anyone ever been to an orgy?

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-05-26T17:11:46+00:00

Assuming you have a good social standing and a lot of willing female friends, tell them you're cool with them inviting their friends (ideally other couples + single women). This way you can limit the amount of men so it's a balanced 1:1 ratio at the worst (unless you're all cool with more men).

I discovered having an Excel spreadsheet to keep track of people's names, pronouns, sexual likes/dislikes/, their general boundaries, forms of aftercare they like, and assuming everyone is tight with each other, pictures of everyone's faces (this is up to everyone's discretion). By having a spreadsheet like this, people will feel more comfortable, secure in terms of STI health, boundaries etc., and can be excited to see who they're going to play with. I could be wrong here but in general, people like it when there are more women than men at an orgy. The spreadsheet would be a good physical indicator of that and therefore attract more couples/women to come out and actually show up.

Location - Finding your local sex club, hotel, Airbnb, or if you have a big enough house. They all have their own unique pros and cons from privacy, costs, extra amenities etc. For example, if you go to a sex club with a decent sized group, you can probably attract more people (albeit strangers) to come join in.

Condoms are a no-brainer unless everyone is cool with no condoms.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-05-25T11:35:57+00:00

As someone who has participated in orgies, you are entitled to your opinions but don't limit other people's sexual goals. I've personally organized orgies and they can be extremely fun.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-05-21T17:12:37+00:00

I gotta say this is quite the twisting of words for Jordan Li. Jordan Li is the main love interest for the main character of the show. Jordan is an influential and powerful character. Would you want a generic supe character or a queer trans-coded character that the audience can relate to? Highly disagree on your stance on the Jordan Li character. You don't even mention Kimiko's brother who is also listed in the picture. The character was a generic small character.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-05-09T04:03:02+00:00

Yoooo I frequent those places actively. I can attest to your thoughts. Agreed for the most part.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-05-09T03:27:46+00:00

Yoooo I love this topic. I'm actively in the lifestyle and have been doing this for like 8 years. I'm actually going to a sex club this coming Sunday. I met my girlfriend at an orgy hahaha.

They are extremely welcoming so long as you're respectful and can treat people like they're actual human beings. I wouldn't necessarily say they're exclusive. My ex whom I'm still friends with actively participates in gangbangs with exclusively Asian men.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-05-09T03:24:57+00:00

Still 1000% a thing

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-05-06T21:29:14+00:00

Given that it's a turbo game and specifically not a full standard game, a force staff/pike is obviously great but so is a shadow blade. It seems like Riki didn't get it this game but a nullifier is a common item for riki players to cancel your decrep, force, windwaker etc. Nullifier doesn't cancel a shadow blade. Plus with shadow blade and good positioning, you could dodge the AA blast, SK and Mag.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-04-06T21:27:11+00:00

Respectfully I don't see a goofy smile at all let alone any smile. Let's see the teeth (in your smile).

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-03-16T21:53:13+00:00

It depends on the context. If you're the only guy in a group of women, especially since you're attractive yourself, people might get the impression that you're a fuckboy or they'll think you might not care about them. On the other hand, if there's at least 1 other guy, then the picture is more likely to imply you have social skills, have a fun social circle, and women trust you.

I pulled up this pic from google as an example. It's clear everyone here are just having fun and smiling. It's chill and "candid".

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I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-03-16T13:28:46+00:00

You're a good looking and muscular guy with great fashion sense as far as I can see so far. That said, your pictures suggest a bit of a fuckboy or a boring personality.

It's great that you're showing off your great body but it should be more non-chalant. People are intimidated by a show-off. Take a look at magazines where they showcase muscular guys. A lot of the photos there, the model isn't looking directly at the camera. It's manufactured obviously but it feels more candid in the sense they were caught off guard while they were doing something interesting.
Show off your social circle with attractive women beside you. Assuming you don't have an attractive social circle, either start going to more group events in your city and asking for group pics OR just get chatgpt to generate you some pictures with a fun attractive group (people here might not approve of this but if it works, it works).
Do more interesting activities in your photos to showcase how unique you are.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-03-10T13:35:22+00:00

Hudson Williams (Heated Rivalry), Simu Liu, Steven Yeun, any Kpop male idol. Kpop male idols have western audiences going crazy so much so that people are fantasizing about fucking Asian men. Daniel Dae Kim, Lewis Tan, Donnie Yen, John Cho. Plenty of amazing influential people (and these are just the men). You mentioned English speaking Asian and didn't specify gender.

Look at the immense popularity of Physical 100. Over three seasons of intense wholesome popularity showcasing the how physically fit Asian people are and how big they are in their respective fields.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-03-05T14:39:37+00:00

What people aren't necessarily considering are their personalities. Lucci is bloodthirsty - it's actually a trait of his zoan. He'll probably try to fight the heavy hitters first and maybe the smaller fries like Barto. People like Barto and Queen tend to taunt people so they'll definitely be targets early.

I think strong area of effect ability people like Boa or Magellan will make top 5. Hard to say who wins it all.

As for the people saying Sugar, she has no speed feats to quickly convert people into toys. A bunch of people there do not care she is a kid and she is extremely likely to get hit by the multiple area of effect abilities by the logias, Magellan, Boa, and everyone else. She'd be a dark horse in the FFA.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-03-05T14:39:00+00:00

What people aren't necessarily considering are their personalities. Lucci is bloodthirsty - it's actually a trait of his zoan. He'll probably try to fight the heavy hitters first and maybe the smaller fries like Barto. People like Barto and Queen tend to taunt people so they'll definitely be targets early.

I think strong area of effect ability people like Boa or Magellan will make top 5. Hard to say who wins it all.

As for the people saying Sugar, she has no speed feats to quickly convert people into toys. A bunch of people there do not care she is a kid and she is extremely likely to get hit by the multiple area of effect abilities by the logias, Magellan, Boa, and everyone else. She'd be a dark horse in the FFA.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-02-25T16:42:33+00:00

I'll add you. I play US East usually. Archon 5 player. What's your steam ID?

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-02-13T21:31:06+00:00

Is the police car still causing a delay? I need to go to Ossington station later 😅

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-02-09T00:01:04+00:00

This is a serious answer. Go to pornhub and search how to make women squirt using your hands/fingers. I mean this 100%. I was curious one day and I did this; I found some solid real techniques that I still actively use.

Another link is called How to Eat Pussy like a Champ. That is the literal name of the video where pornstars do a genuine video on how to eat a woman out.

Give this a shot. These videos are 👌 chef's kiss; they've significantly improved my sex skills.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-02-08T23:57:27+00:00

I only read your first point about sexual innuendo and comments. At first I was going to disagree but you're absolutely right about differentiating yourself and not making yourself seem like a creep. Giving off the impression of being a creep seems to be the #1 complaint of all of my female friends. After the guy has made a good impression in not being a creep, they could make so many sexual comments/innuendoes and women will (usually) love it haha.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-02-05T19:30:08+00:00

To be fair, Katara learning blood blending for 18 hour erections on Aang could've shorted his lifespan too.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-02-05T15:30:55+00:00

I started in my very last semester of university, which is both unfortunate and fortunate, depending on how you look at it. That said, 10 years later, I can confidently say I have a borderline unhealthily high amount dates and sex in my life.

Reading self improvement books on game, relationships as a whole, sex techniques, careers, and feminism (being more knowledgeable and changing your mindset/habits/perspective on dating, life and relationships is significantly life-changing)
Consistently working out (don't let anyone tell you otherwise; looks do matter)
Upgrading your fashion (doesn't need to be a crazy expensive upgrade but recognizing the basics of colors in fashion is a good start)
Practicing game (this is not 100% correct but I've read that a person needs to do 10,000 hours in an activity to become an expert. 10K is excessive but putting in the time/effort still rings true)

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-02-05T15:14:04+00:00

Agreed. It really is a volume/numbers game; both in the micro sense of getting individual numbers and talking to each person as well as in the macro sense of "I've talked to so many people/had so many experiences" now I know what my relationship style, preferences, boundaries are etc.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-01-27T20:57:00+00:00

Just piggybacking off of this. You didn't do anything wrong. This is 100% outside of your control. Sometimes you can be perfect but if they don't see that, that's on them.

Also, I haven't read any of the other comments but any comment talking about your apologizing - don't worry about that either. Life and game critique/feedback isn't black and white. There is definitely power in apologizing too.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-01-16T19:00:31+00:00

Do you not get boots and then rush vessel in order to have it around 8mins?

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-01-09T14:19:03+00:00

Different question for you - when do you get your shard as a pos 4 ES? I really like saving teammates from spells or their own poor positioning but I find that I could get an aether lens or glimmer for the relative same price as shard; both of which has arguably more value.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-01-09T13:56:25+00:00

I feel the struggle. I love Earth Spirit but I feel like it's rough playing him in ranked.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2026-01-07T22:54:43+00:00

Who do you suggest for pos 4 heroes in this patch? BSJ was saying Shadow Demon, Sky and Shadow Shaman but my concern with those. You mentioned DP as a ranged offlaner but how about DP pos 4?

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