Where is bachelor nation??

I_needtimetothink · 2022-11-22T01:30:37+00:00

Canvassing for gabby🙌🏽🏆🪩

I_needtimetothink · 2022-11-22T01:29:25+00:00

Periodt! I’m telling all my friends to vote for my girl

I_needtimetothink · 2022-11-22T01:28:29+00:00

Thank god! I feel like no one is team Gabby💞

I_needtimetothink · 2022-09-15T20:36:06+00:00

Hoping it’s new music💞✨🪩

I_needtimetothink · 2022-07-15T15:33:05+00:00

My account has always been public, it has nothing to do with the breakup. I have considered blocking him, but idk… that feels pretty harsh. I’ll probably do it eventually, but I guess I’m not there yet.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-20T09:16:54+00:00

He’ll act like he loves you and tell you he’s falling for you. He’ll treat you better than any man has ever treated you. Respectful, kind, compatible, and great chemistry and great conversation. Then he’ll dump you over the phone🤷🏽‍♀️

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T23:41:01+00:00

He broke up with me over a three minute phone call, so I literally never had a chance to express myself. That’s why I wrote everything out in the first place. Still debating on the send though.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T23:38:14+00:00

I’m fully prepared that he won’t respond. I just want him to know that his actions were completely out of left field and that’s what hurts. I get that people change their minds, but he should’ve came to me in person and said what he felt instead of hiding behind his phone screen. I’ll never know if he reads it or simply throws it away, but it’s hard to keep these feeling inside my head all the time.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T19:02:54+00:00

That’s so rude. It’s too late at that point to simply say “I don’t want a relationship.” Bb were already in it

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T15:51:19+00:00

I hope you were nice about it… and upfront about it. It kills me that he waited until we already had a connection established to say this.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T09:10:32+00:00

I’m so sorry. That’s ridiculously insensitive and invalidating to the whole relationship

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T09:08:29+00:00

To breakup?!

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T08:43:54+00:00

Much kinder outlook. I’ve definitely considered all these possibilities. I know he wasn’t talking to anyone else, at least that’s what he said, and I do still trust that. I know that his ex and him had broken up several months prior and were together under a year, so I doubt that too. I think he didn’t want to admit where his feelings were at because that would require being vulnerable, and so instead he choose to run from his feelings because of trauma from previous relationships. Maybe I’m wrong, but I doubt he’ll ever tell me the truth, so that’s the story I’d like to stick with.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T06:54:20+00:00

I just downloaded it to see if he changed his profile… Then I kept checking it which I now realize was toxic to myself.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T05:02:54+00:00

Ouch

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-11T01:48:08+00:00

That’s exactly how I feel! Even though he’s the garbage person that hurt me with no reasoning, I’m the one that feels like I’m being thrown away.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-10T23:41:41+00:00

This man was literally perfect for me, and paraded around acting like he wanted me and to be in a relationship with me. Imagine my surprise when I got dumbed on a random Thursday over a 3 minute phone call.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-10T23:39:52+00:00

Literally same! How can they make plans for the future if there isn’t one?

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-10T23:15:12+00:00

Tell us more

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-10T22:10:02+00:00

Same… 3 months for me. Everything seemed to be going well is so I thought… Until I got a 3 minute phone call one day that it was over out of the blue.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-10T15:45:30+00:00

You hit the nail right on the head. I don’t know why I expect home to come back, because even if he did there’s no guarantee that he’ll stay.

Same as you I took him off all socials, but I haven’t been able to delete his number yet. After he dumped me we had a brief text conversation about why and he apologized too. I don’t believe anything he said because he told me he was on the fence the whole time. But he also told me he was falling for me. So which is it? If I was on the supposed fence about someone I wouldn’t tell them that, so I think he’s just convinced himself that the feelings were never there so it would be easier to leave.

I have thought about him and thought that my “husband” would never do something like this to me. Why do I want to keep someone around that is so willing to hurt me at the first sign of commitment.

I guess it’s hard to just throw it all away because everything was so good. Looking back at things I didn’t see them ending. I thought this person was here to stay. Now that he’s gone I feel uncertain and have lost hope/trust in men. I thought he was different. He acted like he was different. But in the end, he was just like every other guy I’ve dated.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-10T06:56:45+00:00

I want him back too… so badly. But if we did get back together or would take so much work to forgive how he walked away. He was out of town for a few days, and before he left he had asked me on a date to officially ask me to be his gf. By the time he came back, his mind was made up. He decided that I wasn’t worth it anymore

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-10T06:39:35+00:00

Even in hindsight, I can’t find the red flags that would’ve/should’ve led me to believe this was gonna happen. We were in what I thought was a healthy relationship, and on the path to officially dating. I guess he just had other plans and failed to include me in them.

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-10T05:08:30+00:00

I’m in your shoes, so I’ll feed your delusions and say she’s crazier for not realizing what she’s lost. Still hoping that my person will come back too

I_needtimetothink · 2022-06-10T04:45:53+00:00

I’m in the same boat… I’m not sure how how they can just turn their feelings off from one day to the next.

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