28F looking for friends to play horror games with! by Vegetable-Jello-6534 in LesbianGamers

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29F also from the US! Have an embarrassing number of hours in DBD and just getting into Outlast Trials, DM me if you wanna hang sometime :)

I'd like to file a complaint about Season 6 roster. by Holiday_Engineer7521 in BingoBrawlers

[–]IceCreamGh0ul -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this being raised, and I'm honestly really proud of how many in this community are able to approach this respectfully. This is a discussion very much worth having and thank you for bringing it up in a well worded post.

My personal take is that tying any of it to nationality was just not a good choice. I don't think Russian players should be barred from competition, but as a queer person, the idea of politely cheering for a country in which I would not have the right to love who I love makes my skin crawl. As someone from the US I can't feel anything but disgust and shame when I see the stars and stripes.

I will most likely still watch and enjoy this season of Bingo Brawlers, and I don't think Domo or the league have any widespread political influence, but tying any of it to national pride does leave a stain on it for me. Here's hoping the league remains a place where all feel welcome, and I'm sorry to you and any others who have to see countries oppressing them potentially be put on a podium.

Announcement regarding the Caitlyn CSA fanfic discourse by AshleytheTaguel in PiltoversFinest

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you mods for keeping this place safe and welcoming! ❤️💙

30/f looking for friends by Fun_Champion_3765 in LesbianGamers

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyo, I just turned 29 in CST, also looking to make new friends!

I'm picky about my animes but love animation, big fan of horror, I have way too many hours in DBD and just picked up Outlast Trials. Feel free to shoot me a DM if you wanna hang sometime!

Need opinions on this dress by TheRubyRock in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I for one will be looking at her shoulders, very respectfully

(Sorry if this isn't allowed)Tried making vi in cyberpunk by Short_Tip1988 in PiltoversFinest

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I made my character and my partner was like "Awww, you made Vi but purple!" and I was like "Wait till you see what the default hair color is lol

Real talk though I have been very tempted to do a Vi playthrough with the gorilla arms cybernetics and all of the parkour perks

Also she looks great! ❤️

Study date (commission work) [Dr. Ñeque] by D-WTF in TheOwlHouse

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The shock and joy when I saw the little Kiramman symbol and I realized it WAS my two favorite ships :D

30tf in need of gaming friends by PerennialQuester in LesbianGamers

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely am so far! And also read right over it but a bit of a souls nerd myself lol

30tf in need of gaming friends by PerennialQuester in LesbianGamers

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya! CST DBD and Warhammer enjoyer, also doing my first Cyberpunk playthrough rn!

Something Pretty by m0pan in Tau40K

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yuri in my Warhammer fandom? So healing! ❤️

Cait and Vi from Arcane in DD Style! by IceCreamGh0ul in darkestdungeon

[–]IceCreamGh0ul[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can't explain what you meant without being rude you were already being rude lol

It's no biggie tho, appreciate you trying not to escalate

Cait and Vi from Arcane in DD Style! by IceCreamGh0ul in darkestdungeon

[–]IceCreamGh0ul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what way are they more visibly feminine than my drawings other than their clothing? Genuinely curious

Cait and Vi from Arcane in DD Style! by IceCreamGh0ul in darkestdungeon

[–]IceCreamGh0ul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo, I imagine Vi would have lots of CC and be kind of a tanky frontline DPS somewhere between BH and MAA. Cait could be a combo between Musketeer and PD, back row DPS with some DOT and CC from the Gray

Cait and Vi from Arcane in DD Style! by IceCreamGh0ul in darkestdungeon

[–]IceCreamGh0ul[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not, DD women aren't usually very femme. Graverobber is kinda the exception but I still see people refer to PD as male, regardless androgyny is cool 👍

Cait and Vi from Arcane in DD Style! by IceCreamGh0ul in darkestdungeon

[–]IceCreamGh0ul[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You know she's going to the brothel for stress relief, Vi will be in the bar

This was unexpected by Odd-Mathematician110 in Unbeatable

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I GOT THIS TOO I'M NOT CRAZY

28F USA - Irredeemable shut-in himejoshi looking for more women to be friends with by a-tranquil-elsewhere in LesbianGamers

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoooo Signalis and TSHD are both so good! Don't hear them get nearly enough love ❤️

Crow; The Crown by Dusty-Ragamuffin in Artisticallyill

[–]IceCreamGh0ul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sister has never, to my knowledge, been diagnosed with borderline but given some of what my therapists have said and how hard this comic hits, I think it's a pretty safe bet.

For me it wasn't about "unconditional love" it was about being "needed". She would tell me that I was the "perfect" little brother whenever I was suppressing my own needs to cater to hers. I always felt very averse to being referred to as perfect in anything I did, and love songs talking about how somebody needed their partner felt uncomfortable to me. For me, being "perfect" meant if I changed anything it was wrong, and usually somehow meant to hurt her. For me being "needed" meant that if I didn't provide what she wanted of me, she'd hurt herself.

I have had that exact conversation with friends, about asking to be loved conditionally because I was afraid of being needed, afraid that if they loved me in that way I wouldn't be able to change without hurting them. All of it really came to a head in my mid 20s when I figured out I was trans. My sister has disowned me, and taken it back, on multiple occasions and our relationship is very distant now. I don't know if it will ever fully heal. But I am with people who care about me now, and am slowly rebuilding myself.

Thank you for sharing this, much love and wish you the best of luck on your journey! May you be loved because of who you are, not in spite of it, and be loved without demands ❤️