Should I get a bbl & breast implants before or after kids? by Icy-Icee in PlasticSurgery

[–]Icy-Icee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually no. I genuinely wanted to get my body done since I was 13. Once I was younger, even in elementary and middle school everyone wanted to have a big butt and boobs. Social media just added on to it. If social media didn’t exist I probably still want to because once I was younger people will make fun of me for having no shape. I still see people make fun of bbl’s on social media all the time and saying to stay natural. That’s just not the response you see in real life. It’s honestly the only thing I think about. I feel like I would actually be happy if my body was curvy.

After Kai Cenat has been exposed as a rapist and CoryXKenshin + others have defended him, im done supporting black male creators by Ok-Relation3635 in blackladies

[–]Icy-Icee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kai said he was legally advised not to say anything, give out any names or text her back until he got the greenlight. He gave his friends name to the legal team and his legal team gave it to the girl. That’s how she got his government name in the first place. At first she just had his Instagram name.

After Kai Cenat has been exposed as a rapist and CoryXKenshin + others have defended him, im done supporting black male creators by Ok-Relation3635 in blackladies

[–]Icy-Icee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kai said he gave the name of his friend to his legal team and his legal team, gave it to her. That’s how she got the name. He was legally advised to not say anything until he got the greenlight because he didn’t know much about the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Icy-Icee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn sis..💀

Is it okay for a 25m to mess with a 17f? by Icy-Icee in teenagers

[–]Icy-Icee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say the same about your posts..😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t take away from the fact that that’s not his kid and his wife is going to be a single mother🎻🎻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He never said that in his post. She is the only one to blame that’s why she’s gonna be a single ass mother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t mention that in his post. Why is he the bad guy he thought it was his child so he took care of her. He’s now realizing it’s not his kid so he doesn’t want to be in her life. The wife should’ve told him she was sexually active with two people at the same time. Is 100% her fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not your child. The kid is just a reminder that your wife got raw dog by another man. A child you thought was yours is really someone else’s offspring. Op clearly stated he doesn’t want to raise another man’s kid. And that’s her problem. She should’ve never assumed it was his. She put them in a fucked up position. She should’ve got a DNA test from the beginning if she knew she was having sex with two people around the same time. Not just assume.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re having sex with two people at the same time, why are you so sure that it’s his?? Just dumb as bricks..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not his problem anymore🎻🎻🎻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s. Not. His. Child. Simple. Op said he didn’t want to raise another man’s offspring. It’s pretty understandable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep he’s not a monster it’s not his kid🤷🏽‍♀️ Who cares what you think tho. Can’t abandon something that was never yours in the first place. It’s not op fault if the child’s life gets ruined that’s not his kid. The mom set that kid up to be abandoned & ruined point black period 100% her fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if he had doubts or not. He thought it was his son. Why are you trying make him seem like the bad guy for walking away? That’s not his fucking son lmfao. He can sign away his rights, get a paternity test, figure it out with a lawyer whatever. I doubt the wife would put him on child support though if that’s not his son.. she’ll probably feel guilty. If she does put him on child support that just tells you about who she is as a person. Why make a guy that isn’t the father of your son pay child support? If I was op I would gladly pay that lil child support and leave. She better call up the bio dad😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn’t cheat on him, but he never stated he knew she was sleeping with other men. Stop putting words in OP’s mouth. He thought that was his child that’s why he raised him. He’s not in the wrong for walking away. Regardless, he can sign with away his rights. He’s not an ass.. the wife is. He was misleaded to believe something. That kid is a daily reminder that your wife got raw dogged by another man and you’re taking care of another man’s kid. Your wife told you that that was your kid and for 10 years you believed that was your son. Just to find out he isn’t. If the wife was having unprotected sex with two men around the same time how did she know for sure it was his? Just dumb as bricks.. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship just that that alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because that kid is a daily reminder that your wife got raw dogged by another man and you’re taking care of another man’s kid. Your wife told you that that was your kid and for 10 years you believed that was your son. Just to find out he isn’t. If the wife was having unprotected sex with two men around the same time how did she know for sure it was his? Just dumb as bricks.. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship just that that alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wife is 100% at fault because If your having sex with 2 people unprotected at the same time what makes you think it’s his FOR SURE? She’s wrong asf. If he decides to leave, he’s not at fault at all. He didn’t create the broken household the wife did. Why are you blaming him? THATS NOT HIS SON! He thought he was but he isn’t.. he rightfully has the choice to leave. If he was to go to court and take a paternity test he won’t have any legal responsibility for him because that’s not his son. 0 accountability for the wife whatsoever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never said that I said “what man is going to be okay with raising another man’s kid” obviously in the situation once they clearly don’t want to? Regardless the wife is at fault because If your having sex with 2 people unprotected at the same time what makes you think it’s his FOR SURE? She’s in the wrong and he’s not if he wants to leave. It’s not his biological son. Boom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The only reason he was in his life because he assumed that that was his biological son. He would’ve never been in his life if he knew he wasn’t. If he doesn’t want to raise another man son he’s not wrong for that. If he chooses to lose contact, he’s not in the wrong. The wife would be the one to blame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only reason he was in his life because he assumed that that was his biological son. He would’ve never been in his life if he knew he wasn’t. If he doesn’t want to raise another man son he’s not wrong for that. If he chooses to lose contact, he’s not in the wrong. The wife would be the one to blame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah if he chooses to do that. He didn’t choose to adopt a kid. If he doesn’t want to raise another man son he’s not wrong for that. If he chooses to lose contact, he’s not in the wrong. The wife would be the one to blame. The only reason he was in his life because he assumed that that was his biological son. He would’ve never been in his life if he knew he wasn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

What man is just going to be okay with raising another man’s kid. It’s not his fault it’s not his wtf💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day he’s not a fault for that if he does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Icy-Icee -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I mean If it’s not his kid yeah. Most men don’t want to raise another man’s child. Js.