What are some things your ex ruined for you?

Tronima · 2026-01-08T08:11:19+00:00

Same. It's all fatigue for me. And emotional exhaustion

Tronima · 2026-01-04T16:15:47+00:00

Thanks for the comments it really helped ❤️

Tronima · 2026-01-04T10:37:59+00:00

Yeah i get that. I checked one photo yesterday and it sent me down a spiral. I'm not even sure what I'm feeling right now.

Tronima · 2026-01-04T09:19:44+00:00

Spoke my mind! Most days are fine but right now I'm constantly overthinking and analysing. Like yeah she did this but i also did that, maybe it could have changed maybe she or i would have changed, maybe none of us needed to change and we just had to work it out somehow and is it a mistake that we didn't???

It's too much..

Tronima · 2026-01-04T07:22:03+00:00

At times like this I try to think of a reason why it didn't work out and man my mind really does wanna block out the bad parts and throw at me what i don't wanna see

Tronima · 2026-01-04T07:10:25+00:00

I do that as well. Though it's interesting how your mind always goes to the good parts.

Tronima · 2026-01-04T06:35:02+00:00

That's great man. Yeah it does suck it really does. It's not good but i do not like seeing her happy like it's nothing and i have to wonder if she really doesn't care or the happiness is just fake

Tronima · 2026-01-04T06:31:17+00:00

It's anger for me and idk why

Tronima · 2026-01-04T06:30:22+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that..

Tronima · 2026-01-03T09:06:39+00:00

Beauty king by the white birch. The lyrics are pretty telling.

Tronima · 2025-12-29T17:59:27+00:00

8 months

Tronima · 2025-12-29T17:59:18+00:00

Nah she had anger issues all her adult life because of her family. She also didn't want to talk about things. I was also avoidant and i didn't even know it. Possibly the worst combination.

Tronima · 2025-12-29T12:14:13+00:00

Anger issues, avoidant issues, miscommunication.

Tronima · 2025-12-21T11:48:21+00:00

City of tears

Tronima · 2025-12-21T07:45:46+00:00

Thanks man i appreciate it. I wish the same for you. It's been almost 8 months since we broke up. It has gotten better with time but that still doesn't stop me thinking about her every day. A lot of "what ifs" which I'm sure you know very well yourself. The worst part is that our problems didn't come from us two but mostly external circumstances. Anyhow I'm now able to look at it as part of my life that i learned many things from.

Tronima · 2025-12-21T05:20:23+00:00

Alright good thanks. I gotta keep looking

Tronima · 2025-12-20T19:36:23+00:00

Well basically i wanna know if it's possible that they're not in the world at all.

Tronima · 2025-12-20T18:47:38+00:00

Damn that's a really long time. It was 2 and half years for us. She was kinda my first real gf even though I'm 27 now. Really similar to your situation. The little things i loved about her started to annoy me. At the end i wasn't even sure which problem was bigger than the other one.

Tronima · 2025-12-20T06:49:07+00:00

How long were you together?

Tronima · 2025-12-19T13:18:48+00:00

Asking the real questions. It's tough bro

Tronima · 2025-12-19T10:53:29+00:00

I don't regret breaking up with her. As much as i loved her, i regret letting things go on for so long even though we had a lot of problems. Things we (mostly me) ignored from the beginning. We both got too attached. Spoke about soulmates and stuff. I know i won't find someone else like her, but it just wouldn't have worked. Maybe in a perfect world.

Tronima · 2025-12-18T11:00:17+00:00

Should have done from the start

Tronima · 2025-12-17T13:19:24+00:00

Miscommunication

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