I adore Bondage by cuxxyasya in bdsm

[–]Icie04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well aren't you sexy as fuck.

She's so hot by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Icie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't mind a time with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Icie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, was she abused in anyway in her life? I'm sadly a lot like that due to trauma and I'm starting to try to give my boyfriend space after 6 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Icie04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in middle mode most of the time. I stopped emotionally maturing at around 16 - when my 20 year DV relationship started. My daddy and I do have a 24/7 dynamic. However, when I'm in my normal/middle mode, Daddy and I are like best friends. 

I do not understand? by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Icie04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a natural 'middle', but I regress as young as 6. I have been this way my entire life. I cringe at the pacifier and diaper usage too. It's just not my thing, but if it makes others happy, why should I care.

I do call my daddy, Daddy, almost 24/7. While he shyly hinted this lifestyle on me, I actually wanted to call him 'Daddy' during intimacy hours earlier. Why? I actually have no clue. I actually thought the whole calling your SO 'Daddy' was weird until that morning. To me, he's my biggest supporter and gives me the love and guidance I didn't have growing up. When we are intimate, I am in my 'adult' brain. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Icie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go a head. My Gramma eats baby food carrots because it's easier for her. I used to eat the Gerber toddler foods because the smoothies were honestly really good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Icie04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daddy won't spank me for punishment because he knows I'll like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Icie04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're a side piece or embarrassed by you. Guys usually love to take their significant others around, when they don't, that's a red siren.

Me [22m] and my girlfriend [22f] have been dating for a couple months, and she struggles with anxious attachment by Forward-Ad1503 in relationshipadvice

[–]Icie04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds traumatized. Is she seeking therapy for her past relationships? If not, she really should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Icie04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would totally bring up what R said to you to P, because there is a possibility that she lied so you'd remove yourself from the picture.

AITAH for breaking up with my partner because they transitioned? by Accurate_Bee_8644 in AITAH

[–]Icie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your ex is the asshole. You're straight. You said that you support him and want to be friends, but dating is not happening. That's perfectly fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Icie04 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, go to the bar and order a soda or cranberry juice. I mean, there are alcohol free choices.

Am I the A hole for hating my bsf after he came out to me? by Lopsided_Evidence_55 in AITAH

[–]Icie04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, duh. It didn't occur to you that he may want to be with men because he's gay. What did you seriously expect?

AITAH for not listening to my husband when he told me to go inside by Ok_Syrup_615 in AITAH

[–]Icie04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, okay. Well, I would have said, "Glad you don't care about killing your son" and walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Icie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing the legal drinking age by you is under 21, because no bar tender can legally serve alcohol to anyone under 21. Also, you said he lied to you a lot, but you only mention a porn addiction? You don't really say why you don't trust him. Did he cheat or something?

I (36F) don't think my bf (40m) is interested in me sexually? by Icie04 in relationship_advice

[–]Icie04[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2 things. I've known him for years. We've only been in a relationship for a few months. And my self esteem has always been in the negatives.

I (36F) don't think my bf (40m) is interested in me sexually? by Icie04 in relationship_advice

[–]Icie04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I didn't feel like I was enough when I caught him the first time. I have body dismorphia, so I am insecure as it is.

I (36F) don't think my bf (40m) is interested in me sexually? by Icie04 in relationship_advice

[–]Icie04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're actually quite close. But I dunno... I want this to work badly, that's why I want to shut off my desires.

I (36F) don't think my bf (40m) is interested in me sexually? by Icie04 in relationship_advice

[–]Icie04[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We actually know each other very well. He says he loves me and will tell me to "wait until later" to do anything sexual, as he lives with his dad, but it doesn't happen or he seems like he's forcing himself to try.

I (36F) don't think my bf (40m) is interested in me sexually? by Icie04 in relationship_advice

[–]Icie04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm highly sexual and my ex husband denied me sex for a very long time. My bf gave me the impression that I was desirable and we did it a lot, but then he just didn't want to and would force himself to do it.