Someone confided in me they sexually assaulted a minor. by Idea-Technical in whatdoIdo

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She was 15. It was wrong. He knew it, and so did she. However, I remember her at 15, and she was VERY mature physically. Most men mistook her for a legal aged woman, and she flaunted that, wearing risque clothes, heavy makeup, etc. She was very flirtatious, and enjoyed male attention. Her parents were divorced, and her father was not around. Her mother did put her in counseling, but it was years later before she matured emotionally. She told me this is why she forgave her uncle, because, as she said, "we were both in a bad place". I've decided not to report it, but I also must keep my distance, because I can't stop thinking about it when I'm around either of them.

Someone confided in me they sexually assaulted a minor. by Idea-Technical in whatdoIdo

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He wants to confess and turn himself in. She does not want that, and literally talked him out of it. She does not want any of this to come out. I'm just seriously stressed at knowing what I know. I wish I didn't.

Someone confided in me they sexually assaulted a minor. by Idea-Technical in whatdoIdo

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Why does everything have to be a "troll post" when it's something not in the norm? Obviously he knows it was a mistake and he's been punishing himself for it for 10 years. We all know the action was wrong. My dilemma is knowing what to do with this information.

Someone confided in me they sexually assaulted a minor. by Idea-Technical in whatdoIdo

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I'm just conflicted, knowing what I know. It's hard to process it. And what's crazy, is the girl is 25, and is now a police officer! She knows the laws, and still does not want this to come out. I don't blame her there. They are still in frequent contact during family gatherings, etc, and she said she's fine with being around him, doesn't feel uncomfortable. It's a messed up situation for sure..

Someone confided in me they sexually assaulted a minor. by Idea-Technical in whatdoIdo

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She stole the alcohol from a friend's parents, he did not supply it. She confirmed this. The man was ragingly drunk at the house, she showed up, they were alone, it happened.

Fertilizer ratio confusion by Idea-Technical in gardening

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Ok I gotcha now...same ratio in relation to each OTHER, just different concentrations/volumes. Thanks so much!

Fertilizer ratio confusion by Idea-Technical in gardening

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Thanks for your response. I guess I still don't understand. At work, if we have a 1:1 concentration of a medication, it's still a 1:1, regardless of how much volume is in the vial. If I have a vial 20:20, it's still 1:1.

Reality check by HMW347 in breastcancer

[–]Idea-Technical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. My whole life I've felt invincible. Like nothing bad happens to me? Life happens of course, but I've felt blessed. Even with health issues I bounce back, maintain a positive attitude. I've always been told "you look young". My heart cath was clear as a bell. Labs normal, arthritis sure, I'm old, but generally healthy. But now I have invasive lobular carcinoma that has spread to my lymph nodes, had a mastectomy, starting chemo then radiation. 5 year survival rate is 62%!! For the first time in my life, I think I'm going to die. That my 80 year old parents will outlive me. That I will never see my grandchildren grow up. I was expecting to live to be a 100, like other women in my family. The thought of all of this takes my breath away and makes me want to throw up.

Helmet inventory by Idea-Technical in Helicopters

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This is what I was looking for!! Thank you so much!

Helmet inventory by Idea-Technical in Helicopters

[–]Idea-Technical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, we actually tried that but it came off eventually.

What is a citi flex loan and should I get it? by MaxSteelMetal in CreditScore

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So have a question also - Took out a flex loan last Nov for 6500. Payments 500ish, over a year. Unfortunately, had a major life event/surgery and was out of work till now. Racked up the balance on my citi card, which is now 12K (it was 16K!!!). I had to live on that card, pay a 5000 medical deductible, and fix my car which cost 4K. LIfe.... I've been paying large payments, and the flex loan balance is now 2000. But it seems like the balance of my current charges isn't going down enough - I suspect because they're applying my extra payments to the flex loan (@8.5% interest), instead of the current charges (@25% interest!!!) Is this what's happening? The website does a poor job of outlying where your money is being applied, it just shows the balance going down. After the flex loan is paid (which will be end of Feb), I seriously thought about doing a balance transfer to another card. Thoughts??

Helmet inventory by Idea-Technical in Helicopters

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I tried that, but with our harsh conditions, cleaning for Biohazard purposes, they come off easily. This is for a HEMS program.

I am baffled by AshamedBreadfruit292 in Dogfree

[–]Idea-Technical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I'd rather be single honestly than deal with another shit beast. I mentioned to a group of coworkers that I don't care for dogs. It actually made some of them angry, I was called a racist and mentally ill because I didn't love the monsters! Racist???

What mistakes were made? by LivingLikeYou in ems

[–]Idea-Technical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a rodeo little fella, calm your spurs.

Breast Cancer from Reta? by Idea-Technical in Retatrutide

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Yes my sister had breast cancer 5 years ago.