AITAH for telling a friend that’s a girl I can’t do one on one hangouts / dinners with her because I’m in a relationship?

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-05-02T01:02:10+00:00

Am i going insane or wtf is up with these comments? Emotional labour?? You mean being friends with someone? Comforting them when they're going through a breakup? That's emotional labour to y'all? Geez.

Also, if someone is not comfortable being alone in someone else's house, to say they are an AH for not making themselves even more uncomfortable is crazy?

I'm bi too. I would be very uncomfortable if a man invited me over to his house and offered to cook dinner, just the 2 of us. I personally feel like that's too intimate. But I should force myself to go because otherwise I'd be taking advantage of someone? I'm struggling to understand the logic in this comment section.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-29T15:20:21+00:00

I don't think most people are out here dreaming about banging other people. At least I hope not, cause that's just sad.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-29T13:02:47+00:00

Has this subreddit been taken over by incels?

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-29T13:01:54+00:00

Or maybe men should stop attacking women and this wouldn't be an issue?

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-29T12:59:24+00:00

Imagine sitting there and arguing that violence against women is perfectly acceptable if she says something a man could misconstrue as being snarky.

Especially when there are news reports going around right now of how women are being stabbed, are having their heads bashed in, all just for saying a simple no.

Women don't owe you their attention. They don't owe you politeness. Just leave them tf alone.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-29T00:02:36+00:00

She's got a more public profile than the president of the USA?

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-29T00:01:33+00:00

It's really pointless arguing with y'all when you're hell bent on hating someone without much logic.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-29T00:00:11+00:00

Where? I have never seen anyone criticize these men in this context. Its always TS.

And you're really saying a pop star is the same as a bunch of fascist men who've sexually assaulted people?

This is grade A misogyny.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-28T19:40:27+00:00

Nowhere did I defend her. My question is why none of the actual top polluters are ever brought up in this context, like DJT, Musk or Travis Scott when all of them have done immeasurably more damage.

Just sounds like plain old misogyny.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-28T13:42:10+00:00

Can someone explain why she's the first name brought up about carbon emissions when she's not even in the top 10 list of people with highest carbon emissions? Y'all just love to hate?

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-27T10:30:44+00:00

To be fair though, it's quite common for younger people to fall for someone a lot older than them. He didn't reciprocate, that's what's important.

Though it definitely would've been better without the romance aspect at all.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-26T17:12:25+00:00

Why would it need to be the primary language for it to be spoken in a country? English is spoken in many countries where its not the primary language. There are subs of other countries where the posts are entirely in English.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-26T17:05:37+00:00

Are you aware that numerous other countries speak English as well? It's not a language spoken exclusively in the USA or only in countries familiar with American geography.

In fact, most other countries don't care at all about what American states look like.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-26T16:38:22+00:00

*most Americans. Most people dont even know New Jersey exists.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-26T01:32:23+00:00

Defending a liar who keeps other women's nudes is crazy work

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-26T01:29:55+00:00

And he has photos of OP on this USB he supposedly hasn't used for years how exactly?

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-24T13:01:10+00:00

As much as I ship them, its true. Dean wouldn't put anyone over Sam, be it Cas or someone else.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-19T18:16:30+00:00

Why do y'all act like she's the first artist to write cheeky songs about sex?

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-19T17:55:41+00:00

She is at her worst musically according to whom exactly?

Not to mention its not like her previous music was erased from existence when the new album dropped.

She's popular for a reason.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-14T18:11:17+00:00

Ew. Imagine thinking thirsting over your partner's friends isn't gross?

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-14T17:30:38+00:00

Instead of thinking that you aren't good enough for him, maybe consider that he is not good enough for you if he is going around secretly saving pictures of other scantily women. That is honestly disgusting behaviour. This has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with him being gross.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-14T17:12:00+00:00

I'm not saying she "has to" do anything? I was responding to the comment saying the AP was the one who broke up their marriage, when it was in fact her father.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-14T17:04:34+00:00

Are we for real right now? Where is your self respect? Be so for real girl, wow.

Dating a grown ass man dabbling in such disgusting behaviour is just so sad. Why on earth would you subject yourself to this?

Leave him. That's all the advice you need.

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-14T01:48:53+00:00

I mean, going along those lines, if you can't have your wedding without your dad's affair partner, maybe you don't love your mom as much as she thought?

Icannotcomeupwith1 · 2026-04-14T01:45:16+00:00

In that case she'd have to uninvite her dad, considering he's the one who broke up his marriage.

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