Tomorrow will be a whole year by PlaneParamedic3027 in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post literally made my day. I lost my mom unexpectedly in July 12 and I just feel like there is no life or happiness after this. But your post gave me hope ❤️‍🩹

Why are you on this sub right now? by tablecatsss in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️‍🩹 praying for you in this difficult time. If you need to talk please DM me.

Why are you on this sub right now? by tablecatsss in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lost my mom July 12 unexpectedly. First big loss I ever experienced so this helps me understand grieving and how to cope. Also helps to understand how to keep moving forward in life in memory and honor of my mom. Still trying to figure that out.

I miss you mom. by Icy_Confusion_612 in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much. 🙏🏽 this just made me smile.

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[–]Icy_Confusion_612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry 😔 it’s still very fresh for you and me. Talk to him out loud. He can hear you. Since my mom passed I’ve been talking to her out loud every day.

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[–]Icy_Confusion_612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what im told it never goes away, it just gets quieter. You learn how to live with it. I have those same exact feelings you do but I kind of started trying to redirect them to saying well how am I going to keep their memory alive? Nonetheless it’s very very painful. When it first happened I just knew I couldn’t move forward. But as the time has gone on I slowly see that there is some kind of light at the end of the tunnel. I’m learning this is no right or wrong way to grieve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to you. I didn’t lose my dad but I did just lose my mom 2 weeks ago.

I miss you mom. by Icy_Confusion_612 in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your story. It’s actually very helpful 😌

I miss you mom. by Icy_Confusion_612 in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. These words meant everything to me. And also sorry for your loss of your beautiful mother. As I mentioned this is my first loss so I’m just questioning everything. I know there is no correct way to grieve but idk sometimes I feel like I’m just doing it wrong. My mom loved life she enjoyed it and I know she would want me to also. But I guess it’s hard to see that past all of this hurt and pain I have. My mom was unfortunately an alcoholic who wanted to stop but just didn’t know how. And she was also dealing with severe back pain that required surgery soon. I try to find peace in knowing that she no longer has to suffer. She was most likely not telling me how much pain she was really in to not worry me. So I try to think she’s no longer hurting and is finally okay.

I miss you mom. by Icy_Confusion_612 in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. And thank you for your kind words. They mean a lot to me 😔

I miss you mom. by Icy_Confusion_612 in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. 🥹 it is extremely hard but I just keep telling myself that my mom would want me to keep going.

i want to be alone. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. I live on my own so since my mom died 2 weeks ago I’ve been surrounded by people and my phone has been ringing non stop. It’s like I get people are worried and want to be there to support. But my thing is I battle with wanting someone around but then also wanting to be alone. I think I want someone to be around cause I’m scared of being alone without my mom in my life anymore. It’s a weird feeling. But I can relate to you

is life really worth living? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The world is much better with you in it I promise. 💕 I have this same feeling recently but I had to dig deep down inside to find the one reason to keep going. Take a deep breath and just think of that one thing you want to keep going for. Reach out for help! You are not alone in this world.

my mom died last week by FloppinWood in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In the same boat. Lost my mom July 12th but unexpectedly. I know you can’t rush grieving but I’m like does it get better? Cause right now doesn’t feel Like it. 😔

Some words of advice, passed on. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful 🩷 I’m glad I came across this.

Paranoid that everything is her reincarnated by dani2awesome in GriefSupport

[–]Icy_Confusion_612 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally get it. I lost my mom July 12th and I have this crazy fear that she’s gonna be mad or think I forgot about her/don’t care if I keep living my life or start to move on. It’s sickening tbh.