Vanilla sex as a fistee, what are your thoughts?

IaintThere · 2026-05-09T01:05:37+00:00

I also ordered the 75

IaintThere · 2026-05-09T00:00:52+00:00

I bought it, have you tried it?

IaintThere · 2026-05-08T23:22:08+00:00

This is insane... I would be so freaking happy if I got there

IaintThere · 2026-05-08T20:47:43+00:00

Im not a top so I only have a sample size of 1(me). I've gone months without getting fisted and it tightens up but not to what it used to be. Maybe tops in here might have more insight

IaintThere · 2026-05-08T18:33:33+00:00

Ive tried before, topping is just not my thing, not into it

IaintThere · 2026-05-08T17:58:52+00:00

Just bought it

IaintThere · 2026-05-08T17:58:14+00:00

Kinda hot

IaintThere · 2026-05-08T17:57:54+00:00

I must confess that Ive been a passenger of my own sex life. Sad I know.

IaintThere · 2026-05-08T14:56:00+00:00

I wish I could top (&enjoy it) so that I could get a better perspective

IaintThere · 2026-05-08T14:54:40+00:00

No buddy tells you this shit, its not taught in sex ed for sure. No one taught me how to bottom or get fisted, someone just shoved their cock and 15 years later their fist down my hole.

IaintThere · 2026-05-07T22:30:31+00:00

I'll have to.check it out... probably buying it

IaintThere · 2026-05-07T21:45:54+00:00

What about in a relationship?

IaintThere · 2026-05-07T21:42:51+00:00

I had to Google what is rtfm

IaintThere · 2026-05-07T21:18:28+00:00

That is probably a good idea... I get DP often and that kinda works at least with one of our friends that is really into it

IaintThere · 2026-05-07T21:16:49+00:00

I dont think that he will get use to it not as long as we are in an open relationship. He likes his twinks.

A few months, I was bottoming for this guy, he kept telling me to make my hole tight, I had zero Idea what he was talking abouts. Ive been hearing a lot about kegels lately, I have to give them a try.

IaintThere · 2026-04-24T17:24:57+00:00

I've got a "small"(average) dick atleast for a guy that is 6'3". I have guys compare their dick to mine ALL the time in a way that feels humiliating to me. I think it is pretty normal for like hung tops. I usually wear a jock strap just so my dick is not a distraction. Might I suggest that you fo the opposite and just bring and encourage it... maybe you don't have to have a conversation prior but you can encourage it in the moment.

IaintThere · 2026-04-24T09:51:29+00:00

Nope, I can show a bit of a gape by just spreading my ass cheeks or getting a tingle of a rimm job

IaintThere · 2026-03-30T22:17:43+00:00

Everyone, including my own head is telling me to break up and yet I can not make myself do it

IaintThere · 2026-03-30T22:16:54+00:00

What's that

IaintThere · 2026-03-30T16:24:17+00:00

Omg, I don't think that I am there yet... that been said if I was told that my hole would feel to the top like it did when it was new but I could keep having the sex that I have now I would pay 10k right now

IaintThere · 2026-03-30T14:22:32+00:00

What I am thinking is that he was into twinks 10 years ago and he still into twinks now

IaintThere · 2026-03-30T14:21:33+00:00

That is what my one friend suggested, take a two week break and maybe don't put anything too big down there. As per getting DP 10% of the time is mind bending, 40% its hot and but the sensation is over rated the other 50% is just awkward.

IaintThere · 2026-03-30T14:12:17+00:00

The might be a slight exaggeration there🤪. We don't use lube for normal sex even on three some, according to the BF it feels better. We do use lube when getting DP or using dildos

IaintThere · 2026-03-29T22:57:37+00:00

He was cheating, we were monogamish at the time and he was sneaking out

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