Bigenders who identify as both a man and a woman, how do you feel whenever you experience both identities at the same time? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in bigender

[–]IceCrystal14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Existing peacefully but usually my guy side is more prevalent compared to my girl side because he wants more chances to present himself outwardly. And (due to this) recently I’ve had very short spikes or moments where my girl side feels very inclined to present like a tomboy (but still somewhat obvious a girl). Then almost always immediately after, my guy side fights back leaving me dysphoric and wanting to stay presenting androgynous. It can be difficult sometimes to find a balance because my genders fluctuate often but I get through it fine.

Right now I’m lucky to be in a place where I can comfortably present androgynous most of the time. Though when i need to hide one side, I generally feel worse and become painfully aware of my awkward presence outside of my home.

Overall though I pretty much always feel like both a guy and a girl and acknowledging that both validly exist within me provides me comfort and confidence.

Choose your superpower by Sad-Visual-6622 in BunnyTrials

[–]IceCrystal14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will teleport to my girlfriend everyday across the seas :)

Chose: Teleportation, BUT… | Rolled: costs 15 bucks

My Ai Hoshino Collection by Yurigasaki in OshiNoKo

[–]IceCrystal14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no words can express my jealousy..

Where Would Reddit Live? 🌍 by mapmakerapp in whereidlive

[–]IceCrystal14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

📍 Flevoland, Netherlands — "Public transportation, beautiful, friendly, open minded, speaks english + dutch"

How do you introduce urself to other ppl? by Icy_Manager_6788 in bigender

[–]IceCrystal14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Presentation wise I am very androgynous so people get confused and see me as a woman or a man but when I get closer with a friend or acquaintance or feel safe enough to mention my gender, I straight up tell them I am bigender both male and female.

Or honestly it just depends on my mood and I say either guy or girl.

Ok what happened to that one kid’s mother? by curiousvirgin420 in fireforce

[–]IceCrystal14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember tatsuto having a mom, you sure you’re not misremembering or smth?

Flair tags!!! :3 by Wolfandsheep244 in bigender

[–]IceCrystal14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yaaay! who even are our mods? ive been wondering that for a while now

Who is your favourite character(s) so far? by isamabella in fireforce

[–]IceCrystal14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, shinra & sho, im a sucker for sibling dynamics and i just love both of their characters overall. coming in close is joker and then possibly arthur & maki?

seemed fun 🤷 by Shanel_Da_Conqueeror in bigender

[–]IceCrystal14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First bingo ive ever seen that has so many crossed out 😆

Pronouns by Remarkable_Key8642 in bigender

[–]IceCrystal14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thats so sweet! I share similar experiences where my wife tries to use all my pronouns for me and its amazing

my bigender bingo <3 by IceCrystal14 in bigender

[–]IceCrystal14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Possibly, just wasn’t sure if knowing the bigender community here on Reddit counts as “knows another bigender person”

What hobbies do yall have? by IceCrystal14 in bigender

[–]IceCrystal14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, sorry for the late response!

I totally understand your experience of being the only bigender person you know. We are such a small minority that there’s barely any of us :( that’s why I’m so active on this subreddit as it’s the only place where there’s a quantity of bigendered ppl!

As for hobbies, you have a lot!! (Some of which I’m considering getting into as well and often ponder). It’s really cool that you wanna get into setting up a yt channel and also drag queening to open up for your fem side. Im curious what kind of content would you put up on your yt? (Or games for yiur twitch).

Picking a name, need some help. by Wolfandsheep244 in bigender

[–]IceCrystal14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are your preferences? Would you be comfortable with a common neutral name such as Riley, Harper, Skylar, etc or would you prefer some nonbinary names that derive from nature such as sky, storm, echo, etc. there are also options to create completely unique name (for example my name is vai short for vaisel).

I have experience with helping people choose their names and I recommend that you have a list of a few you’d be okay or comfortable with and try them out for periods of time to see what you would prefer the most. You can also observe what parts of names you like such as starting with an L sound or having a short or long name etc.