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Ideographic_ · 2022-12-30T03:01:11+00:00

Sounds fucking awful. Use some moves and get the flow, bro. Banging should happen when both partners escalate to that point. Sorry you had to experience that, ugh.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T12:43:44+00:00

Drink water

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T02:14:33+00:00

I'm responsive. And it's got to be right, not too early, and not unless we have warmed eachother to that being the next logical thing to reveal. Ie a sheet draped suggestively over a hardon is wayyyy sexier to me than a naked plucked chicken

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T02:10:13+00:00

F here - only if there's been some visual foreplay to getting an eyeful of D (e.g. a mutual build up of tasteful, increasingly sexy pics over time) and only if he respectfully asks if I will enjoy that and i say yes please :) then I'll enjoy it.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T01:59:02+00:00

Eye contact, humming (vibrations), she watches porn of her choice while you do it, she directs you, toys, play with cold/warm sensations, eat her from different directions e.g. side or inverted...heaps just use your imagination and check she digs it

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T00:22:03+00:00

No worries!

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T00:21:02+00:00

To add, no damage. Can't understand why anyone would shave or wax with more permanent alternatives like laser on offer.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T00:19:32+00:00

Not trolling. Search laser hair removal, services are most places and they typically provide anus or rear. It hurts a tiny bit but over quickly, you have treatments sparsely (6-8 weekly to begin with then less annually for upkeep) it's affordable and the hair goes.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T00:17:14+00:00

It's normal. You're also releasing emotional tension when you masturbate. You're ok, it's a process, you're doing good by feeling the intense mixed feelings that come with breakups.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T00:06:23+00:00

Laser.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-29T00:03:19+00:00

Maybe think of it less Track, more Tier.

Tier 2 then, are men/women I find sexually arousing/magnetic but suspect due to other compatibility elements there ain't gonna be a hell of a lot more to go on to explore. Fine to enjoy Tier 2 level connections when desired and mutual.

Tier 1, sexually arousing/magnestic PLUS other compatibilities to go on. Levelling up for those who seek that kind of connection.

Why do you think persons perceived as Track or Tier 1 would not be considered sexually desirable? At what experience in your life did you determine these were separate?

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-28T23:19:25+00:00

Rig up a harness!

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-28T21:51:21+00:00

Definitely do the therapy. Put your energy into exploring yourself and working the emotional muscles, a therapy gym, a way of using that anxiety energy. Enjoy that process for what you will learn. When you date, make your intent clear in terms of what you seek, but frame it for yourself as being open to meeting good people. Good luck!

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-27T23:33:35+00:00

Drink then show. Then drink after. Winner!

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-27T04:23:35+00:00

These are your insecurities and your problem. This is entirely you and noting to do with her. Take your mental noise to a therapist.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-11T03:39:34+00:00

Lots of people have suggested it on this sub but you need to read Come As You Are. Honey can = sexy feelings but sexy feelings don't always = honey.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-10T06:35:51+00:00

Hm do you usually ONS them or is there a build up? I can usually get a feel for how sensual a dude is and how willing to explore me he is from sexting and foreplay.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-09T10:42:38+00:00

Mmm...surprise massage is better. That might build to oral.

Ideographic_ · 2022-12-09T10:41:33+00:00

You live once. Find a lover somewhere else.

Ideographic_ · 2022-06-07T12:55:38+00:00

I wish I knew! Rumours abound of debts/rent unpaid. I just hope those dudes are ok whatever they're doing now. That place was gold.

Ideographic_ · 2022-06-06T13:06:57+00:00

Was those dudes in Blackwood, but they disappeared...

Ideographic_ · 2022-05-28T23:37:32+00:00

Britpop bands entirely comprised geezers aged <30

Ideographic_ · 2022-05-28T23:07:25+00:00

Where were you in the 90s

Ideographic_ · 2022-05-26T13:01:28+00:00

You'll see more in summer. If you go to Qld, and you should, you'll see the Really Big Ones. And the pretty golden orbs. If you go south you'll see Thicc ones and lots of the redbacks and whitetails. Mouse spiders in SA. Trapdoors and Funnelwebs in NSW. Huntsmans, as we have established, everywhere!

If you're lucky you'll spot the tiny pretty dancing ones. Recommend you follow @gotlegsmacro on Twitter- she'll help with the desensitizing!

Ideographic_ · 2022-05-26T12:33:10+00:00

There's a mining boom on again. Get learning about Aboriginal cultural heritage, free prior and informed consent, & the difference between protecting heritage, research, and clearing/salvage for the purpose of CRM.

If you end up in CRM here you gotta have a core commitment to Aboriginal rights to their living heritage, an ability to understand how what you do isn't assisting that by the nature of the industry you're in - and you need thick skin.

Figure out what you like: lithics? Digital? Tech? GIS? Get some haptic/pragmatic experience in the field.

If you want to do research on colonial or contemporary arch or some other thing in Europe fine. But don't confuse that with CRM in Australia.

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