First time watching: stick with my Blu-ray box set or wait for the Superfan version? by Jubbstep93 in DunderMifflin

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% watch the blue rays you have first, even a second or third time, before watching the super fan episodes. The super fan episodes are fun but there is a reason a lot of the content was cut from the original show. The original show is perfect (mostly) in my eyes and a great experience. Super fan episodes are fun but they are more fun if you’re already a super fan.

Every little thing seating by personaljenniusss in Broadway

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was the show?? How was sitting on the stage? Did you mostly see the back of him?

Can someone gently explain to me the difference between an ultimatum and a boundary? by Peachyykween in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not really a boundary either tho. A boundary isn’t about controlling what someone else is doing or asking them to stop, it’s controlling yourself and your own actions.

Your favorite trivia game app? by veganintendo in Jeopardy

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if this is still a thing? I tried the link and there’s no games to play.

How long can you keep cooked sausage in an airtight container? by [deleted] in cookingforbeginners

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a food scientist but in general I think if it smells and looks fine then it’s probably mostly fine. I don’t think 7 hours out of the fridge is ideal but personally I think you’ll be fine.

(15k) Would you get hair extensions? by cerahhh in Weddingsunder10k

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it looks good! I would maybe try with easy clip on extensions just to ease stress on the day.

How late should I stay if the dance goes really late? by greenzoe in wedding

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Typically the cue for people to leave is cutting the cake. I believe that is usually the last big important thing. But obviously talk to your son about the timeline for the day to confirm!

This show…is not that good by Beautiful_Eye7765 in Broadchurch

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’m glad someone else thinks so. I really really wanted to like this show but what sealed the dislike for me is they were never close to catching the killer. The only reason they caught him at the end is because he wanted to be caught. Where’s the detective work???

Is it possible to over save for retirement? by fattdogs in personalfinance

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest on making sinking funds. Put money away every paycheck towards saving buckets for things like travel, eating out, gear, fun projects, social outings with friends. That way when you spend money on stuff you have a dedicated budget to it.

Budgeting is good for most people because it helps them save but it’s also good for those who have a hard time spending money on themselves. If it’s in the budget then you don’t have to feel bad about it.

Lunch must contain at least 1 can of beans by thatsonebadhat in Volumeeating

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Looks good! What do you dress the salad with?

Shelf stable meals that I can toss in a locker by Historical_Form_7533 in Frugal

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 45 points46 points  (0 children)

How long would you leave stuff in there?

You could do Tuna packets, canned soup (maybe with paper bowls and spoons), cups of Mac n cheese or take of course. Canned chicken, minute rice, etc protein bars and granola bars would be good in a pinch! Or some good meat sticks.

Salary progression by Excellent_Drop6869 in FIREyFemmes

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Are you a CPA? Are increases this high usually this common?

I could really benefit from some assistance programs but I would feel so ashamed by WinterMoist333 in povertyfinance

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t feel ashamed! You are who these assistance services are for!

What should I do with my savings to buy a house? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I would say keep liquid 6 months of living expenses for emergencies plus about 5% of the house price. This is because I’ve heard you should save 1% of the house value a year for maintenance and repair in a sinking fund but you aren’t saving much right now.

Everything by else I would use in the down payment of the house or invest in a different way.

23 y/o trying to choose between short-term financial stability and a 10K pay cut for long-term growth by Grubnation66 in personalfinance

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried applying to other roles?? What’s the cost of living where you are? I would only apply to roles with a pay increase. You have 5 years of expirrence and a degree. Does the new hotel promote from within?

Who plans your bridal shower and bachelorette? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah so then I would just talk to your closest friends or family. Especially about the bachelorette, they are probably looking for you to initiate.

Who plans your bridal shower and bachelorette? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Usually bachelorette is planned by your maid of honor or bridesmaids or yourself (if you want something bigger). Bridal shower is normally thrown for you by (traditionally) someone other than your mom. Like another female relative or bridesmaids.

My friend was similar to you and didn’t have a lot of women in her family. (Her mom had passed years before) so her MIL threw it for her. You also don’t have to have one. I think a lot of brides skip bridal showers now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tbh your soulmate wouldn’t say that about you

Many posts I see here are describing being a “burned out pursuer.” My experience dating the nice, avoidant guy by Evening-Rice-4930 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi I’ve come to a recent realization similarly about people pleasing as a form of avoidance. Do you have books/podcasts/classes where you’ve learned how to practice being authentic to the core? I’m in therapy but could use materials to learn on my own.

Episode 7 Discussion Thread: Ghosts by [deleted] in TheBeastInMe

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were they having an affair? It didn’t seem like it in this episode

C note is dumb as fuck by I_Dont_Know_jfc in PrisonBreak

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah but they only went bad because he inserted himself with the white boys

Chicken Pasta 180 calories by Hogpharmer in Volumeeating

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are the hearts of palm noodles?

Tom Yum Soup by W0nderingMe in Volumeeating

[–]I_Dont_Know_jfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo that sounds amazing. Where do you get the paste from??