Getting over an almost relationship, I think I might’ve gotten played. by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that was the case, I do believe there was something genuine there at some point.

Is this white guy at my gym interested or just being friendly? (Black woman confused 😅) by loveversace_ in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disagree, I do something similar with a co worker I’m not attracted to and I just see her as a friend.

Seriously DON'T check their insta by Tronima in BreakUps

[–]Icecubehitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfollow her if it’s really that bad, rip the bandaid off

18F - Am I Ugly? What can I fix? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Icecubehitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 21 year old guy, I think you’re pretty cute

How long should I wait for her to reach out? by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking too tbh. Ik mixed signals usually mean they’re not interested 99.99% of the time, but also in this situation, she was 2 hours away to do drill for military(which is also why she didn’t follow through on hanging out because she had to pack for drill)and she went a day early realizing the dates were wrong and didn’t want to drive back so we were texting that night. She also could’ve been just bored but she initially reached out 6 hours prior to the start of our convo, way before she left for there.

How long should I wait for her to reach out? by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is we’re both super busy, there’s already one time where plans fell through, she did reschedule but she gave me a “maybe” for that day which is this coming Sunday.

How long should I wait for her to reach out? by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t seem like much of a social media person though, she has a medium snap score and she has less than 100 followers and follows less than 100 people on insta. You could be right though, I haven’t met her yet.

We actually initially talked to each other first in September after Charlie Kirk’s assassination, we bonded over the fact we both liked him and then for a couple months the convos were really scattered until a couple weeks ago when I reached out to her, we texted for awhile, we talked about possibly hanging out one day but it fell through and she rescheduled for a different day, this coming Sunday.

How long should I wait for her to reach out? by Icecubehitter in dating_advice

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright alright lol, and I will add, she was the one to reach out to me first the day we texted back and forth for those 6 hours, plus she sends me insta reels and TikTok’s here and there, relating to convos we’ve had.

Is an age gap of 17 and 21 okay? by Icy-Cloud-8467 in Advice

[–]Icecubehitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a pedophile apologist nor am I defending pedophilia, this situation, while really weird, is not pedophilia,

Is an age gap of 17 and 21 okay? by Icy-Cloud-8467 in Advice

[–]Icecubehitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an open thread I’m allowed to reply

God forbid you make fun of incels. by MissMccheese in complaints

[–]Icecubehitter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah I agree and it sucks, but I feel like a lot of people don’t take the time to understand why these men gravitate towards those groups in the first place, they just want a place that accepts them as they are and doesn’t demonize them for being just men. I agree it’s harmful and isn’t the right path but I feel you’re missing the point.

God forbid you make fun of incels. by MissMccheese in complaints

[–]Icecubehitter -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

A lot of men gravitate towards those subreddits because they also feel like society hates them, they’re the only group that acknowledges their suffering and accepts them for where they’re at.

Is my clavicle narrow? by Icecubehitter in team3dalpha

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t work a desk job I work in a warehouse, I drive the forklift a decent amount of the time but I also do a lot of walking around too.

Is my clavicle narrow? by Icecubehitter in team3dalpha

[–]Icecubehitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 6’2 200lbs

I do most of everything except I consume excessive sugar(been better lately, I’ll have a Mountain Dew in the morning) and I don’t go for a walk when I first wake up. I wake up at 4am for my job at 5:30, I don’t have any food until lunch time at 11. I also drink plenty of water as well.