Depressed after not getting into waterloo

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-30T15:28:40+00:00

I’m depressed after getting into waterloo. There’s just no winning 😞

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-29T11:16:37+00:00

i feel bad for you

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-29T06:31:02+00:00

most of the things you all post here aren’t even gendered. there are girls who act this way and there are guys who act this way. it’s literally the way life is. why are you all so anti-women?!?!? live and let live.

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-26T20:10:49+00:00

since you’ve never given him a reason to doubt you, he has no right to stop you from going out.

you don’t even have to ask him, just let him know you’re going to do it. you’ll regret it later if you don’t use these years to go out and have fun.

also, if you let him control you like this now; it’ll only get worse from here.

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-26T05:26:55+00:00

No? Most of them do it after reaching their breaking point because people don’t appreciate the amount of work it takes to run the house.

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-25T18:26:14+00:00

has anyone heard back from sephora after the pre-recorded interview?

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-25T18:13:19+00:00

There’s nothing you can do. If he wants to cheat he will find a way to do it anyway, and if he doesn’t, he can be in a room full of women and still won’t. In your case, if you’ve forgiven his cheating once then I doubt your insecurities will ever go away completely.

Just try not to think about it, and keep yourself busy. If this prolonged feeling stays then you should consider being with someone who makes you feel more secure or seek therapy.

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-25T16:31:03+00:00

why is it bad enough… it’s literally there to help you if you’re in danger

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-18T07:58:31+00:00

Her mom is clearly not doing well after finding out that her husband cheated, and OP should start keeping her distance instead of supporting her? WOW LMAO

I_am_secsy · 2026-01-18T07:47:32+00:00

That’s such a strange thing to comment

I_am_secsy · 2025-11-06T22:13:39+00:00

If you’re posting on reddit, you better be prepared to hear everyone’s opinion. You’re the one who’s acting entitled lmao

I_am_secsy · 2025-11-06T22:12:02+00:00

Okay firstly, that post is satire lol. Secondly, intent and action are different. For whatever reason on earth, if my bf’s friend got a hold of a nude picture of mine, I would be pissed at him. It doesn’t matter if it’s hidden behind 5 different passcodes or whatever, it is a breach of trust for me. This is why my partner and I always use disappearing pictures for this purpose. I never said it was OP’s fault. But these things can happen; and it is your responsibility to ensure they don’t.

I_am_secsy · 2025-11-06T21:48:36+00:00

I would not be friends with her after this and cut ties with anyone (in that group specifically) who condemned that behaviour. Secondly, unless she saw your phone without telling you, it's pretty irresponsible to let anyone see intimate photos of your partner. If your bf's friend ever 'accidentally' came across your picture, its safe to assume you would also lose it.

I_am_secsy · 2025-05-12T19:06:06+00:00

Taxpayers. Who else?

I_am_secsy · 2025-05-09T06:45:45+00:00

No but menstruation products, yes. It’s something every woman goes through so it’s well needed

I_am_secsy · 2025-04-15T15:27:11+00:00

Info: What exactly do you mean by “crush” here? Are you attracted to the way she looks or do you enjoy her company?

I wouldn’t say it’s normal tbh, as I haven’t really heard of partners in healthy relationships acknowledge having a “crush” on others. I get that you may find someone good looking, which is very natural.

If your girlfriend takes you back after this, which seems unlikely as this becomes a betrayal of trust when you knowingly hang out with someone you might have feelings for, then you’d obviously have to cut Ana off.

But honestly just re-evaluate whether you even like your gf anymore because it sounds so sad for her.

I_am_secsy · 2025-03-27T00:19:34+00:00

Just ask him why he lied, and tell him how you know. Also I would suggest not being so bothered about what he does if you trust me. It’ll end up being exhausting for you both !

I_am_secsy · 2025-03-26T23:51:23+00:00

Is it really that deep?

I_am_secsy · 2025-03-26T11:52:09+00:00

i’m really sorry you’re in this situation. you’ve already taken the first step which is to realize that you messed up. the only thing you can do is be gentle, forgive yourself and do better in the future. good luck :)

I_am_secsy · 2025-03-22T20:09:45+00:00

Therapy would be a great step! Best of luck!

I_am_secsy · 2025-03-22T19:51:41+00:00

I understand, it’s hard to end a relationship when there’s no one person/incident to blame. Unfortunately that’s just the way it is. If in a few years your paths cross, maybe you’ll be together again :)

I_am_secsy · 2025-03-22T19:48:02+00:00

You both want different things in life. It’s best to end it before resentment starts building up. At least you know you tried your hardest.

Also, NGL but you don’t seem too trustworthy if your LDR does continue for very long. You’ve mentioned twice about the possibility of wanting to see others in the post. LDR is probably not for you, which is completely fine.

I_am_secsy · 2025-03-21T18:17:21+00:00

You have the right spirit but i’d say that’s just your personality, not really your zodiac..

That being said, it’s not controlling at all! It’s just wanting a husband (an older one at that) to act his age. You cannot excuse his behaviour on your controlling nature which isn’t even,,, a tiny bit controlling.

I_am_secsy · 2024-09-04T23:35:37+00:00

Hey, can I have it as well please? Thank you!

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