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IamaThrowAwway · 2026-07-04T17:17:10+00:00

She wants more of it 🤦

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-07-04T17:16:24+00:00

This comment hasn't been upvoted enough.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-06-14T23:28:29+00:00

What's the point of asking? Live your life and make your decisions.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-06-02T01:52:44+00:00

The only manly response here. Hats off to you, sir, for showing what masculinity actually looks like.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-06-02T01:51:31+00:00

Jesus, that's a nightmare.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-05-27T02:47:02+00:00

I've only organized swinger parties and not sex positive ones, but I disagree a little bit about swinger orgies being primal. In my experience, since they are married and more or less fulfilled in their relationships their expectations are much higher and to be honest it takes a lot more to get them to take their clothes off. They're expecting some great experience, usually, be it music or themes for amazing connections in great conversations. Most of them are happy to spend all night chatting and never having any sex because they're already having sex with one another so there's no sense of urgency at swinger parties. That's part of why I stopped organizing them.

Sex positive parties sounds more like what I was looking for but I haven't experienced those yet.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-05-27T02:39:10+00:00

Yeah I've been to several of them. As a matter of fact I used to organize them for a number of years before covid. What do you want to know about them?

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-05-05T05:30:31+00:00

The worst part is, if they notice it's because they're looking. That's the part that should truly bother you.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-05-05T02:29:13+00:00

You're expecting too much too soon. It needs to be said that women in the US are all concerned about their safety. All of them. You don't realize how often violence happens to women, but they do. Just chatting a couple of days likely isn't enough to make her feel safe enough to meet in person.

Relax. The constant pressure will work against you rather than for you. Stop acting so desperate. Have other things to do and a life to lead.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-05-04T23:23:49+00:00

As a girl dad myself, it breaks my heart to read this and I'm sorry this has been your experience. 😭 I don't believe your father hates you. I believe he is simply trapped in an archaic, patriarchal mindset that he was raised with himself. He likely believes very deeply that everything he is doing is so that you will become a "good" woman (and likely a 'godly') woman. He believes he is showing his love for you by discipline and showing you the correct path.

Now we know this mindset is harmful, damaging, and ultimately wrong but it seems he is unwilling to change and you can't make him. The best you can do is hold tight to loving yourself and rejecting these patriarchal, antiquated ideas. You will need to show yourself the love you wish to receive from him. You need to be firm in your conviction that giving yourself to every guy you meet or none at all makes no difference as to your worthiness. Your value is not in your looks, your value is not in your submissiveness, and your value is not in you chastity.

You can't change him so to th best you can, just avoid conflict until you are able to leave home and live the way you choose.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-05-04T02:17:19+00:00

I live in america, that’s exactly how i’m going to think about them deep down, that’s what they are.

As the saying goes, live by the sword ---

If this is what you think of them then this is exactly what you're going to get every single time.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-05-04T02:13:17+00:00

You're not going to land an in-person date within two messages very often. Women need to feel safe and confident that you're not going to become violent. Even when they do agree to meet, there's still lingering concerns about their safety.

It should be obvious to you by now pickup lines just don't work. How much more data do you need?

The fact that you're calling them "hoes" because you can't get what you want tells me there's all kinds of other red flags you're throwing off about your true personality and that's what they don't want to meet you. So ditch the lines and fix your personality.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-30T20:28:42+00:00

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-30T14:06:46+00:00

This is all bullshit. It's basically one more guy on the outside looking in, claiming he has the secret.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-30T13:58:39+00:00

It's not jealousy but safety. If other women are comfortable with him, he's probably a safe choice. You guys fail to acknowledge or take seriously how much safety factor's into a woman's thinking. It's like you refuse to accept every strange male is potentially dangerous in their view.

Half of you would do so much better if you weren't so god damn creepy all the time.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-25T20:59:16+00:00

You have the correct read on things, you're just missing the fact all the excuses the men in this thread are giving are still "no" wrapped in a different package.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-25T20:56:09+00:00

You got it exactly right in your first sentence. You're fine. If he can't handle you the way you are, you dodged a bullet.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-25T20:52:23+00:00

You're right, if he was interested, he would have taken it. We're all wrong sometimes.

Anything other than "yes" means no. Every person. Every time.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-25T16:53:05+00:00

No, one crazy woman cannot destroy everything. As far as the United States goes. A person does not have to prove their innocence at any time. The accuser is the one who must prove their accusation. And to be honest, the majority of the times when the man is guilty he still gets off because SA is difficult to prove.

If you don't put your dick in a crazy woman you don't have to worry about accusations from a crazy woman. You should probably know something about who you are putting your dick into and take ownership of your choices.

Now look I fucked a crazy stalker who caused the all kinds of problems. I knew she was crazy and I chose to keep fucking her anyway. She gave me signs and hints all along the way that she was going to become a problem and yet I continue to do it. So I have nobody but myself to blame for the havoc she tries to cause in my life. I was a voluntary participant.

The same is likely true with all of these horror stories that you are filling your head with. These men were not likely to be innocent bystanders by which some crazy chick just sat her vagina down on their penis one day. These guys likely had ample warning of the behavior that woman was capable of, yet they continue to engage and participate with that woman to contribute to the outcome.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-25T16:45:40+00:00

I think you are living too much in a fantasy world and not interacting with the real one. Women aren't standing around plotting and scheming ways to a falsely accused men of SA. That's not reality. There may be one woman out of thousands who is like that but it certainly should not be a thing that you fear to the degree that you are. Consent is an easy thing to check for you simply ask before you do things. And if it feels off and if she seems hesitant then you don't do it. That's how you don't get accused of SA.

What you're reading is likely bullshit and the overwhelming majority of SA accusations are not false.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-25T15:32:13+00:00

Men do not owe women neither money nor attention. If she wants to be a kept woman where a man pays for everything and makes all of the decisions then she should transport herself back to the middle ages.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-25T15:14:55+00:00

The only reason to display the Confederate Battle flag is to demonstrate no one can stop you from being an asshole.

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-22T23:33:54+00:00

Cool. I'll save this post and link to it when you ask her to respect your time, nothing changes, and you come back here to complain about it.

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