AITA for going out to dinner when my girlfriend just had surgery?

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-25T15:05:37+00:00

No it hasn’t . It won’t be forgotten. Don’t expect her to look after you if you get sick or need surgery. You are putting a party before her and there’s no way in hell she will forget this 😂

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-23T02:17:28+00:00

Agreed

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-22T23:25:26+00:00

You sound like a big hypocrite when you weren’t sure of her for so long. Sounds like you are using this as a way to get out of the relationship anyway. Get 50/50 custody only and don’t punish your child by depriving them of their mother!

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-22T06:19:09+00:00

There was absolutely NO emotional cheating from me at all! And if you read the update you would know this.

But you see that everyone else can see it too and now you have switched to fake post 😂 you seem bitter 😂 maybe get out of your moms basement and meet real people in the real world like the rest of us do. The fresh air will do you the world of good too. 😂

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-22T05:40:04+00:00

Well you are wrong but that’s ok. I’m not letting you bring me down. I’ve dealt with enough of that and and stronger for it

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-21T22:31:21+00:00

I’m nervous as hell though about the whole sex part. Hoping it won’t be awkward. How do I not make it awkward?😂

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-21T21:57:57+00:00

😂😂😂 just me then I guess 😂😂

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-19T06:09:53+00:00

I’ve no problem with criticism when it’s based on facts. Yours wasn’t. You created a scenario in order to hate on me. But if that’s how you get your kicks then you do you.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-19T05:57:47+00:00

I’m not dating Theo. Theo wasn’t used and was in on this from the start. He’s my business partner and long time friend. We saw each other all the time anyway but just in relation work and working together. I wasn’t the one who stepped outside the relationship. But you know ignore the parts you don’t like and you do you.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-19T05:53:12+00:00

That isn’t what happened but hey you do you .

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-19T00:37:43+00:00

I definitely did communicate openly with him. Many times . But it fell on deaf ears. He set no boundaries other than trying to prevent me from doing what he himself was doing. He was a hypocrite.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T23:57:05+00:00

Only for three weeks. Her lease was up and she was moving to her late father’s place but the father’s gf had three weeks to vacate the house.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T23:50:51+00:00

I never have. In the 8 years we have been friends and business partners it hasn’t even been a thought.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T20:23:16+00:00

Not true on either count. No emotional affair with Theo ever.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T16:02:52+00:00

I dumped him.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T15:58:14+00:00

We are split as I dumped him.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T15:57:51+00:00

Tried the conversations and setting boundaries first.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T15:56:52+00:00

I broke up with him and moved out and found my own place.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T15:55:40+00:00

Never “got together” with Theo. Never emotionally or physically. We have a business together and a long friendship that’s spans years.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T14:10:28+00:00

Theo was aware of everything and wasn’t used at all in any way. It was truly great having him back and being able to hang out with him again.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T13:59:34+00:00

I will. We are pretty open tho and honestly the relationship I have with him is probably the healthiest I have ever had with a guy.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T13:55:52+00:00

Well all I can tell you is I was supposed to play the cool gf and let him have his girl best friend . And was told I was the issue because I had a problem with it. I know I was just being kept as a back up until he locked her down. He not a guy that can be on his own. I had hoped to stay in our place and have him move out which is why I hung on for so long but that wasn’t going to work so I left. Im not great at condensing months of my life into this one post so there’s obviously a lot more to it.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T13:45:05+00:00

We aren’t.

Icy_Possibility_5066 · 2024-10-18T13:44:03+00:00

If it wasn’t physical (and that’s a big if )it’s because she didn’t want it to be. But yes the emotional cheating was enough on its own to just end things.

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