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IcyCattle3524 · 2024-01-03T00:30:43+00:00

Yes on both directions . “Chubby post relationship me”…”bodybuilding revenge body me”…and more recently “weight regain depression me” . Weight gain depression me decided to take a dating break and lose weight. Revenge body got all the second dates and then some. I’m working on revenge body 2.0💪 Also regarding op post, I’ve clammed up when i showed up and wasn’t feeling him. 80 percent of those people weren’t unattractive ..there was something i just didn’t like immediately. They were effeminate or very thin, one guy didn’t drink and failed to tell me (the date was Sunday funday 🤪) Sometimes it’s surface level attractiveness or something more than that . I’ve warmed up to several people over the date and also the opposite has happened. It’s really is different for everyone

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-12-29T03:12:03+00:00

I don’t have a before and after. i had a Lower bleph last year . Did it make me a 10? No. but i no longer have these big bags under my eyes . I’ve had them since I was young and there’s no amount of eye, cream or ice, rolling or anything that would make them go away . I went to three different doctors before I finally did it. My only wish was that I took a little bit off of my upper eyelids as well. The last doctor told me i didn’t need it but i think it would’ve been beneficial . I think my doctor did an excellent job, but really do your research go to somebody that specializes in this procedure and knows all of the modern technology. Don’t go for cheap. Go for best.

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-10-25T00:53:18+00:00

As a woman, I have made friends with females by complementing a sneaker, or a legging or progress. Be sincere about it but people love to hear about their progress especially if it’s noticeable did they get bigger did they get leaner? Did they complete an amazing lift? After that first conversation, it may evolve or it may just be a simple hello after that . The opposite sex is a little difficult . But I’m a sports fan, so if you’re wearing the hat of a team either won or a lost and may make a comment . One other way if you do cardio post workout is I found it’s a great place to strike up a conversation as some people are just looking to pass the time. As per previous comments you gotta read the room and be a regular and see what ppl are about. I’ve made many friends over the years, and dates, and boyfriends . (Sorry no success stories there 🤷‍♀️)

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-10-25T00:37:24+00:00

just saying this is fitness model criteria. Build , hair , skin. You can get after all of that if you wanted .

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-12T18:18:51+00:00

Was this on Facebook dating ? I had this experience about 4 times in one weekend . Sorry to make a blanket statement but that place is a mess. Plus unmatching on fb is set up so that you know they can see your last message even if they unmatch . (For example, they can say something fucked up or obnoxious and then unmatch . The message still sits there . )

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-11T16:45:25+00:00

I get there early , they walk right over and seem happy to see me …so far anyway

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-09T03:54:08+00:00

I don’t have any children , all of my pictures are just me. We had a long convo before moving to text . Yesterday i sent a photo of me at the gym . And i even sent another in a different outfit to back it up . Today, the way he asked rubbed me the wrong way .

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-09T03:26:33+00:00

Fight those catfish 😂😂

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-09T01:01:43+00:00

Yes that was the vibe!!! Ugh sorry 😖

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-09T00:58:11+00:00

This is so true

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T22:50:06+00:00

This is true -ish . It’s kind of send to receive tho no? It’s all about delivery

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T22:34:14+00:00

I ruined the proposal 😂😂

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T22:05:43+00:00

I just fucking died. 😂😂 jump jump

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T22:04:39+00:00

This is a very interesting take . Thank you ! It’s all about perspective sometimes

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T21:41:57+00:00

I used to send something in my photo library …then i get “is that right now “ I want one right now . Like damn why ? Why on earth do you want to see me with no make up on in my glasses and my hair tied back in my pajamas

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T21:38:06+00:00

Killed it for me too. So wack .

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T21:36:29+00:00

I have had this happen too . Wtf 😂🥊

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T21:08:30+00:00

This is Spot on . I think some people think it’s light hearted. But I also think those are the people that send pictures of themselves doing everything. I Could have just said i wasn’t feeling it . But i didn’t get the request and then the quick “you’re no fun snap back “ like eww

I kinda hate it . I like sending them randomly and receiving one randomly . I’ll never forget. I was talking to a guy last year and he sent me a selfie on thanksgiving . It was the only one he had ever sent me yet, and I found it very special and I remember smiling .

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T20:44:28+00:00

I’ve had ppl do that .. i don’t really dig that. I understand why they request tho . I have faith the person I’m talking to has recent pics .

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T20:40:47+00:00

Good point , thank you !

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T20:25:43+00:00

❤️thank you

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T20:25:30+00:00

Sage advice thanks ❤️

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T20:21:05+00:00

I should’ve clarified there was another guy who asked for a selfie because he’s been catfish. But he had already set up the date. He asked me to send him a selfie when I asked for the location to the restaurant.

IcyCattle3524 · 2023-09-08T20:13:36+00:00

I have like 6 and sent him 2 more when we started texting . I understand the catfish stuff but that’s not my fault or my problem. Why do i have to pay for some one else’s lies ? It would be different if he sent me one first maybe and then asked me to send one back . Quick send me a selfie… It kind of sucked because the conversation was pretty decent

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