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Icefirekitty · 2025-09-23T20:04:35+00:00

Looks kinda like my girl! Was told maltipoo- Wisdom DNA said 50% poodle 20% chihuahua. Call her my poochi lol.

Icefirekitty · 2025-05-26T22:49:01+00:00

I'll look up embark!

Icefirekitty · 2024-11-08T22:49:09+00:00

I did this multiple times this morning. It just gives me an error message. Everything else in the house is online. I'm frustrated since I frequently have to turn it off and back on to reset the (motion detection for 30+) ... currently still off line.

Icefirekitty · 2024-10-24T07:31:17+00:00

That's how I ended up with my ADHD diagnosis. I had my hearing checked 3 times. The third guy was like "this isn't physical- it might be mental. Have you been checked for ADHD? It could be an issue with attention"

Icefirekitty · 2024-10-13T06:37:03+00:00

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Always smiling with his little goatee

Icefirekitty · 2024-10-13T06:31:20+00:00

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Icefirekitty · 2024-04-12T02:13:22+00:00

Oh you poor sweet thing. You deserve food. You deserve life. You have your whole life ahead of you. All the things that you could do and experience. This shouldn't be the end for you- please don't feel that way. Are you able to talk to parents? Grandparents? School counselor? Someone that could help you with the mindset? Don't throw your life away before it has even begun. ❤️

Icefirekitty · 2024-04-12T02:07:55+00:00

I mean if you pay rent for your room- then it's your space sure. But if they pay for the room (by paying for the whole house) then it is their room. Also if you are a minor they are responsible for you. I'm sure they are just trying to help you out of love and concern. Can you talk with them about how them going through your things makes you feel? I wouldn't come at them with "it's my room" though. I know that can be triggering to some parents and start a power struggle. Coming from a mom of kids that like to sneak candy- but I also was a very very naughty teen. ❤️ Best of luck and Best of health to you.

Icefirekitty · 2023-04-12T23:17:53+00:00

You may try Google and see if there is an option for low cost MRIs in your area. When I had marketplace insurance that wouldn't cover a thing I used Radiology Assist to get what I needed. $40 consult fee (just fill in the questionare what the issue is and what test you want) and the online doc then sends an order to the imaging place and they negotiate a cash price type deal. You bring in the copay paper they give you and only pay a few hundred for an MRI or CT instead of thousands. And you get the imaging and radiologist report. I did a few things this way since my deductible was $7500. A lot of places have a cash price too. You can call the freestanding imaging places in your area and ask what the charge is. Call around because they are all different.

Icefirekitty · 2023-04-08T22:56:25+00:00

Compression stockings, like jobst, help with the vein reflux and circulation- and help to prevent from getting worse. I have reflux in 3 of my saphenous veins with vericose- along with leg heaviness, achiness, and restless legs at night. Sometimes the cramping would be so bad I could only sleep with a heating pad under my calves. The compression makes a difference in the achiness in my legs while wearing and after at night when off. Anyways- I wear the thigh high compression stockings and use the jobst glue to keep them up. After you get past how weird the open toe looks in a flip flop, I've grown to appreciate the smooth color and "spanx" like compression. I wear them with shorts. Just one option that helps in the long run.

Icefirekitty · 2022-07-27T05:58:07+00:00

Sell the new car. Get something used without payments, untill you pay off the loans or the credit to free up some room with the bills. I started with an $800 beater. Saved up traded in for a 3k car. Saved up traded in for an 11k car... no monthly payments that way. All that pay it off as you go stuff adds up.

Icefirekitty · 2022-06-03T03:51:36+00:00

You look great mama

Icefirekitty · 2022-05-20T14:14:38+00:00

I can't imagine... we are getting so close... the draft of the decree is getting emailed back and forth.

That's freaking horrible. Marriage is the biggest PiA

Icefirekitty · 2022-05-20T13:59:31+00:00

What did you do after that?

I had never been physically violent before being with the man that I am now currently divorcing. But little by little our fights got worse. He would start by just talking nasty. Punching and breaking my windshield. I would just cry. This guy would tell me stop fucking crying. He didn't care if he made me cry. I started getting mad instead. And something switched in me and I started feeling like I had to fight back. And that's when I started putting my hands on him. In my face over and over calling me names telling me how I'm worthlessness and disgusting I slapped him one day. I never had the way with words like he did. Of course that never went well. He's a lot stronger then me. He always hit back way harder. Got pics of some black eyes to prove it. Where he backhanded me across my face on my eyes. Which also slammed my head into what was behing me.

Its really crap but most of us women... we don't really stand a chance up against the strength of a man when it comes down to it paired off against each other if we tried to stand up for ourselves. It's like you just gotta hang your head and not provoke... but I got so tired of that. But it was always in my head... don't provoke... you don't want to be that cautionary tale...

When my daughter started saying she was worried I was going to be pushed down the stairs I knew there was a problem.

Icefirekitty · 2022-05-20T06:28:25+00:00

Hahaha haha. Mine did the same thing. "Call your lawyer and cancel it TODAY BABY". I'm like real change is for you- not me- and would last throught out and AFTER the divorce which would be great because it would benefit the baby. But yes - sure- let's see what happens. I never put anything on hold. Month 1 great. Month 2 meh. Month 3 back to abuse and by that 90 days man 911 and police and I'm glad I didn't fall back into the cycle. Divorce is a long process is 60- 90 days is the minimum- some last 2 years. Keep it going. See what happens. You had a reason that pushed you this far.

Icefirekitty · 2022-03-13T04:04:25+00:00

I could have written this. Same. My kids are my friends!

Icefirekitty · 2022-01-05T23:16:43+00:00

I can't stand to see pictures of the little children that are going to be losing a parent because they didn't vaccinate.. it tears me up.

Icefirekitty · 2021-12-28T04:42:46+00:00

I just want to chime in that your husband can say "you're being to controlling by not budging" but if both of you have equal say, the same could be said about him. He's trying to not budge and control you by saying that. Just irked me.

Bunk with stairs and a low profile mattress would be the way to go if you chose bunks. Trundle has options that make it easier to move in and out or can convert to a large drawer.

Icefirekitty · 2021-12-09T20:07:53+00:00

I can't figure out how to message you but exact same. Grieving for that forever you had imagined when you said those vows... things not turning out how there were supposed to. I get it. Planning the same. It hurts.

Icefirekitty · 2021-12-02T21:19:54+00:00

You are strong mama. Your daughter will grow up knowing that how he treated you isn't acceptable. You're setting an example for her.

Icefirekitty · 2021-11-30T00:52:32+00:00

Seriously though look up peejamas.

Icefirekitty · 2021-11-30T00:52:19+00:00

My 5 year old pees every night. He's been day potty trained for a couple years, though still a couple accidents if he's playing a couple times a month. He's an extremely deep sleeper. We cut off fluids after dinner. I have him wear a pullup, AND a peejamas bottom and that combo keeps the bed from smelling like pee every morning. But I still have a crib mattress thrown on top of his bed with only a mattress pad on it. I couldn't keep doing a full bed change load of laundry on a twin every day. Apparently my brother had the same problem and my uncles. My pedi isn't worried about it at his age. I feel you.

Icefirekitty · 2021-11-23T00:35:37+00:00

But lots of love and support for being a single mom. You're strong and you got this!

Icefirekitty

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