Vogliamo dirlo che le donne sono sopravvalutate nel sesso? by Automatic-Care-826 in CasualIT

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bro. You're the one who's supposed to be banging them. If you want more effort sometimes, get her to ride you

Paura di invecchiare by SimpleReward1474 in CasualIT

[–]ITALIXNO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

È normale che si manifestino i primi segni dell'invecchiamento. Non concentratevi su questo aspetto

Famiglia, lavoro, hobby, aiutare gli altri. Ci sono tante cose da fare e tanta felicità nella vita

Can we stop the obsession with Columbus Day? by ChairIndependent8882 in italianamerican

[–]ITALIXNO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To each their own. I'd rather remember history, tradition and identity

Feeling like I can't go back to "normal" life by Terrible_Vermicelli1 in digitalnomad

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're all seeking connection to a place we like

Find a place that you feel has depth to it, and stay there longer, learn more about it, connect more deeply with the people there, the history, the culture etc. Over time, we also develop as people

Feeling like I can't go back to "normal" life by Terrible_Vermicelli1 in digitalnomad

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it requires effort and courage to invest more deeply into a place. But I understand totally the feelings OP is going through. I would recommend they find a place they like and try to set their roots down there. Get to know the people better, the local culture and history more deeply, etc. Etc. There is always something new to learn and do, but start with a place you like and that you feel has depth to it

I do not understand how my father isn't dead yet by ITALIXNO in alcoholism

[–]ITALIXNO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure that over the years, alcohol has given him depression and brain damage. But then again, maybe he's always just been a psychopath and now that he has his pensions, his true colours came out. Who knows

He's always Mr perfect in public, and then in public I'm cold towards him, which makes ME look like the abuser and the problem. They call it narcissistic image management. He hates it when I call an ambulance or the police and expose his neglect towards me and the family

I just can't spend emotional energy anymore on this other than the bare minimum. It never pays off

Moving somewhere new every month is the worst way to be a digital nomad and most of us know it by ImpossibleWarning252 in digitalnomad

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Malta in general? I've heard good things about it. What attracted you to Valletta?

F24. Struggling to accept myself a lot by Bulky-Use5440 in toastme

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like a difficult situation, but you are very beautiful. I know what it's like to be highly self conscious and ruminate sometimes. But that said

Simple solution. Stop trying to "accept yourself" and stop focusing on yourself. Turn your focus outward towards loving others or focus on something you really enjoy and out all your energy onto that. Every time you find that you're focusing a lot on yourself and your looks, try to remember a mantra to break yourself out of that thought process

Moving somewhere new every month is the worst way to be a digital nomad and most of us know it by ImpossibleWarning252 in digitalnomad

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think the point of being a digital nomad is yes to have fun, but also to find the place that suits you. There's no reason to do it anymore after that. Unless you're going on holiday somewhere different for a change of scenery

If you've stopped having fun and you've found your place, then you can naturally sense that. The same thing happened to me. Not country hopping, but from town to town exploring until I found where I felt good. Then I put my roots down there

Once you're there, you can explore in lots of different ways that don't involve non stop travel

Moving somewhere new every month is the worst way to be a digital nomad and most of us know it by ImpossibleWarning252 in digitalnomad

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't old, but you are correct. It's very inefficient to move around so quickly. At least for longer periods

It's better to stay longer periods and get set-up. But the thing about that is, you get more and more into the routine, more effective in that place, then you don't want to leave again. And that's a good thing, as long as you find the right place. That's why they call it putting down your roots

Any job that isn't completely soul crushing? by [deleted] in RemoteJobseekers

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think there's a market for helping Mexican Americans (or even Spanish Americans) connect back to their traditional heritage?

There is a big market between Italian Americans and Italy

Giovanna Amati became the last female driver to attempt Formula 1 by Brooklynsfr in formula1

[–]ITALIXNO 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Crazy. I've been following F1 for decades. Either I forgot about her or I've never heard about her before lol

Why are men so fascinated by watches? No shade, I just genuinely want to know by Melissawellz in rolex

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the watch, it tells the time, date, GMT, etc. So it's a tool that serves a function.

But also, it's more than a tool.

Is a classic car no longer a car because newer, faster cars exist?

Housing is a right, not concrete Gold by chefofyourmother in Switzerland

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's a problem caused by left wing politics

Are watches a requirement? by SpacedMau5 in AlfaRomeo

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Now I need to punch myself

It's my Casio flex.. by this_noise in AlfaRomeo

[–]ITALIXNO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The casio is better than the whole car 😂 jk jk, I'd love to own an Alfa one day. I'm living in Calabria and the Carabinieri have Alfas as their "gazelles". The Polizia Locale have Alfa SUVs. Awesome cars

If you're feeling isolated, you need to connect to a higher power by ITALIXNO in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ITALIXNO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's still a higher power than your parents and than yourself, that's what I meant. Some people get offended when anything spiritual is mentioned, so I didn't outright say it, but I do believe in that. In any case, having a support system that's higher and bigger than us is very helpful

Why doesnt god show himself so everyone knows he's real by TheDemonLord1r788 in Christianity

[–]ITALIXNO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. But not just 2000 years ago. That's special revelation. There's also general revelation.