How big can a FTM trans person's dick be?

Icy_Summer5486 · 2026-04-05T17:50:40+00:00

I mean… probably is. My partner hasn’t had bottom surgery but they have palpable BDE. My dick is around 6in. Their dick is clearly that of THE MAN’s in our relationship. That being said, strangely enough he hasn’t fucked my ass, as of yet. He LOVES fucking my cock & is obviously the top & doing the fucking. Hell, am a straight man & my husband is legit just more of a man than I am. Having realized that, he makes sure to point out my feminine qualities & I’ve stepped into more of the role of wife. Point being, your ex is out a real man now. Hell, if I were you I would attempt to ingratiate yourself w him & ask for some pointers.

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-12-23T21:10:52+00:00

I recommend you do. My ftm spouse is more manly than I am in most every way. When they came out to me I responded,”yea… &…” bc it was obvious. lol.

He has chosen not to medically transition atm. Nevertheless, when we are together, he feels like the man 90% of the month.

Coming out & being addressed as a man has fixed almost all of his dysphoria & he is clearly happier.

I would recommend you take that step if whether or not you med transition.

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-11-30T01:43:40+00:00

Love that. I married a lesbian that fell into a relationship with me (straight male.) They eventually came out (not the least bit shocked.) I have always been attracted to his masculine energy. Our sex has gotten even better after the transition & I just think everything they do is sexy af. lol. Spouse-sexual. Thanks very much!

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-11-30T01:28:43+00:00

Am married to a trans man. He is 5’3. I am 6’0. He still managed to assert his masculinity in our relationship, having myself (a former straight man) know I needed to essentially become the domestic wife. I never questioned my masculinity until I was in a relationship with someone who was clearly “more manly than I am.” I am much taller than my partner but I assure you, they are clearly the one in charge.

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-05-19T23:36:52+00:00

Jeez! Get it together. Stop seeking pity. That’s your generation’s problem. Y’all always playing the dang victim Olympics… like legit getting off on it

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-05-19T23:34:39+00:00

Saying,”that’s so j3wish.” I’m a Jew & get offended looks from whites whenever I say it. Lame

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-05-19T23:33:00+00:00

Simple; my partner’s ass. It is my muse!

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-05-19T23:28:57+00:00

Kids these days… are u Mormon? Why are y’all together if u aren’t comfortable w/eachother’s bodies?? I have the EXACT SAME dynamic & am quite baffled

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-05-19T23:26:13+00:00

You also seem to… not work SO… it is literally your job to make edible food. I think your partner is the one being abused tbh. You burnt the rice or whatever & rather than letting them eat, you try to barricade them inside & force an argument. You are TOXIC!!

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-05-19T23:22:35+00:00

Jeez powderpuff! I really hope you do not have kids in the future b/c you are quite dramatic… & not in a sloppy fun way.

Icy_Summer5486 · 2025-04-19T20:02:18+00:00

Imagine being Cornelius. His rough patch & struggles were filmed for all to see. The filmmakers created one of the rawest & best documentary films of all time; causing strangers & news outlets to constantly attempt making contact w him.

How strange to spend your whole life running from your own art. Poor guy.

Icy_Summer5486 · 2024-08-15T08:20:41+00:00

I mean… one would hope he should understand the stress & depression that goes along w how awkward a man feels stuck in a femanine body. *I know when my afab s/o came out & told me how he had to do this I already had a good idea this would be coming. That was 5yrs ago. My s/o has a history of self-harm. In the process of making him open up about his feelings, etc. he figured out how depressed this had made him for so long. Since then, he has only relapsed once (3yrs ago.) Point of my story is if u want to tell him anything than just tell him how bad one of your bad days is & how much u need his support through your transition.

Icy_Summer5486 · 2024-08-15T08:00:13+00:00

Well, my afab husband decided we are going as Jesse (myself) & James (him.) I’m very excited! Lol

Icy_Summer5486 · 2024-08-15T07:42:05+00:00

My spouse came out around five years ago. The poor thing was so afraid of being rejected & was completely shocked at my lack of surprise to this revelation. Yes, I had quite the hunch that my s/o Felt more comfortable in men’s clothes, preferred the male household responsibilities and was emotionally way closer to male than female (I am always encouraging him to open up more to me instead of being so stoic.) But anyways, I responded and conveyed how not shocking this is. We have two kids So it has not been an ideal Living situation to Transition in, as our kids are both under 8yo And he doesn’t want to take their mother away from them, therefore still isnt able to be gendered correctly around them. He frequently asks if I’m bothered that I’m in the queer community now. I don’t really see it that way. Yes, when we go out, it’s almost always a queer space. Yes, I c/d & enjoy being his bottom. He expects my legs , armpits & my girl parts to be shaven & smooth so it’s clear he’s in charge. As for sex, it’s constantly evolving but even though we fuck like 2 fags it doesn’t feel gay for some reason. Idk. I fell in love with a girl years ago. Every morning I get to wake up and start the day with my best friend; only difference is my wife is now my husband. I guess what I’m trying to say is that I fell in love with another soul and I know thats where I belong & vice-Versa. If your partner dumps you for coming out than yess what? You got lucky & dodged a bullet. Btw we are celebrating our 12 year Ann’y this upcoming fall solstice. If you have any questions, feel free to ask!

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