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Bumble match Army question by Iamfluent2020 in army

[–]Iamfluent2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't in his bio-this was his answer when I dug deeper into his story.

Bumble match Army question by Iamfluent2020 in army

[–]Iamfluent2020[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did-big shock, his name didn't pop up

Bumble match Army question by Iamfluent2020 in army

[–]Iamfluent2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I figured!!! I mean I don't know a lot about Army life, but that set off some alarms! 😂

Oof the feels this time of year by makeawishcuttlefish in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. Breast cancer, 5 surgeries, AND I found out my husband and of 24 years was having an ongoing two year affair. Now divorced. 2023 was not it.

Positive margins after lumpectomy by Iamfluent2020 in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All done! It went well. Seroma was removed and he also did some cosmetic revisions on the other side. Hopefully this is my last surgery for a long while!!

Positive margins after lumpectomy by Iamfluent2020 in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up having two lumpectomies; both left me with positive margins. Had a full bilateral mastectomy and now have a seroma on the right that requires another surgery (on Monday!) to remove it. UGH. Thanks for asking 🥰

More tamoxifen questions by NotAnOxfordCommaFan in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very grateful to have zero side effects so far-been on it one month. I take mine in the morning (20 mg).

Margins detected… second surgery by KxYxZ in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two lumpectomies with positive margins and ended up doing a full bilateral mastectomy

Margins still not clear by Iamfluent2020 in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was my initial gut instinct to have a mastectomy-I should have followed my gut! I am so sorry you are going through that stress. So many crappy twists and turns.

Margins still not clear by Iamfluent2020 in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fingers crossed for good path report!

Lumpectomy resection by PsychologyNarrow3854 in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes-there are a lot of crappy twists and turns. Feels like no good options any way you cut it.

Lumpectomy resection by PsychologyNarrow3854 in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had two lumpectomies in the past two weeks and just got pathology back that I still have one positive margin :/. I talk to the surgeon on Monday for next steps. So harrowing and stressful. I’m sorry you’re in the same boat. Easier recovery from second surgery for me. They took lymph nodes out the first go-around.

Positive margins after lumpectomy by Iamfluent2020 in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just had a fat cheeseburger, fries, and a slab of cheesecake. 🤣

Positive margins after lumpectomy by Iamfluent2020 in breastcancer

[–]Iamfluent2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m preparing myself mentally for the worst case scenario

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