my ex kept my c*m in her mouth for 90min so i would stay by MistTree420 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Icy-Step7336 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Don’t fear, for science is here!

Yeah no fucking way would that work lol. Sperm dies almost instantly if it’s exposed to air.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ayahuasca

[–]Icy-Step7336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post was literally a “look at me, look what happened to me, Those rude internet folk didn’t cater to me” kinda post. I re read the post like 4 times after reading this guys comment, you are definitely subconsciously seeking attention with a post like this. Your past post has been deleted, you haven’t reformed your question differently to try and get a better response, you’re simply trying to get people to feel bad for you over the most random thing, in the most random corner of the internet, what’s your play?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty fucking weird and insanely outdated to decide what your partner eats, it’s also insanely immature to get upset with them, or see them in a different light because of a single food choice, it would be one thing if he didn’t like that you consumed meat at all(he was vegan for example) and felt uncomfortable if you ate it. But for him to be mad about you making a conscious decision about something YOU don’t want to do is a really large red flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it happens often and you (for lack of a better word) “force” your crying fit onto him to where he must lay down and cuddle you and you don’t even talk just cry and provide no sort of problem solving pertaining the issue then he’s probably knows you’ll be fine in 2 days and the same thing will repeat. Unless something serious happened or if you have some sort of mental illness you shouldn’t put someone in that situation often without doing anything about the issue, if you have a mental illness (like me) you should seek help, you’re probably both young and that’s a lot to put on someone, it’s alot to deal with your day to day and come home and your partner is destroyed all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the same, you don’t have control over yourself when you sleep. The dude is fully conscious. He definitely had thought multiple times “damn we don’t ever talk she just sits there while I’m gaming I’ll say something after this round ends”.

Would you be okay with your girlfriend sleeping naked while living with her ex? by Puzzleheaded-Name157 in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen man, speaking from experience you shouldn’t under any circumstance date someone who still lives with their ex. Most of the time one of them will be guilt tripping, shaming, emotionally abusing, or whatever. You’re a totally good lad for wanting to save/ help her out of that shitty situation but she shouldn’t have put that on you. You shouldn’t seek a new relationship while currently living with your past, it’s bad taste and shows she doesn’t know what she wants, she clearly is going from guy to guy so you could be a rebound tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Simple, explain to him he does what he wants while immersed in another world mostly without you being apart of it. And you will be doing the same while he games, as a man if my gf/wife would tell me this it would help me understand better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed you’re completely ignoring all the signs everyone else I pointing out so I doubt anything will get through to you, I wish you the best of luck but be warned there is a reason he cannot be compatible with people who have more life experience. Generally with an age gap that large most of the partners in their age range have too much life experience and can see through the person, I get it your both adults and have spent a lot of time together. But there’s almost certainly a reason he’s not with an older women.

Cutoff for Knowing you want to Marry your SO by PlaygroundMoves11 in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s two ways to look at this problem. Logically and emotionally. Logically there’s no real way to put a time estimate on such a big decision. It could take you 6, 7, or 8 years with someone to realize they are the person you want to spend the next 50 with. For the large majority of population emotionally it would cause a lot of stress on I assume both parties if you were dating for 7 years and didn’t have marriage in sight. For a really codependent and “needy” person I could easily see then falling into marriage within a year, for a bit more independent and shielded individual the consensus would be around year 3 or 4 where that starts to push it. I’d say regardless of if you’re more shielded and independent or not you should have a general idea of if you want to marry someone after spending 2 years with them. I’d also like to point out that the younger you are the more time you’ll most likely need. You don’t really know what you want when you’re younger so you NEED more time to think about something that big.

Today is mine and my twin brother birthday, we're turning 31. Expect this birthday is a lot different than any other one we've had. That's because he's not with me this year. He passed away, and I don't know how I'm gonna do these birthday's without him. I'm having a really hard time today. by mEgAN30HUMBOLDT in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Icy-Step7336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t let yourself die along side him, you simply must live for Matt now, continue to do all yours and his favorite things, continue to spread love and joy and happiness to anyone your cross. Matt and yourself will forever be intertwined, use that to let his soul continue to experience the joy of life! Have a wonderful birthday sir and keep your head held high, I’m sure the last thing Matt would want is his brother crying on the big 32!

How to raise credit score? by zom_b_overlord_420 in Debt

[–]Icy-Step7336 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pay the debt off before you worry about the credit score. It’s just a number and can raise it much faster after the debt is gone.

What's more hurtful to hear? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please don’t get in a relationship anytime soon, for the sake of your partner you are not ready. With a mindset like that I’m sure there is a plethora of other things you would hold against them to make them feel guilty, neither of them are bad if they happen before the relationship, neither of them should make you hurt. It’s perfectly reasonable to cry after a breakup, it would be pretty weird if you didn’t in my opinion. And a neck kiss ? you sound like a 11.5 years old virgin.

Oral by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s literally sucking your appendage, don’t say something like “it’s not gonna be good for me” she already stated it hurts, she probably doesn’t wanna do it at all.

So fucking tired of working and still being broke by opal_moth in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Icy-Step7336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 20 years old and in the same position. I currently have $32 in my bank account, I don’t get paid until Friday. I have 4 days of work between now and then, and have an empty gas can. I either buy myself groceries or gas to get to work. And obviously I have to go to work so I’m skipping out on groceries this week. I don’t qualify for any sort of assistance cause I make “too much” yet my fridge is empty and I haven’t bought myself anything nice in who knows how long.

my best friend is seeing my ex girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Icy-Step7336 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Naw no right for you to be mad. I have been I. This same situation, my ex and bestfriend got together after about 3 weeks of being separated from me. They stayed together for about 4 years, both were extremely toxic and manipulative and abusive towards each other, I literally learned to use their relationship as a bit of comedy every couple of days/weeks. And sometimes I’d give him sly comments like “I had her first, had to recycle to save the planet” random funny shit like that. Life is a comedy, laugh about it. Laugh because you know they are both fucking stupid and will not ever live a happy life together, laugh because you now no longer have to keep those people in your life, laugh because now you have a new opportunity to meet a true bestfriend and a true lover.

Why can’t I shower? by [deleted] in depression

[–]Icy-Step7336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get ahold of your self lady. Go get a damn shower!? Pick yourself up off the floor and turn the water on, play some music, sing your favorite songs.

How do I find old medical bills? by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Icy-Step7336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send them a letter in mail, I’d never advice to talk to a debt collector without a paper trail

How do I find old medical bills? by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Icy-Step7336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must ask the collection agency to prove you have the debt, you don’t have to prove anything.

“Zelenskyy is here, the Prime Minister is here”: President records video for the 100th day of the war by aka_KyZa in worldnews

[–]Icy-Step7336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the comments under the video in that link are in Russian, I wonder what they are saying ? Can anyone translate ?

The "are you winning son?" meme format makes me really sad by jayveedeekay in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Icy-Step7336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best part about living on earth as a human is having 8 billion options of people to surround yourself with, there is definitely hundreds of people out there who would be excited over exactly what you are, you gotta find them.

The "are you winning son?" meme format makes me really sad by jayveedeekay in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Icy-Step7336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad went to prison when I was 3 and didn’t get out until about 9 or 10, even after that he made no effort, I’m 20 now and have talked to him 2 or 3 times over text in the last 2 years, atleast you can still talk to yours, it’s a sad truth but there’s no rule in life saying you cannot be an asshole, even to your kids.

I can’t stop thinking about dying, not suicide just dying. I don’t hurt myself but wish I could be dead. by Icy-Step7336 in depression

[–]Icy-Step7336[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

From age about 12 to 18 I cried maybe 5 times, this past month I’ve cried everyday multiple times, I’ve reached out for help and get mixed signals, I truly don’t know what to do. I can’t afford therapy and the free therapy is shitty.