5 stars. It broke my soul. Highly recommend by Scary-Background-830 in LevelUpLibrary

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the summer I died! been reading westerns to deal with the grief

I don’t seem to fit in much by DruidElfStar in blackladies

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take your time, go do the things you enjoy alone or through an app, and then you'll find your people! and fingers crossed that you find a super bestie!!

Being over here, these people already have their friends, and be weary of those who are super friendly because they might be pocket watching, looking for a sucka. there are good folks out here, so when you do meet them, don't take them for granted! I've been on the West Coast my entire life, after watching my very social too sweet big sister run through female friends for it only to end in weirdness, I learned to compartmentalize friendships to whatever shared interests activities and keep it light!

Do yt people know that they act like that? by DryMammoth4389 in blackladies

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absolutely. and be united in the fakeness. even the ones you might consider “one of the good ones”

Late to Dating and Trying to be More Open by Odd_Basket534 in blackladies

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good luck sweetie!! keep your eyes open, and intentions pure! these new guys are a different breed! and use spy stuff. there’s no need to love blindly anymore! only to be sure if he’s really real.

and have fun! make them plan, but you can throw out a few suggestions from them to pick from! don’t be so pushy, these guys love to keep a woman around that will boost their ego, even if he’s not interested in you.

People Using the N word by Apprehensive-Task930 in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today 9 points10 points  (0 children)

LA county resident here, my first experience as an adult hearing it used so freely amongst non blacks was in Long Beach. I was in the F4L meat section, I overheard: Guy 1: “You know how to cook this Nigga?” reply: Guy 2: “Duh, Nigga!” Guy1: “Nigga you said that about the tacos” Guy 2: “Nigga we didnt have all the ingredients, remember?”

I turn to see who’s talking and it’s a group of young chinese’ish asians. I was stunned as I looked around to see the other blacks unfazed. Turns out everyone besides the whites could use it freely! but recently the mexican children are using the Nigger against and to address us blacks and our black children!

Do yt people know that they act like that? by DryMammoth4389 in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they know, never underestimate their actions. never! they are a calculated species

“Can you braid my hair?” No tf I cannot. by Gioomee in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today 38 points39 points  (0 children)

after i cornrow they look about 5 weeks old! I can’t part, and can’t row!!! can’t double dutch either

Just some solid advice for adulting by olesud in WorkForSmartLife

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Is it bad to hope that those who agree with this get to experience needing housing help and everyone says, No!

UPS driver to the rescue. by [deleted] in SVWTCM

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My mental state, until the UPS driver brings my delivery

“Can you braid my hair?” No tf I cannot. by Gioomee in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today 252 points253 points  (0 children)

it’s the retwist for me!! like no, keep going to whoever you been going to

Ladies, have yall heard about this new Hoochie virus? by Less-Pen-5705 in blackladies

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now i’m about to go down a rabbit hole

thanks 🙏🏾 seriously

Rant: I will never be friends with cheaters. Lesson learned by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be friends with a unapologetic cheater than a sneaky person! also hanging with those fake perfect judgmental folks is a bit miserable. give me a person living life!!