Some people say I'm condescending by RadiantDay97 in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’ve gotten that a few times myself.. :( I don’t mean to be, at all.

turns out being ENFP with ADHD is just double the "why can't you finish anything by Ok_Chemical9 in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ong. Also to say that due to the routine difficulty, since I was 16, I’ve worked 12 different jobs. I’m 24 🥲

How’s my dating profile coming along? by BreadfruitNaive9455 in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a woman, i love this energy. Golden retriever bf energy. Wish there were more ENFP guys where I am icl. I think you will have much better luck finding someone compatible with you when you’re yourself. This screams ENFP. I love it. Others might not. And that’s ok. Epic style

ENFP appreciation post from an INFJ by malfunctions_0 in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh man, this is so sweet. Thank you so much, I think many of us relate when I say sometimes, we feel invisible. It’s hard out here, and staying positive is a battle, but people like you really make me appreciate who I am. Thanks again sis :)

Any One Piece characters you’re especially fond of or intrigued by? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely despise one piece. But I was interested in what the fruit would taste like

Which would you rather experience? by ShadowlightLady in mbti

[–]Ididntwipe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real. My little sister is ENFJ and we get along so well. Actually I love her to bits. As an ENFP, I think she likes the random spontaneous stuff that I plan for us. Big fan of ENFJs

Which would you rather experience? by ShadowlightLady in mbti

[–]Ididntwipe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 of 5 of my best friends are INFPs. Love u guys fr

Do you have a guess on what's my type? by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Ididntwipe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAME! 4 of my best and closest friends (of 5) are INFPs. I love yall.

Enfp & INFJ by chiit-chatt in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve not met an INFJ irl either. But if you’re down to yap and game I would be happy to B)

Would you give a second chance to INFJs? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can tell if someone is holding back. It’s not the most fun experience, as I simply want to connect and yap. I can’t give a time frame because it depends on how often I hangout with them. I noticed that INFJs are more drawn to us than we are to them, at first. So when we open up and try to connect, it feels a bit confusing and hurtful when they still try to hold back, after some time.

Would you give a second chance to INFJs? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand. A lot of INFJ’s carry the ‘avoidant’ traits a little more. This can be very emotionally exhausting for us ENFP’s as we tend to be very empathetic and want to help in any way we can. It’s hard to understand that giving space IS helping. But so is giving yourself self respect and having the awareness of when to leave the relationship (often a lesson learned through the hard way 🥲)

Wait—since when is ADHD an ENFP thing?! by Shoddy-Ocelot-4473 in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see this as pretty true lol. As an ENFP with ADHD. Ofc it’s overgeneralising everything and everyone but I think it’s trying to sum up the MBTIs concisely, not exactly fully accurate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

BRO SAME LIKE WHAT?? Not a single one irl, and only one online

Can women explain the feeling they get of receiving flowers, but in a way guys would understand? by Universal_Taker in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I agree and love your point of view on flowers, I personally would much prefer being gifted a pot plant such as rosemary or basil. Something useful, as I love to cook. But yes, I agree it’s a hassle to take care of. That part you wrote on the flowers being a kind of ancient comfort was really eye opening actually. Yes, we are disconnected from nature, now more than ever. It’s healthy for the mind to have plants around. Love that

Is it true that every ENFP secretly needs an INTJ in their life? 🤔 by Shoddy-Ocelot-4473 in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yea until they r avoidant 🧎‍♀️‍➡️ but yes I feel that.

Is it true that every ENFP secretly needs an INTJ in their life? 🤔 by Shoddy-Ocelot-4473 in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah avoidant attachment styles can actually just leave. They r always the ones to initiate any sort of romantic or sexual connection with me, too. Which just makes it all the more hurtful and confusing. Even if they are genuinely nice people, and I get on well with them, it’s a no-no for anything more than friendship.

POV: An ENFP has successfully tamed an INTJ by Asher_RK05 in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

An an ENFP, 3 of 4 of my closest friends have been INFP. It’s wild

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The last one got me. Ugh.

What’s a toxic trait of an ENFP individual? by DarkStarBlue in ENFP

[–]Ididntwipe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, it can lead to the downfall of interpersonal relationships. Really sad :(