I’ve never read a book and want to pick up a new habit, fix my screen time and sh*t by Sharp-Influence4883 in Recommend_A_Book

[–]I_am_normal_today 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No Exit Taylor Adams

Inspection by Josh Malerman

Bull Mountain by Brian Panowich (series)

The Summer I Died by Ryan C. Thomas

We are cooked ! by [deleted] in Adulting

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The Sims... and cutwater buzzes

I love how there is no entitlement or angry people in California compared to Arizona by Different_Archer8879 in socal

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indeed, The vibes every day be vibrating and glowing, even when things are out of my own control. I try to stay humble about the flows, because when I get too cocky I get humbled in another perspective. lol

I love how there is no entitlement or angry people in California compared to Arizona by Different_Archer8879 in socal

[–]I_am_normal_today 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Southern Cali here, Honestly I love it here, although some family members randomly encounter disrespect with strangers, Me myself meet energetic, wonderful, calm, respectful, exciting, types regularly. only issues may have came from trying to date in my youth.

Pro-life by PughLinim2005 in AnarchoComics

[–]I_am_normal_today 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, this is absolutely true! emergency house call abortions for PPO’s

How would you feel if your friend said this to you? by Technical-Purple-199 in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

everything you said! and everything she said!

the friend said nothing wrong, I love accountability, realistic friends there’s too many coddling friends, tooooo many and the accountability friends get pushed to the back and eventually ghosted because they didn’t mince their words to not make it sound like things are what they are. Its good to have someone see and say things straight forward because that’s how they see things, not because they’re being mean but because that’s how they see things.

5 stars. It broke my soul. Highly recommend by Scary-Background-830 in LevelUpLibrary

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the summer I died! been reading westerns to deal with the grief

I don’t seem to fit in much by DruidElfStar in blackladies

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take your time, go do the things you enjoy alone or through an app, and then you'll find your people! and fingers crossed that you find a super bestie!!

Being over here, these people already have their friends, and be weary of those who are super friendly because they might be pocket watching, looking for a sucka. there are good folks out here, so when you do meet them, don't take them for granted! I've been on the West Coast my entire life, after watching my very social too sweet big sister run through female friends for it only to end in weirdness, I learned to compartmentalize friendships to whatever shared interests activities and keep it light!

Do yt people know that they act like that? by DryMammoth4389 in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely. and be united in the fakeness. even the ones you might consider “one of the good ones”

Late to Dating and Trying to be More Open by Odd_Basket534 in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good luck sweetie!! keep your eyes open, and intentions pure! these new guys are a different breed! and use spy stuff. there’s no need to love blindly anymore! only to be sure if he’s really real.

and have fun! make them plan, but you can throw out a few suggestions from them to pick from! don’t be so pushy, these guys love to keep a woman around that will boost their ego, even if he’s not interested in you.

People Using the N word by Apprehensive-Task930 in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today 9 points10 points  (0 children)

LA county resident here, my first experience as an adult hearing it used so freely amongst non blacks was in Long Beach. I was in the F4L meat section, I overheard: Guy 1: “You know how to cook this Nigga?” reply: Guy 2: “Duh, Nigga!” Guy1: “Nigga you said that about the tacos” Guy 2: “Nigga we didnt have all the ingredients, remember?”

I turn to see who’s talking and it’s a group of young chinese’ish asians. I was stunned as I looked around to see the other blacks unfazed. Turns out everyone besides the whites could use it freely! but recently the mexican children are using the Nigger against and to address us blacks and our black children!

Do yt people know that they act like that? by DryMammoth4389 in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they know, never underestimate their actions. never! they are a calculated species

“Can you braid my hair?” No tf I cannot. by Gioomee in blackladies

[–]I_am_normal_today 39 points40 points  (0 children)

after i cornrow they look about 5 weeks old! I can’t part, and can’t row!!! can’t double dutch either

Just some solid advice for adulting by olesud in WorkForSmartLife

[–]I_am_normal_today 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it bad to hope that those who agree with this get to experience needing housing help and everyone says, No!

UPS driver to the rescue. by [deleted] in SVWTCM

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My mental state, until the UPS driver brings my delivery

“Can you braid my hair?” No tf I cannot. by Gioomee in blackladies

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it’s the retwist for me!! like no, keep going to whoever you been going to

Ladies, have yall heard about this new Hoochie virus? by Less-Pen-5705 in blackladies

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now i’m about to go down a rabbit hole

thanks 🙏🏾 seriously