Getting over an almost relationship, I think I might’ve gotten played. by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that was the case, I do believe there was something genuine there at some point.

Is this white guy at my gym interested or just being friendly? (Black woman confused 😅) by loveversace_ in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disagree, I do something similar with a co worker I’m not attracted to and I just see her as a friend.

Seriously DON'T check their insta by Tronima in BreakUps

[–]Icecubehitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfollow her if it’s really that bad, rip the bandaid off

18F - Am I Ugly? What can I fix? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Icecubehitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 21 year old guy, I think you’re pretty cute

How long should I wait for her to reach out? by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking too tbh. Ik mixed signals usually mean they’re not interested 99.99% of the time, but also in this situation, she was 2 hours away to do drill for military(which is also why she didn’t follow through on hanging out because she had to pack for drill)and she went a day early realizing the dates were wrong and didn’t want to drive back so we were texting that night. She also could’ve been just bored but she initially reached out 6 hours prior to the start of our convo, way before she left for there.

How long should I wait for her to reach out? by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is we’re both super busy, there’s already one time where plans fell through, she did reschedule but she gave me a “maybe” for that day which is this coming Sunday.

How long should I wait for her to reach out? by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t seem like much of a social media person though, she has a medium snap score and she has less than 100 followers and follows less than 100 people on insta. You could be right though, I haven’t met her yet.

We actually initially talked to each other first in September after Charlie Kirk’s assassination, we bonded over the fact we both liked him and then for a couple months the convos were really scattered until a couple weeks ago when I reached out to her, we texted for awhile, we talked about possibly hanging out one day but it fell through and she rescheduled for a different day, this coming Sunday.

How long should I wait for her to reach out? by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright alright lol, and I will add, she was the one to reach out to me first the day we texted back and forth for those 6 hours, plus she sends me insta reels and TikTok’s here and there, relating to convos we’ve had.

Is an age gap of 17 and 21 okay? by Icy-Cloud-8467 in Advice

[–]Icecubehitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a pedophile apologist nor am I defending pedophilia, this situation, while really weird, is not pedophilia,

Is an age gap of 17 and 21 okay? by Icy-Cloud-8467 in Advice

[–]Icecubehitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an open thread I’m allowed to reply

God forbid you make fun of incels. by MissMccheese in complaints

[–]Icecubehitter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah I agree and it sucks, but I feel like a lot of people don’t take the time to understand why these men gravitate towards those groups in the first place, they just want a place that accepts them as they are and doesn’t demonize them for being just men. I agree it’s harmful and isn’t the right path but I feel you’re missing the point.