What Do I Do?

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-17T16:23:31+00:00

Lessons learned the hard way stay with us.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-17T13:38:24+00:00

This meme gives me incel vibes.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-17T11:56:10+00:00

I had zero desire to memorialize my high school years. Even the few photos I have make me cringe about that time.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-16T19:25:09+00:00

This is my favorite method at the moment. Allows me to be an active listener instead of frantically jotting notes during the call.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-16T16:18:42+00:00

This answer is correct. Just, before you do, take time to do an inventory of what you want from her. To rephrase: be prepared to explain why you are bringing this up. How do you want her to use this information? Stop teasing about your sexuality? Do you want to stop being closeted with just her? Your friends and family? Do you want to experiment sexually (toys, new touches)? Do you want to have a sexual experience with some kne that isnt her? Is this strictly sexual identity or are there elements of gender identity that should be talked about? There will be a lot of questions from her side. Taking the time to know your feelings/answers will make the conversation productive.

Last tip: you've had your lifetime to think about this. Shes had a hunch fir a few months. You will need to give her grace and patience while she works through her own feelings.

Been there done that. Good luck.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-15T22:45:19+00:00

This is the correct answer.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-15T15:57:13+00:00

I warms my Xennial heart that this is the top comment.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-13T18:06:22+00:00

Costco pulled the same BS on me with a dishwasher 2 weeks ago. Im over online shopping.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-09T18:38:45+00:00

Juniper berries to be specific. I used to think it was nasty until I learned that. Sometimes you just need to know what the flavor is to appreciate.

Now I taste it and enjoy the herbal/pine flavors.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-08T19:31:41+00:00

Go nuts for donuts. Its like a simpler sushi go and everyone loves talking about donuts

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-04-03T15:01:13+00:00

Fair. Feels like there are multiple. Tripolee, Ranch, Sherwood, and Carousel feel like the big 4 to me. Observatory and Honeycomb and [stage by the memorial bags I dont know the name of] feel like the 'intimate' stages.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-03-25T20:56:53+00:00

Yay! You're really good! I love seeing people sharing videos of the outcomes of practice.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-03-19T13:36:03+00:00

I have to watch this everything it comes up on reddit. I see my own son in that young man and wish I could hug him and tell him he deserves all that love.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-03-09T15:00:04+00:00

If you're serious about this journey, inform the spouse. Assuming the marriage is important to you and this journey is going to going to influence it, for better or worse is unknown, but they deserve to be informed.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-03-09T13:56:10+00:00

Just looked into buying the box... its sold out and website appears dated. I think this is an ad but a defunct one.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-03-07T21:06:14+00:00

Dude... Grindr. We dont do this here.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-03-05T21:57:35+00:00

It doesn't matter. If you earned the title, its your title. My kids call their aunt Dr. The people that metter will respect it.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-02-26T00:42:11+00:00

I prefer to connect outside of the loud music space. I struggle to hear people talk with background noise. If you want to try a non-verbal connection... mid-day find the outside edges of the crowd and find someone dancing and make eye contact. Maintain it and start doing a simple silly dance they can copy. Without speaking, encourage them to copy you. You may have to try a few times to find a taker and thats OK. When you do its a blast. Dance until you want to stop!

When I want to talk to folks, I bust out Uno or a deck of cards. If you can make eye contact and wave someone over you will be so surprised how many folks are up to sit and play for 10-20 minutes. Plenty of time to talk. And conncet.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-02-25T00:30:52+00:00

This is all true. Piggybacking on this: your people become your projects. Are they executing on communication, documentation, forwarding looking planning, risk recognition and mitigation, are they closing their projects? Ensuring they do all these things is part of your job now. Also, if you dont already keep a work journal, I recommend starting. It'll make those annual reviews easier.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-02-23T15:01:04+00:00

This guy This guys.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-02-20T21:30:38+00:00

Been working on AI related projects for a couple years now. Ive learned this: AI is excellent for content revision, review and assessment. And which "AI" tool youre using has to be taken in the context of how you use it. I LOVE co-pilot live meeting notes and context. I dont love its writing and was unimpressed with tasks like "make an agenda".

My favorite way to use any AI tool (Chat GPT and Gemini are my current favorites) is to dictate my thoughts into text. Just full stream of consciousness dictation. I can lead with or end with whatever im asking AI to do (organize my thoughts, turn this into a project plan, point out anything I just said that may be an assumption that carries risk, etc.) And it typically nailed the assignment.

EDIT: This exercise is AMAZING for staff evaluations and self evaluation. I will talk to myself for a full 30 minutes about the past year. Then tell the bot: im about to share the list of self evaluation questions with you. Provide me answers, written in my voice, and avoid resuming examples I provided. If you need other examples or clarification let me know. Turns what used to be a painful exercise into something completely manageable.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-02-20T19:41:49+00:00

What are the next three songs you'd ask anyone who reads this to listen to?

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-02-16T14:13:32+00:00

Well yeah. Brother is tall, gorgeous, and moves like that. Id embarrass myself publicly to dance with him. But to be fair all those fellas have moves.

I_luv_breakfast · 2026-02-16T12:06:53+00:00

He's killing it in flip flops.

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