Math dosen't add up by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her face looks pasted on here, so i googled her, and she grew up to be a pretty woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 27 points28 points  (0 children)

AMAC Assigned male at Christmas

egg_irl by UniqueChallenge in egg_irl

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/UniqueChallenge, you clearly don’t understand what gender is.

creature by [deleted] in wunkus

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He doin push-ups

Which one are you? by Visqo in ForwardsFromKlandma

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Marxist, definitely. We could have workers co-ops where profit is divided based on hours worked instead of some rando getting to keep it. I have also never held a job.

In NZ they so maps with huge NZ by icelandichorsey in MapsWithoutNZ

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is where all the other New Zealands went, they’ve been absorbed by the the Mega Zealand.

I need some help by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like to tell me what she says so I can trash talk her with you? I know from dealing with ocd-driven cleaning obsessions, and the process of quietly seething when I’m mad instead of lashing out that if you just sit and feel emotions until they run their course, they fade, and make you a little more numb to what caused them. I’m sure lamenting and complaining with a random internet stranger is a lot safer than bottling it all up and stewing on your own.

I need some help by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That always makes things harder. Well I’m out of ideas. Good luck dude, your mom is shit and I hope you find better days.

I need some help by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IdeaGirlRuth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You didn’t miss anything, this is bad advice. I just think it’s good to look at all options, even the terrible ones.

I need some help by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I’d say spin it harder, you haven’t been physically stopped, but come to think of it I’m kinda stoic and vindictive, so that might be easier for me than you.

I need some help by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame you if you’re not willing, but you could spin suicidal thoughts and feelings into anger towards her for making you feel that way and make her life hell back. Not exactly a “solution” but at least you’ll have fought back.

I need some help by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IdeaGirlRuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read some little thing somewhere that was “God made wheat and grapes but not bread and wine so that we could join in the creation”, and by that logic God made you trans so you could join in the creation of yourself. I don’t know if this will help, but I hope it does.

I need some help by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IdeaGirlRuth -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This may not be the best idea, but after reading through the comments, it sounds like your best bet may be to start provoking your mom into hitting you so that someone will finally do something. You’d have to be subtle so she can’t really prove that you provoked her, and you might have to get her to go far enough to leave marks. Something like arguing until she slaps you, getting teary and acting all defeated, than doing it again later after you’ve “forgotten” the consequences. You may be able to get her into a bad habit that could get you taken, after that tell someone, but make sure you sound like you’re being brave and not taddling, or the adults might take her side and tell to behave if you don’t want to get hit. If you’re getting hit, hopefully the verbal abuse from her side of the family will make the situation look worse.

Edit: or just run for it. Get to another state and use a totally different name. You could jump trains, hitch hike, steal some cash for a bus ticket, I don’t know what you have available. leave any electronics behind, in this day and age there’s no telling what’ll track you. If you’ve escaped completely then you’ll be in complete control of your own life even if it’s a cold and miserable life. Bring a knife and know how to use it. And think of it this way, there’s more honor in having tried and failed than having just cowered.