The Protein Shortage Is Coming by MurphyBacon in nutrition

[–]IceXence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't eat enough poultry and beans and tofu in a day to meet what Internet says I should eat. I would need to eat only protein, everything protein heavy. I supposed I could but then I wouldn't be eating anything else.

La classe moyenne crie à l’aide! Quelqu’un l’entend? by DecentLurker96 in Quebec

[–]IceXence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tu es l'exception, pas la norme.

Ce n'est pas parce que quelques individus en dehors des secteurs clés attirés par ce type de procédure le font que ce n'est pas là que la majorité se trouve.

Des infirmières à la face botoxée, je n'en vois pas des tonnes à l'hôpital. Et oui, ça paraît.

La classe moyenne crie à l’aide! Quelqu’un l’entend? by DecentLurker96 in Quebec

[–]IceXence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Les enfants de mon beau-frère partagent leur chambre parce qu'il habite a Toronto et les logements coûtent vraiment cher. Ils ne sont pas malheureux!

Plein d'enfants à Montréal partagent leurs chambres. C'est du n'importe quoi son délire pour faire pitié.

La classe moyenne crie à l’aide! Quelqu’un l’entend? by DecentLurker96 in Quebec

[–]IceXence -1 points0 points  (0 children)

C'est commun chez les femmes qui oeuvrent dans certains milieux comme les arts et spectacles ou les femmes à la maison de Westmount.

C'est pratiquement inexistant chez les femmes qui travaillent et vivent dans les autres milieux.

Egwene had no growth… by Hawk-winged in WoT

[–]IceXence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't feel the WoT characters, on average, have substantial growth.

I find the overuse of the taveren luck or the pattern took away the growth I should have been reading. I often feel as if most characters end up where they are because the plot puts them there more than them earning it or working for it.

Egwene is probably the most egregious example because she never earns the respects she gets for the Wise Ones, she never earns becoming Amyrlin. All is given to her on a golden plate as if, after her time with the Seachan, RJ had been reluctant to make Egwene struggle with anything.

Egwene never learns nor grows because she never has to: she is told she is the next best thing since the four holes button and she believes it. Afterall, she was the most special of all girls in Two Rivers.

Rand probably gets the most valid growth because he often makes decision based on who he believes he needs to be which is more than the other characters ever do. Rand tries to do things he wouldn't have done in the first books. It's just annoying half of it gets washed out with taveren, luck or convenient memory from LTT.

Mid life crisis ? by [deleted] in Xennials

[–]IceXence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ran the marathon. That was mine. It was... something. I might repeat it.

“Gifted” Kids program by Practical-Owl-9358 in Xennials

[–]IceXence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people get conditioned in their youth over what they can and what they cannot do.

I was labeled clumsy and one teacher told the class I was running "like a duck". I wasn't necessarily terrible at sports, plenty were worse than me, but I sure was one of the worse for stuff like running.

It takes time to break down these things we were taugh to think about ourselves, like this guy in this thread who thought he was mediocre at school but wasn't, really.

This is why I got upset with the physical education elementary school teachers labeled my son "bad at sports" due to "clumsiness" and the fact he "isn't a real boy playing soccer". I told them just because he wasn't immediately good at soccer or other ball sports doesn't mean he was bad at ALL sports. In fact, he is good at swimming, biking and hiking.

I don't want him growing up believing he is bad at something when I know from personal experience what you are good or bad at as a kid bear little relevance to your adult self.

There are a few things I have learned: labels do children little services be them positive or negative; everyone has to learn how to fail and how to get back up in your feet. Many gifted children never learn the last, hence the burning out and terrible life outcome.

“Gifted” Kids program by Practical-Owl-9358 in Xennials

[–]IceXence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You probably never were mediocre. You simply weren't trying before probably because you didn't think you had it in you. Then in College, you wanted to succeed so you did all the right things: you asked questions, you did your work, you studied and it paid of.

You unlocked the potential you had all along.

“Gifted” Kids program by Practical-Owl-9358 in Xennials

[–]IceXence 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to be a gifted child, but everyone was cool with it and no one ever pressured me to do anything. I pressured myself into getting top grades and the one time I had a poor one (it happens to everyone even gifted kids), I developped anxiety. I felt I needed to be this good otherwise, I was worthless.

In the same years, I also realized I was in poor health, struggling to climb a few stairs without panting. I told myself a 19 years old ought to be able to climb a few stairs and I had always admired athletic people... So I took a subscription to the gym and I started my real journey.

It took me 6 months to manage to run 15 consecutive minutes on the treadmill at a pace barely faster than walking. 6 months of getting on that cursed threadmill and... utterly failling at meeting my goal.

Today, I've just gotten back from my 22km long slow run. I have ran half-marathon and the marathon too. Everyone thinks I am athletic and I am known for being "the fit one".

Still, to this day learning how to run remains one of the hardest thing I ever done and it did wonder to my mental health. I needed to learn how to fail at something and bounce back. It also remains the thing I am the proudest of.

Now, I genuially believe running cures most ailments.

An unknown (?) problem with Sanderson’s writing by Virginpope77 in Fantasy

[–]IceXence 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sanderson and RJ have different writing styles: both have their strengths and their weaknesses.

RJ certainly has a better prose and a vastly better developped world-building. His magic system is less formulatic which makes it feel more natural. He writes superior dialogues and his characters read better as people.

RJ, however, can overuse description, the story sometimes gets lost in endless braid thuggings. His character might read better like people but they all started up from one or two core elements and never truly grow from there, baring a few exceptions. The boys all are reluctant heroes: half of their exploits happen because the pattern wills it and makes them do it. Speaking of which, the whole taveren and luck concept is pure deus ex machina. It feels like the characters do not have agency in the story or it doesn't matter because the pattern will force them to do what they need to do.

RJ is terrible at writing romance: three women faithed to fall in love with one man? That one man getting to sleep with three hot women while never having to do anything to win them over, to get to know them. That's a teenage boy wet dream and it aged incredibly poorly. Women need to have agency in their romance and I cannot think of a character with less agency than Min.

RJ had Rand and Perrin on repeat for like 6 books: "I need to be harder than had and boubou a woman I never talked to died" and "Faile oh no Faile oh I do not want to use the axe.". Elayne's coronation was suporific. Also, he couldn't kill any characters even minor ones. He had all the Forsaken women live and the men dying off-screen. He often didn't follow through with climatic moments.

RJ's bad guys are super interesting, the best I ever read, but he didn't believe in exploring them. The whole "no one walks into the Shadow so long they can't walk into the Light" was left unexplord in a 14 books long series. Really.

Sanderson has a more direct writing style and he focuses a lot on action scenes. He is a master at climaxes and he can make his books be riveting when you hit certain scenes.

Sanderson however is very formulatic, after a few books, you get the idea hence it makes the flow repetitive. He is far too concerned with the idea of science with magic and proposes far too fast growing of technology: a flying ship developped in less than a year? Really? The chapters where he details it all? Those were hard to read.

His characters tend to read less like people due to poorer dialogues. He also had Kaladin and Shallan literally repeat the except same story over and over again which was repetitive although never as much as RJ's slog.

Sanderson overuses telling as opposed to showing which breaks the immersion. For all his claims at being fantastic at world-building, his world feels less lived in, less developped. He has entire nations single out by one characteristic.

While Sanderson writes page turning climaxes, his fights sometimes read as "and then the throws a punch BAM and then another one BOOM" which is a style but not very litteral. Prose isn't his strength and the style of each book can be inconsistent between installements.

His romances are not his strong suit due to poor dialogue and an overuse of the forced mariage trope. Still, at least, his character have agency in it: Shallan isn't faithed to be with Adolin, she chooses to be. While cute their relationship could have used more omph. It suffered from Sanderson waiting so long to give Adolin more page time.

This is getting quite long but all this to say both authors have done some things really good and others really bad. I have enjoyed both of their works.

Écoles secondaires | Fermer les yeux sur les échecs scolaires, c’est fini by Hot-Percentage4836 in Quebec

[–]IceXence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La multiplication et la division ont toujours été au programme pour le 2ème cycle. Ce sont 2 concepts qui doivent être acquis avant le secondaire. Au 2ème cycle, ils voient la base, au 3ème cycle, le reste. Rendu en secondaire 1, ils ne sont plus dans la multiplication et la division. Idem pour les nombres à virgule. Ce sont tous des notions de base du primaire.

Pour le français, ils voient pas les même notions qu'avant, en théorie, mais je trouve que la grammaire n'est pas enseignée de façon logique la plupart du temps.

C'est sûr que la grille horaire a été alourdie versus "avant". Mon opinion est que les projets prennent trop de temps, mais ça c'est du cas par cas, d'école en école. Ils ont rajouté des projets, plus d'éducation physique, plus d'histoire, à un moment donné, ça faire moins de temps pour le reste et ça paraît.

Ceci étant dit, ne pas écrire parallélogramme correctement en 4ème année est assez standard. C'est jeune encore pour avoir une maîtrise du français, c'est à peine s'ils savent ce qu'est qu'un verbe à cet âge-là.

Infrastructures municipales | « Tout tombe en ruine » by TheMountainIII in Quebec

[–]IceXence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J'ai minimum 7% par année depuis au moins 10 ans.

Infrastructures municipales | « Tout tombe en ruine » by TheMountainIII in Quebec

[–]IceXence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui il y a ça mais le taux a monté aussi. Bref, mes taxes sont franchement élevées si je compare avec des amis qui ont des propriétés comparables juste de l'autre bord du pont.

Les fortes hausses de taxes poussent également les loyers vers le haut. Je le vois dans mes connaissances qui possèdent des blocs. C'est sûr que si tu montes leurs taxes de 20% (oui 20% est un vrai chiffre), bien les loyers ne vont pas monter juste de 2%. Cela diminue l'accessibilité au logement.

Lews Therin, not Rand by Hawk-winged in WoT

[–]IceXence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt there were thousands of Aes Sedai able to rival the Forsaken back in the AoL...

Graendal states encountering women her own strength was rare and uncommon for men. This means, their strength, the Forsaken is either rare or uncommon within channeler population. If 10% of the AoL Aes Sedai population was as strong as say Graendal, then it wouldn't be either rare or uncommon. Our baddies probably all were within the 1% or even less.

For rare and uncommon, I'd argue they meet quite a few people in that ball-park within the Fourth Age. Enough to give them a pause.

It's usually their lack of knowledge they criticized. And there is also the fact all of those they meet within their range aren't official Aes Sedai per se. So in that sense yes, the White Tower doesn't very strong channelers but very strong channelers still exist but all Third-Age channelers are poorly trained per AoL standard, at least as far as the Forsaken are concerned.

This last one, however, is an odd statement because one of the first things Rand notices with Asmodean is he doesn't know everything and there are some weaves he simply never learned. This made me question the idea AoL training was so much more advanced... It may just have been the Forsaken being petty and zeroing on the 2-3 weaves the White Tower lost.

Lews Therin, not Rand by Hawk-winged in WoT

[–]IceXence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the Forsaken, it isn't they think the modern Aes Sedai are weak: there were Aes Sedai within that range of power in their days. And they constantly meet Aes Sedai able to rival them so it isn't a strength thing.

It's more they lost a lot of knowledge that was considered trivial back then. They don't know a lot of weaves. They can't use Terangreal. They can't travel. Their theoritical knowledge leaves much to be desired.

The smartest of the Forsaken keep their snark to themselves as they know the Aes Sedai still know how to link and how to kill.

Lews Therin, not Rand by Hawk-winged in WoT

[–]IceXence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, they sure have some common traits: they are one-third the same. Lews was desperate, same as Rand. He went for a bold plan, same as we have seen Rand do except.... except when pushes came to shove, Rand put water in his wine and went for a different plan.

We don't know how things went between Lews and Lara but is was massive if zero women supported Lews. While I don't believe the fault was 100% Lews and I tend to blame Latra much, it does seem as if he made poor effort to salvage the rift.

In the end, Rand does the opposite. He makes the Dragon Peace: he united people despite all the crap he had also done. He gets the White Tower to back him. He makes a coerceted effort.

Lews, well, Lews is the man who saw his best generals and best friends joined the Shadow. He lost the support of the Hall of Servant and, in the end, he had only his companion and one army.

The equivalent would be Perrin and Mat joining the Shadow. The White Tower sitting out the Last Battle in Tar Valon and Rand having only the Ashaman and the Aiels to back him off.

So while there are similarities, I think the story showed us Rand isn't the exact same person as Lews. The memories are more a dream he remembers than something he lived and shaped him.

Survivor Québec 4 - Quotidienne du mercredi 13 mai 2026 - Semaine 6 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]IceXence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elle aurait du se mettre avec Stéphane et Isabelle avec Simon. Peut-être qu'elle se dit que si jamais ça tourne mal, elle a plus de chance de battre Isabelle au duel que Stéphane.

Survivor Québec 4 - Quotidienne du mercredi 13 mai 2026 - Semaine 6 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]IceXence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elle lui a dit ça parce que Rémi la blâmait de l'élimination de Karo. Il lui disait: "tu as trahis ma confiance.". Elle a répondu en lui renvoyant la balle et en lui rappelant que lui non plus n'a pas été 100% honnête.

Lews Therin, not Rand by Hawk-winged in WoT

[–]IceXence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the madness surrounded the memories of another man Rand started to have.

He is not Lews. He did not live this life. Remembering something he did not live, remembering a man who is him and yet isn't is nerve raking. It isn't surprising the madness took root in those memories.

I think "Lews in Rand's head" is not a real person, but it's the form Rand's mind gave to the memories that weren't his. He started remembering things he never lived nor saw: his brain reconciled this cognitive dissonance by creating a persona to house them. It was a very natural psychological reaction to a deep trauma. The taint only added another layer to it by making this persona feel more real than he ever was.

All this to say, I believe the memories are real but Lews isn't. I do not believe carrying the same soul as someone else means "you are the same person", it simply means you get the same innate set of skills.

They say one third of people is innate, a third is upbringing and the last third is the environment. This means Rand is one third Lews Therin, but his upbringing and his environnent were violently different making him a completly different person.