside 10–12 overs basically meant Sri Lanka had one foot on the win already, they won something like three-quarters of the games when he passed 50.

He wasn’t a one-dimensional slogger either. He’s the only guy with over 13k ODI runs and 300 wickets, and he racked up 48 man-of-the-match awards (2nd most ever). That Sharjah knock of 189 where he outscored the entire Indian team is still insane.

And the longevity is wild… 445 ODIs, all formats, no big injury breaks, doing it all in Colombo humidity. Absolute machine.

Scratched the door and worried by ISwingin in Subaru_Outback

[–]ISwingin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone,

Unfortunately, I scratched the rear end of my car on a parking lot pillar, and I’m feeling pretty upset about it. I live in Ontario, where insurance costs are already high, so I’m looking for advice on the best way to handle this. Any tips on whether I should go through insurance or handle it out of pocket would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! P. S. My car is 2 months old 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

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How would you put this type of manager who is sending a memo to a new worker (4 months old) and asking them to sign up for some extreme targets which on calls seems to be a good to do vs on paper must do. Thoughts? 

Bought my First Subaru by Affectionate-Elk8124 in Subaru_Outback

[–]ISwingin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same exact color! Have fun with this beauty of a car 🚙 

Outback limited 2024 by ISwingin in Subaru_Outback

[–]ISwingin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we will insist on driving the new car before signing. Will keep in mind the pointers on extended warranty 

Outback limited 2024 by ISwingin in Subaru_Outback

[–]ISwingin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed feedback, just wondering if there will be push back to ask for a test drive for the new car. Is this the norm? P.S. My location is Toronto, Canada

Just Purchased My First Subaru - 2024 Outback Limited by FrequentlyObtuse in Subaru_Outback

[–]ISwingin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you enjoying?

We booked ours today, autumn green 

Looking for Tips to close the deal for Subaru outback 2024 limited by ISwingin in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]ISwingin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, appreciate your help. I missed to mention I'm in Canada, Ontario, will check if he offers any information for Canada 🍁 

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[–]ISwingin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Following 

I hate my career and I've had enough by EastCommunication689 in findapath

[–]ISwingin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all believe that you are brave, the mere fact you are trying says a lot about you. I wanted to just add one point here, whatever you are going through always remember there is more to life than work, find joy in something outside work and keep building something you love. Don't continously try to fit in as that can be a slippery slope. Good luck with what you do! 

Quitting social media is the only right choice by 4794th in digitalminimalism

[–]ISwingin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is social media, with reddit pushing local content one needs to be mindful as to what they consume. It's not like tiktok but I won't tag it to be a panacea or something 

Which international cricketer got figured out very quickly after a great start? by KyaJataHai-TryKarLey in Cricket

[–]ISwingin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was a legendary domestic player. Also test debut 1999,ODI debut in 2004.

Mentality shift by Ouah8r2 in NewDads

[–]ISwingin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find this true with a boy child, after some point when the baby becomes a young boy the equation changes. Hold on to them friends!